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Relationship Questions

Like I’ve mentioned in previous posts, I like to do these question tags from time to time. They’re purely for myself so that I can read back on them and see how much I’ve changed - if at all - from post to post. It’s just a fun thing for me but feel free to read and answer them yourself :)

1. Are looks important in a relationship?

Definitely important but not the MOST important. For me personally, as I want/have a relationship where I have sex with my partner, it’s important that I am indeed physically attracted to them.

2. Are relationships ever worth it?

The right one absolutely is.

3. Are you a virgin?

Haha nooooo.

4. Are you in a relationship?

Have been for almost 2 years

5. Are you in love?

Very much.

6. Are you single this year?

I have never been so taken in my entire life, no I am not single this year.

7. Can you commit to one person?

Of course, it’s the way I prefer to be.

8. Describe your crush

A bearded man with a heart of gold <3

9. Describe your perfect mate

A bearded man with a heart of gold that can rattle the bed’s head-board like a sailor on leave!

10. Do you believe in love at first sight?

I believe it does exist but I’m also a firm believer that love grows over-time.

11. Do you ever want to get married?

For sure!

12. Do you forgive betrayal?

Depends on the situation and how deep the betrayal goes.

13. Do you get jealous easily?

Honestly, no. I have complete trust in my partner. But I can definitely be insecure sometimes.

14. Do you have a crush on anyone?

Just my partner and Kovu from Lion King 2

15. Do you have any piercings?

Only my earlobes

16. Do you have any tattoos?

Yas. I have *counts* 6

17. Do you like kissing in public?

LOVE kissing in public. Anything in public is great for us, both romantically and sexually.

18. Do you shower every day?

No. If I haven’t done much of anything that day that causes me to get dirty that day, I don’t bother showering (I’m a night-time shower kind of gal). I wash my hair once a week, twice if needed. I have colour-treated curly hair so I don’t have to wash my hair as much.

19. Do you think someone has feelings for you?

I’d hope my partner does!

20. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?

I’m talking to my babe on the phone as I’m typing so I’m guessing yes!

21. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?

Um YES! What kind of question is that?!?

22. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years?

Not married but engaged is a big possibility! My partner and I have talked about how we want to be together for a good amount of time before getting engaged and married.

23. Do you want to be in a relationship this year?

Yes, I’d very much like to stay in the relationship I’m in please XD

24. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?

My partner and a couple of previous relationships have.

25. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you?

Indeed! I’m a sucker for a romantic jesture like that, but I’ve defintely had them when it’s been a bit too premature in the relationship.

26. Have you ever been cheated on?

Yes and it felt awful but I forgave them and stayed with them for another year and a half.

27. Have you ever cheated on someone?

Once. It was when I was very young and very stupid. I felt awful about it but even people around me said at the time that they didn’t blame me because of the awful type of person I had cheated on.

28. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body?

I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t and, unfortunately, I think most girls my age would also agree with that statement. Types of surgeries I’ve considered have been breast augmentations, gastro related surgeries, lip fillers, nose jobs etc. RIght now, I’m quite happy with my body the way it is. The main reason that I probably will never get plastic surgery is because I know it wouldn’t be for myself but because I’ve been influenced by others and society and that just isn’t healthy.

29. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl?

Oh 100%.

30. Have you ever experienced unrequited love?

Yes and it felt like shite.

31. Have you ever had sex with a man?

Yup.

32. Have you ever had sex with a woman?

Yup.

33. Have you ever kissed someone older than you?

A few of them have been quite a bit older than me, yes. Aaah to be a youth.

34. Have you ever liked one of your best friends?

Definitely. I feel like everyone does at some point.

35. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?

Oh absolutely. I dated this guy once that turned out to be very creepy, stalked one of my friends, and did drugs. So I escaped that one fast!

36. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?

Hee hee, definitely. I’m still with him! The most pleasant of surprises.

37. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?

Indeed. That’s the trajedy of being human.

38. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone?

Yas. I am quite the poet.

39. Have you had sex so far this year?

It’s March, I’d be so dry if I didn’t XD

40. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?

Depends on the kiss. If it’s clearly just a moment of pure love, it will take a good few seconds and even then it’s only going in the hair or behind the neck etc. If it’s apparent that we both want it to go somewhere, I’m going there almost immediately. But take my time making my way down.

41. How long was your longest relationship?

2 and a half years.

42. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?

I’ve had 3 boyfriends in the past and 1 person that I’d say I only dated.

43. How many people did you kiss in 2011?

I dunno... probably like one or two people? I was 14/15 XD

44. How many times did you have sex last year?

HOW THE FUCK SHOULD I KNOW?!?!? I mean if I had to guess a ball-park number, it would be somewhere between 55-80??

45. How old are you?

26 but I’m mentally like 5

46. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say?

If we’re talking about the person I’m in love with right now saying that they are genuinley interested in dating someone else... I would say that I’m really confused, very hurt but that I’d talk it through with them. But in the end, his heart has probably attatched to this new person and I’d simply want them to be happy, even though it’d hurt like a bitch.

47. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her?

Hard to choose just one but one that sticks out to me is that he is undoubtedly my biggest chearleader. He pushes me to do my best and lifts me up when I’m down.

48. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept?

I’d take the gifts and then kick him the fuck out!

49. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for?

Yes uwu.

50. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why?

I’ve defintely had to cut a few people out of my life over the years because they were either too toxic or simply did not make as much effort to water the friendship as I did.

51. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are?

Hell no.

52. Is there someone you will never forget?

Quite a few throughout my life come and gone but never been forgotten.

53. Share a relationship story.

I had a relationship that turned from a close friend to friends-with-benefits to boyfriend very quickly. We were together for no more than 6 months. I eventually decided to end it because I realised that I was actually scared to approach him about many things. When I told him this, he immediately was very mature and told me “Yeah okay, if this is truly how you feel then it’s not fair that we continue this relationship.” We ended on literally the best of terms that I could imagine for a couple. We’ve messaged only a little since but I do genuinely wish him the best. I bump into his dad a lot who I adore as he is just so lovely. Also has a super cute dog. Not the craziest of stories, it’s just very real.

54. State 8 facts about your body

I have a steel rod in my right leg along with many screws and a metal plate because I was hit by car.

I have 6 tattoos, one of which I share with my mum.

I love my strong arms but haven’t always.

I have around 10 scars on my body: most very big, some you can barely see.

I’m not fond of the hair on my toes that I have to shave often.

My two biggest scars are on my stomach because I suffered from reoccuring tubo-ovarian absesses for over a year and almost died multiple times.

I really love my hair as it’s very curly (and currenlty bright red so v fun).

I actually lost over half my hair due to the many surgeries I had to have and needed to cut it all to my above my shoulders to even it out.

55. Things you want to say to an ex.

One thing I told one of them already and that is “thank you for making me a stronger person”. But I’d love to tell to another ex that he really looks like a predator now and that he really needs to escape the eagle-clawed clutch of his mother.

56. What are five ways to win your heart?

Remember little things I tell you from time to time.

Bring me my favourite snack when I’m sad.

Give me tickles (especially on my back) when I haven’t even asked for them.

Take me to places where we can pet animals.

Respects me on the streets but disrespect in the sheets ;)

57. What do you look like? (Post a picture!)

I have bright red, ringlet-curly hair that falls just below my chest. Grey eyes. Arched eyebrows. Thin but pouty lips that are very smiley. Rounder in the face but I have my mother’s pointed chin. Very pale vampire skin. Freckles all over my arms. Curvy, pear-shaped figure (got that booty). I have a small pale mole just above my cupids-bow (I like to think it’s a very pale beauty mark but who we kiddin?). I have very long toes but they’re always painted red to distract you. I have very strong arms. If you want a picture, look at my profile, silly.

58. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners?

If only relationship partners counts then around a year older than me. If any partner counts including sexual partners, then 20 years older than me!

59. What is the first thing you notice in someone?

Their smile or eyebrows (or beard if they have one).

60. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you?

Taking me suddenly by force in public, not giving me a chance to think about it, and just doing whatever they want to me

61. What is your definition of “having sex”?

Being sexually intimate with someone that leads to any form of penetration where either a penis, sex toy or fingers are used.

62. What is your definition of cheating?

If a partner has violated a boundary set by one or both parties. For me, that’s being romantically or sexually intimate with another person either physically, emotionally and/or through online platorms (chat, roleplay, etc.).

63. What is your favourite foreplay routine?

When it’s very passionate but teasing. Like constantly getting me close and then denying me the full satisfaction until we go to the... final act, for lack of a better phrase. Depending on the type of session we’re having, the foreplay can be tender and loving or rough as hell. I love it all.

64. What is your favourite roleplay?

Myself and my partner honestly don’t engage in much roleplay due to personal preference. But we love me in a school girl outfit or when I’m in a dominatrix type outfit and I take control. I guess one we’ve done a few times is when I’m the owner and he’s my dog and vice-versa. Probably worth clarifying that gimp/inflated suit gear is involved in this.

65. What is your idea of the perfect date?

Go to a place where you can pet animals in the day/afternoon. After that, go to a tapas or buffet type restaraunt where you can choose a little bit of everything to eat. Then a theme park or pier fairground in the evening where we can kiss at the top of the ferris wheel.

66. What is your sexual orientation?

Bisexual. I am sexually attracted to both male and female. But I feel I can only fully give myself sexually AND emotionally to a man.

67. What turns you off?

Anger over very small things, extremely bad hygeine, and any mention of family right before the deed.

68. What turns you on?

Doing things in public, latex and not being able to move when having sex (i.e. gagged and bound)

69. What was your kinkiest wet dream?

Probably when I once dreamt about fucking my partner whilst he’s in a vac-bed and there are other girls around me waiting to have a turn.

70. What words do you like to hear during sex?

I mean I love a mixture of everything really. Obviously some are better for different types of sessions. But anything that involves being called a slut, beautiful, an object, fuck toy, onahole, etc. I love being objectified but also love being praised.

71. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you?

Give me really good all over body tickles and kisses for like an hour straight right before I go to sleep.

72. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for?

I mean... I guess I do admire someone that is financially secure. Not necessarily amazingly rich but secure enough that they could support me if there were ever an accident and I couldn’t work for a period of time.

73. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you?

When I broke my ankle and my partner literally SPRINTED to come to my aid. Also didn’t go back to work and took care of me until I was better. I mean, that is one of the many sweet things that my partner has done. Also booked a Golden Retriever Experience for my birthday where we got to sit down and cuddle 30 retrievers, it was the best day ever.

74. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone?

When I had a big surgery when one of my ovaries was removed (age 24), I reached for my phone as soon as I woke up and called Luke, my partner. We had barely started seeing each other at the time but in my heart he was the first voice I wanted to hear, in my very weak state. He said it made him so happy and he was lying on the floor crying.

75. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?

As long as it’s legal and you’re both on the same page maturity wise, go for it. My partner would tell you to half your age then add on 8 years. If they are that age or older, then it’s okay.

76. What’s your dirtiest secret?

I’ve been on public sex walks on multiple occasions... not that much of a secret though!

77. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why?

I don’t know honestly... I have irrevocable trust in my partner.

78. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?

About two minutes ago.

79. Who are five people you find attractive?

My partner, obviously

Hugh Jackman

Henry Cavill

Emma Watson

Russel Howard

80. Who is the last person you hugged?

My partner

81. Who was your first kiss with?

A girl called Katy

82. Why did your last relationship fail?

Because they were bullying my best friend behind my back and I wasn’t having that at all

83. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet?

I have and, after that experience, I honestly wouldn’t recommend it personally. I have major respect for people that are able to move their relationship off the internet to real life. But I’m in a long-term, happy and healthy relationship now that I can easily say is the love of my life so I don’t have to worry about dating ever again.

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