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Oh to be in a niche tumblr circle i need mootsssss

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I just want to be the prettiest girl you know, the one that got away

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I want pink hair xo

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princess affirmations

🎀 i always get what i want in life, i'm the princess :3

🎀 i don't chase, i attract

🎀 i really am the cutest girl ever!!

🎀 everything always goes my way

🎀 i love being my sweet and adorable self

🎀 i look exactly how i desire

🎀 i only have sweet intentions for everyone and myself

🎀 i am going to live the life i have always dreamed of

🎀 i deserve the best in life

🎀 i'm soft and sweet like a vanilla cupcake

🎀 how is it that i'm so adorable, sweet, kind, and loving to everyone and myself?

xoxo, tianna 💋🎀

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"𝒞𝓇𝓎, 𝒞𝓇𝓎..."

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When a girl smiles at me, I think of her in my prayer for months

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i was diagnosed with bipolar 1 at 13 but no one’s ever talked to me about it so idk what’s normal or how to regulate so now at 20 i cry and pout and don’t know how to behave like a 20 year old :)

“I am out with lanterns looking for myself.”

- Emily Dickenson

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probably needed a hug. went completely nonverbal and dissociated instead

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The No-Therapist Guide to Becoming Emotionally Untouchable (In a Healthy Way)

by Soleau Club

Let’s get one thing straight: we’re not anti-therapy. We love a licensed bestie. But sometimes you need a DIY plan to emotionally boss up before the co-pay clears.

This isn’t about going cold and cynical. It’s about becoming so emotionally grounded, so tapped into your own self-worth, that nothing—no man, no comment, no chaos spiral—can knock you off your center. It’s giving inner peace in a La Mer headband.

Here’s how to build that calm, hot girl shield from the inside out—therapist-free (for now).

1. Master Your Morning Like a Main Character

Emotional regulation starts before your phone does. Instead of waking up and diving into Instagram-stalking your ex’s new “situation,” start your day with rituals that ground you:

Water with minerals or lemon (hydrate like you love yourself)

Breathwork or a quick journaling brain dump

A short walk, stretch, or just sitting in silence

One non-negotiable: no scrolling for the first 30 minutes

The goal? Presence. That’s where your power lives.

2. Stop Making Every Emotion a Personality Trait

You’re allowed to feel annoyed. Tired. Even irrational. But you’re not obligated to make it your identity.

When a mood hits, say: “I’m experiencing anxiety right now.” Not: “I am anxious.”

Tiny shift. Massive emotional freedom. You’re not your feelings—you’re just vibing through them.

3. Move Your Body (Even When You’re Over It)

Somatic release is the real MVP. You don’t need a full-on reformer moment every day, but:

Walk

Stretch

Dance in your kitchen like you’re in a perfume ad

Do Pilates until your body feels like silk and steel

Emotion lives in the body. Movement moves it through you.

4. Boundaries Aren’t Rude. They’re Regal.

You are not here to be “nice.” You are here to be clear.

Emotionally untouchable girls:

Don’t explain their “no”

Don’t entertain drama for closure

Don’t attend every conflict they’re invited to

Protect your peace like it’s Chanel.

5. Talk to Yourself Like You’re Someone You’re Obsessed With

You can’t build emotional strength while bullying yourself inside your own brain. Replace the internal mean girl with your most elegant inner hype woman.

When in doubt, say:

“That was hard, but I handled it.”

“I don’t chase—I attract.”

“We’re still that girl. Always have been.”

Because we don’t speak lack over ourselves anymore. Period.

6. Be Boring (But in a Hot, Stable Way)

Emotional chaos used to be romanticized. Now? We want soft mornings, early nights, and nothing but green flags. Emotional stability is sexy:

A calendar you actually stick to

Friends who make your nervous system feel safe

No impulsive texts or midnight spirals

Sometimes “boring” is just healed in disguise.

7. Don’t Let Other People’s Energy Rent Space in Your Nervous System

Not everyone deserves an emotional reaction from you. Seriously. If it’s not:

Paid

Pretty

Peaceful

…it’s probably not worth your energy.

Not everything needs a response. Sometimes you just let it roll off you like dew on a matcha cup.

Being emotionally untouchable isn’t about becoming numb. It’s about becoming so self-led, so emotionally secure, that your peace is permanent. Unshakable. And dare I say… magnetic.

Follow @soleauclub for more high-frequency healing with zero toxic positivity.

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i got a new tattoo for my birthday, his name is booberry :-)

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Weekly Witchy Planner ✨ 🗓️

This Weekly Witchy Planner helps you align your intentions with the energy of each day—beginning with Moon-ruled Monday. Tap into your intuition, explore dreamwork, and try simple rituals to stay connected to your path.

Perfect for witches, mystics, and spiritual babes who love structure with a touch of lunar glow. Align your magic with the energy of each day.

🌙 Monday: Moon Magic

The Moon rules emotions, intuition, and dreams. Best for: Dreamwork, self-reflection, water magic, shadow work.

Simple Monday Magic: 🌙 Pull tarot or oracle cards for the week ahead. 🌙 Write down your dreams when you wake up. 🌙 Perform a self-love ritual under the moonlight.

🔥 Tuesday: Mars Energy

Mars fuels action, strength, and courage. Best for: Protection spells, motivation work, physical empowerment.

Simple Tuesday Magic: 🔥 Light a red candle to ignite courage. 🔥 Start a new project you’ve been hesitating on. 🔥 Wear something bold to embody warrior energy.

🌿 Wednesday: Mercury Magic

Mercury rules communication, learning, and travel. Best for: Spellwork involving truth, clarity, messages, and mental focus.

Simple Wednesday Magic: 🌿 Charge your phone, laptop, or journal with clear intentions. 🌿 Practice automatic writing or spirit communication. 🌿 Craft a sigil for focus and productivity.

🌸 Thursday: Jupiter Blessings

Jupiter brings expansion, good luck, and abundance. Best for: Money spells, growth rituals, gratitude practices.

Simple Thursday Magic: 🌸 Light a green or gold candle for abundance. 🌸 Write a list of blessings you're grateful for. 🌸 Start a prosperity altar or charm bag.

🖤 Friday: Venus Vibes

Venus governs love, beauty, relationships, and pleasure. Best for: Love spells, glamour magic, art and creativity.

Simple Friday Magic: 🖤 Make a beauty potion (like rose water or honey masks). 🖤 Cast a glamour spell before going out. 🖤 Write a love letter to yourself.

🌑 Saturday: Saturn Stability

Saturn deals with boundaries, discipline, protection, and endings. Best for: Banishing rituals, self-discipline spells, grounding work.

Simple Saturday Magic: 🌑 Set clear personal or magical boundaries. 🌑 Cleanse your space to banish stagnant energy. 🌑 Burn a black candle for strength and protection.

☀️ Sunday: Sun Energy

The Sun shines on success, health, and vitality. Best for: Solar magic, healing rituals, celebrating life.

Simple Sunday Magic: ☀️ Charge crystals or magical tools in sunlight. ☀️ Perform a solar blessing or confidence spell. ☀️ Go for a mindful nature walk and soak in life force energy.

✨ Aligning your magic with the days of the week makes every day a ritual. ✨ Which day are you most excited to work with this week? 🌿🖤

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