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“feminism benefits men!!”

no, not really. trust me, if it really was beneficial to men they’d be in full support of it instead of cherry picking parts of it that allows easy access to women’s bodies. i get so much second hand embarrassment watching women try to sugarcoat feminism to men only for them to reject it. even when choice/libfems say that feminism is about equality men reject it. why? it’s because men don’t want equality and telling men that it’s about it instead of it’s true purpose, female liberation, won’t make them listen either. stop trying to pander to men.

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everything that makes men “suffer too under patriarchy” ultimately circles back to misogyny. men don’t suffer because they can’t cry or express their emotions, they “suffer” because they deem these actions as feminine and don’t want to be seen as woman-like. that is woman hating, not suffering.

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I saw this from the female separatism subreddit & the responses are some of the biggest reasons for separatism et al (or extinction if I'm being candid here). Moids cant be reformed they are fully aware of the hell they force women to live in. MaIe achievement & happiness is rooted in female exploitation & life. Their glory days are based on our horrific days. No amount of love, kindness or facts will change maIes and we cannot happily or even neutrally coexist with them.

Main points across answers:

Many want to experiment but not permanently be women

They dont want to be in constant danger or lose their autonomy at the hands of maIes for merely existing

They dont want to deal with childbirth (& periods)

They dont want to have to share spaces with species much stronger than them with ulterior motives

It makes me go crazy seeing people give moids benefit of doubt for their evil like "maIes just dont understand", "we need to teach maIes", or claiming that maIe violence is a result of maIes struggling with (expressing) their feelings. I get that women love maIes and it can be hard to imagine that people can intentionally be so evil but it is what it is. MaIes have no problems expressing themselves, abusing women is what maIes choose to do because they enjoy & benefit from it - that is their expression.

MaIes see the same news of women being abused, raped, and killed like we do except rather than be disheartened or alarmed they're either apathetic or satisfied. It isn't aliens that's committing GBV it's maIes & maIes have no problem reminding women of this when women anger them (such as rape threats & threatening women they'll end up on the news/true crime). The victim blaming, denial, and derailment of misogyny is part of the game to keep the system alive, they know the events occured & are a systemic occurence they just dont care. Hell not only do they not care, they rejoice in it or get off on it.

MaIes set up environments that work in their favour which simultaneously ensures that women will lose. They know women are set up to live in damn near impossible conditions for us. It's normalised for women to defenselessly share personal & private spaces with beings much more stronger than them with ulterior motives for us, it's trap. It's interesting how these moids aren't saying that they'll just cover up and *poof* harrassment gone, or they'll just pick a nice guy & they'll be okay. MaIes know the net negative they are towards women.

MaIes know that childbirth is a painful process & what do they do? Demand it happens and make it even MORE painful for women. MaIes that impregnate women do not love or care for them. Pregnancy itself is dangerous & sometimes lethal, often comes with a range of health issues, to cause someone to be in that condition especially in a environment where abortions are illegal is reckless & unloving. Now imagine how sinister & full of hatred one has to be to impregnate someone and abuse them on top of that. Many women risk their health & lives to reproduce with a Y and they get abused by said Y instead of being taken care of. Deranged.

Realising that maIes are aware of the evil they inflict is one of the things that radicalised me. It isn't a miscommunication or ignorance issue, their violence is intended. They want control. The cruelty is the point. Instead of wasting time & energy trying to change maIes or hope that they "understand" one day, focus on yourself & other women (who prioritise women). Moids aren't oblivious to female pain they enjoy it. A lot of women treat maIe evil like it's a mistake on maIes part but it's calculated terrorism. I know that this will go over many womens heads as they refuse to hold strong negative sentiments about moids as a collective so if you're not a woman like that, take this post as a sanity check. You aren't crazy, it isn't all in your head.

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I think I've finally realised what exactly my problem is with the whole anti-immigration of men from specific countries due to their misogynistic culture. And it's an issue that I've been having with white people who oppose immigration as a whole.

I have a few problems actually, and let it be known I really could give fewer fucks about these men; my discomfort lies in the fact this movement is harming women of colour.

1) You've recognised that men from countries where violent misogyny is normalised in their culture, but you refuse to help the women from these cultures fight against this violence. You use men of colour to generalise your hatred against men, and you do nothing to help the violence against women. Essentially, your misandry overpowers your love for women. You'll look at the harm being done to Muslim women in Middle Eastern countries, and you'll shout, "See what these violent men are doing! They're evil!" And completely blindside the victim women.

2) A lot of immigrants from certain parts of the world move to the West due to the fact that they have destabilised their countries. The working-class westerner will hear this and go, "But it isn't my fault this is happening; it's the government's," yet you're complicit in this destabilisation and do nothing about fighting against it. Resources are taken from these countries to create products that YOU consume. If you're so unhappy with all these immigrants bringing the violence from their countries, violence your country aided in creating, why aren't you fighting against your government, who are causing this harm? You don't want violence in your country, but you're happy to allow it to happen elsewhere at the hands of your higher-ups. It's not that you want to end violence against women; you want it to stop against the women who look like you and turn a blind eye to the women who don't.

3) You refuse to acknowledge that your Western men have been just as bad. You're so quick to forget the horror of colonialism that white men have done to women from other lands. When you see violence from men of colour against white women, you're quick to forget the horrible violence that your own men do to you. The only thing that changes men's actions from country to country is law. If they suddenly legalised rape today in a Western country, do you think the rates would remain the same due to how Western men were socialised? Even with the laws in place, there's a horrible amount of misogynistic violence and femicide against women in the West.

4) If you really cared about the violence immigrant men brought to the West, your arguments wouldn't so heavily centre on white European women. The violence immigrant men do to white women on the streets is already horrendous, so imagine how it is with the non-white women of their family in the home. Yet, you have no desire to talk about them.

5) If violence from men from certain countries being brought to your land was the issue, I assume you'll be quick to advocate against men immigrating as a whole? Men as a demographic have the opportunity to be violently misogynistic, no matter where they come from. You oppose more misogynistic men from entering your countries, yet I see you have no issue with a Polish white man coming into your country even if he were raised in a misogynistic culture, too. I wouldn't have any issue with this argument if white radfems were

Advocates against the destabilisation of foreign countries, which causes people to flee their countries and go to the West.

Vocal about the mistreatment of women of colour in foreign countries who are directly impacted by misogynistic culture. Both women who reside in their home countries and who are in the West.

You admit that all men are raised in misogynistic culture, and activism claims that damage control by not accepting men from specific demographics only helps to uphold the power white Western males have on you.

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And what war are women calling for or acting out against men? This is why you guys sound deranged when you go on these rants, because the woman's side of the "war" is like ranting on her blog about men that gets like 5 notes a post.

And then you look at men's side of the "war" and there's rape, violence, trafficking, mutilation etc. This is actually so unserious. Wait until you realize the way a lot of men treat women and girls is in direct correlation to how they both view women and men, including the dynamics between both.

Good gosh, shut up.

misandrist feminists are so insufferable omg "men havent suffered anywhere near as much as women have" ok do you want them to???? do you want more suffering in the world is that what you want

they're so caught up in hating men that they're no better than terfs and swerfs girl you aren't uplifting anyone shut up drink some tea and go outside

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“porn always existed and always will. it’s human nature to seek and create it.” Okay but until the last couple decades or so, “porn” didn’t mean “billions of graphic videos of women and children being abused, available in my own pocket at the click of a button, and that children are seeing and being influenced by every second of the day”

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All of this was so dumb and not a single take was one I could wholeheartedly stand behind.

Gosh, look at our feminists dawg, we're never making it out the the cold iron grip of men.

Yeah I'm a member of the LGBT community... Lesbian Gay Bisexual Terf

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i hate this white website every day it’s “well i can excuse racism but i draw the line at transphobia”

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women with deadpan humor get behind me. a man is about to miss your joke and explain that what you said is not accurate

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People who think it is some type of new sexual orientation to not be interested in casual sex are special types of silly.

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we have a very healthy victim/abuser relationship, actually, thanks for asking

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I'm gonna get back to writing my thinkpieces on here. I'm literally just being lazy right now.

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one of my biggest gripes with bdsm & "taboo" kink discourse was the overused "coping mechanism" defense that i hear oh so much. especially on twitter, from women in heterosexual relationships.

i won't go into the "not all coping mechanisms are good coping mechanisms" argument, but i will propose this;

when you are allowing a man to engage in a non consensual fantasy, or incest fantasy, or otherwise violent and abusive fantasy, what trauma is he coping with and relieving?

is he getting off to helping you re-contextualise a situation where you lost all control, in a controlled and safe environment? or is he enjoying the power to hurt & abuse you that you are offering to him on a silver platter?

and do you think, that at the end of the day, your safety & healing is what turns him on? or the fact that he can freely abuse a traumatised woman, under the guise of "fantasy" and "sexual liberation"?

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yes i do think that you beating and choking your girlfriend during sex is still abusive and idc if she consented or not you’re still a freak sorry :3

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“teehee the trads are just into d/s 🤭” i mean i hate how violent misogyny is a joke to you but i do appreciate your accidental acknowledgment that certain kinks are largely rooted in the same misogynistic ideals as heteropatriarchy at it’s most extreme. not that i would ever expect you to reflect on that.