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do any other black women ever feel so overwhelmed by misogynoir? not to sound like i’ve got a victim mentality (or whatever black women are told when we speak on these things to get us to be quite)

but between us being villainized and painted to be the aggressors in everything, our abuse being either overlooked or made fun of, the double standards for us compared to other women, and just the way we’re judged and picked apart about our hair, the way we dress, and talk, just exist…….😐 makes me want to say screw this and just throw in the towel. i want to go somewhere where there’s only black women, but there’s no place like that and i feel totally defeated.

i don’t know why i let it get to me like this, and i don’t know how to stop it.

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Oh no...

It would be awful if everyone called and just... started going on about their special interests.

Or putting their child on the phone to talk about that big bug they found at recess.

-fae

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“There is still time to change the road you’re on.”

— Led Zeppelin

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Breathe like you’re allowed to be here. Because you are. You’re allowed to take up space. You’re allowed to make noise. You’re allowed to need things and people. Your allowed to need accommodations and help. You’re allowed to cry and to laugh as much as you need and want. You’re allowed to ask questions. You’re allowed to be passionate. You’re allowed to be messy. You’re allowed to be strange. You’re allowed to be a paradox of things. You are allowed to be here. You are meant to be here. Live like you are.

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the best time to consume media is like 5 years after its peak popularity

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Neptune in Aries: Watch out for those who want to build you up just to knock you down.

Neptune in Taurus: Gifts, love bombing, liking what you like, mirroring you - while being welcoming or comforting is great, be careful of people who try to get to know you too fast.

Neptune in Gemini: Watch out for the persuasive, charismatic, and cunning. Be careful of those seeking information to exploit you.

Neptune in Cancer: Remember, niceness and kindness are not always the same thing.

Neptune in Leo: Be careful of those trying to build up your ego, of people who will use your trusting nature, generosity, or optimism.

Neptune in Virgo: Watch out for people using your work, skill, knowledge, or labor for free or without appreciation.

Neptune in Libra: Be careful of lovers and close friends who don't have your best interest in mind.

Neptune in Scorpio: Watch out for people who want to make you feel small.

Neptune in Sagittarius: Watch out for people trying to keep you ignorant or those who take advantage of your naivety or hope.

Neptune in Capricorn: Watch your back for those who may be praying for your downfall.

Neptune in Aquarius: Be careful of those who will try to make you into something you're not.

Neptune in Pisces: Watch out for people who will use your kindness, forgiveness, or easygoingness.

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Wunmi🔥🤎

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decentralize and clean up your life!!!

use overdrive, libby, hoopla, cloudlibrary, and kanopy instead of amazon and audible.

use firefox instead of chrome or opera (both are made with chromium, which blocks functionality for ad-blockers. firefox isn't based on chromium).

use mega or proton drive instead of google drive.

get rid of bloatware

use libreoffice instead of microsoft office suite

use vetted sites on r/FREEMEDIAHECKYEAH for free movies, books, games, etc.

use trakt or letterboxd instead of imdb.

use storygraph instead of goodreads.

use darkpatterns to find mobile game with no ads or microtransactions

use ground news to read unbiased news and find blind spots in news stories.

use mediahuman or cobalt to download music, or support your favorite artists directly through bandcamp

make youtube bearable by using mtube, newpipe, or the unhook extension on chrome, firefox, or microsoft edge

use search for a cause or ecosia to support the environment instead of google

use thriftbooks to buy new or used books (they also have manga, textbooks, home goods, CDs, DVDs, and blurays)

use flashpoint to play archived online flash games

find books, movies, games, etc. on the internet archive! for starters, here's a bunch of David Attenborough documentaries and all of the Animorphs books

burn your music onto cds

use pdf24 (available online or as a desktop app) instead of adobe

use unroll.me to clean your email inboxes

use thunderbird, mailfence, countermail, edison mail, tuta, or proton mail instead of gmail

remove bloatware on windows PC, macOS, and iOS X

remove bloatware on samsung X

use pixelfed instead of instagram or meta

use NCH suite for free software like a file converter, image editor, video editors, pdf editor, etc.

feel free to add more alternatives, resources or advice in the reblogs or replies, and i'll add them to the main post <3

last updated: march 18th 2025

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FAMILY!!!

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Blue Flag Iris

Upper Peninsula, Michigan

June 18, 2025

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Annie gotta be the one to do school drop off because the one time she sent Smoke to do it, he canceled the first day of school.

At 8.30am Annie gets a notification that their daughters were marked with excused absences for the rest of the day. Then, Stack's messy ass sent her a video of Smoke and the girls at the donut shop.

Both of her daughters are happily scarfing down doughnut holes and chocolate milk in their brand new school dresses while Smoke admires them.

His eyes are still teary from where he started crying in the drop off line at the idea of his babies being all grown and at school (Kindergarten) all day instead of with him.

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hey btw fictional smut is not real sex. since i know there's plethora of young audience here who reads thinking they need to be like the porn in fics, no you don't. let me tell you that tits come in all sizes and it's normal. sagging is normal. stretch marks, scars, hairy bodies are normal. strawberry skin is okay. hyperpigmentation in pelvic region is normal. not every pussy is light barbie pink. a vagina looks like a vagina; you don't have to be grossed out. most of the women can't squirt at all also can't cum with just vaginal penetration. 6 inches is big. always use protection. prep it before you put it in. don't ever try anal without lube and stretching. not everyone cums like seven times back to back. aftercare is important. and lastly for the love of god, do not ever try cervix fucking.

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16 bunnies

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David Alan Harvey BRAZIL. Rio de Janeiro, RJ. 2011. A girl runs into the water.