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India is a country full of wondrous natural beauty, home to stunning and fascinating ancient architecture, the birthplace of many ancient philosophies, the originator of countless delicious vegetarian foods dating back thousands of years, and has billions of hardworking and intelligent people. These are just a few reasons I love and respect India as a westerner. Unfortunately, the violence Indian men perpetrate against Indian women and girls (not to mention other problems like religious extremism, caste discrimination, or colorism but this clip is specifically about VAWG) tarnishes its reputation. Mallika Sherawat is a patriot for speaking out for women and girls. She is not in any way the cause of India's "bad press" by pointing out violent misogyny. It's the violent misogyny, bro.

Malika Sherawat SPEAKS out about the violence against Women and Girls in INDIA

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"Heartbreak: The Political Memoir of a Feminist Militant" by St. Andrea Dworkin

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Signal boosting just in case anyone needed to cry today...Afghan women and girls deserve better.

Don’t forget Afghan women 🩵

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I have a very sweet group of 13-14ish year old girls following me so I just wanted to say a few words about safety and grooming really quickly because I’ve been (hopefully needlessly) stressed about this and it’s sometimes more subtle than like. Asking for nudes

• Adults you meet online should not be talking to you about sex. Full stop. This includes smut, their sex life, your sex life, and “educating” you about sex. If an adult is talking to you about sex in ANY context, BLOCK THEM. Once again, THIS INCLUDES FANDOM SHIT. That is still inappropriate.

If you’re curious about sex, which is Totally normal, you can ask a trusted adult or mentor figure you know IN REAL LIFE, and if you don’t have one, there are lots of very straightforward and strictly educational resources at Planned Parenthood’s website and

• As much as I value younger girls as people (this is not a dig at y’all ❤️), it is weird to be an adult and be CLOSE friends with a young teenager. Even if you don’t perceive your interactions as inappropriate, it’s weird.

This is not because you’re not interesting or fun, but because adults really have nothing in common emotionally with eighth graders, and ALL of us know that. Every single one of us. An adult has nothing to gain from confiding in a person in a middle school. If a grown man or woman is telling you their deepest, darkest secrets, messaging you about their problems on a regular basis, or asking you to confide in them, that is a red flag. Block them.

• If an adult is complimenting you on your appearance in any way that you would not compliment an 8-year-old, BLOCK THEM. It’s completely not appropriate for an adult to tell you that you look hot, your makeup is sexy, etc. That’s fucking weird.

• If they talk about how mature you are for your age, BLOCK THEM. You might very well be mature for your age, but you’re not mature enough to change the fact that you’re in a completely different life stage than a grown adult.

(This applies to the 12-14 crowd—not telling you to block your 18 y/o friends if you’re 16 haha)

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only rapists and slavers buy sex!

Feminism was supposed to create empathy towards prostitutes to help them out of the situation, not to validate it.

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Gender is a social construct you damn freaks

do y'all really fucking think

this

is inherently different than this?

Like, if i’m a woman and wear a blue “"men’s shirt”“ i become an abomination androgyne?

Do y'all really think if i’m a woman and do physical labor, “be practical and rational” chop wood or fix cars, i automatically become a man?

you believe this is innate?

This is how women are supposed to be?

And this is innate too?

Let me tell you something, notice how “masculine” clothing is practical and natural. No performativeness there. Not talking about behaviour, just natural comfortable clothes.

also notice how “"femininity”“ is fully about performing. It’s shallow. Full of pretending. That’s why women don’t shave their body hair when no one is around. That’s why women don’t put on makeup in their homes. That’s why women don’t wear bras in home or with people they’re comfortable with. That’s why women don’t wear tight uncomfortable clothes or platform heels alone. It is completely about erasing your natural features and force the unfortunate people who must perform (women) it to adhere to stupid and impractical behaviours to be available for objectification for the male gaze. Gender roles are invented and forced to limit and stupify women. The ultimate femininity is achieved through thousands of hours of “bimbofication”, plastic surgeries and of course, determination. Women focus on this. Spend hour after hours making sure they’re completely hairless with utmost flawless skin, enchanced beautified features, etc etc… While men put on jeans and get it over with. I’m not saying men don’t have bodily stereotypes, but theirs is just to be big buff and healthy, assertive and strong while for women it is, frail, delicate, fragile, weak, taking as little space as possible, look like an extremely beautiful lifeless doll, behave, submit, obey, and most importantly to look as beautiful as possible, talking as little as possible. Do you really think women are born like that? With an innate desire to put on pink nailpolish? To only wear frilly floral dresses with heels? To spend thousands of time on their hair makeup and removing body hair? If you really insist these are all “your choice” you are stupid. Who is the corporate leader of sephora? A white man. Who is the corporate leader of these companies?

This is DIOR’s corporate owner. He makes the profit from your insecurities.

This is sephora’s CEO.

This is sephora’s owner.

Don’t believe me? Just google it!!!

Socialisation, plays a damn role in this. It’s not shameful to admit it that society have brainwashed you. And no, i’m not “misogynistic” because i criticise femininity or makeup. I have made myself believe that it was MY CHOICE to PROUDLY put on eyeliner and harsh chemicals (foundation) on literally everyday. That’s why i starved myself for months, it was MY CHOICE isn’t it? It really isn’t, my life improved so much when i finally admitted it wasn’t. Your “nobody is putting a gun in your head” argument is invalid. The gun isn’t material, it’s the isolation and dissaproval people face for the consequences of their actions of not appeasing to society. These companies as capitalism always does, profit from your insecurities and brainwashing by society. You can unlearn your socialisation. Nobody goes and gets a usually failing surgery for purely cosmetic purposes because “they chose it”. It is brainwashing.

“Makeup feminismmm UWU” is not feminism. It isn’t empowering. It doesn’t challenge the status quo. It enforces it. If you want to be free, stop caring about what people say about your body. Your face or beauty. Beauty is irrelevant. Yes you feel good when you see yourself as a “pretty kween”, this is still your socialisation. If you were to be stuck in a natural disaster or a famine, your beauty wouldn’t matter.

Your beauty doesn’t inherently contribute to your happiness.

Your beauty doesn’t contribute to your worth.

It is patriarchal to think you have to be beautiful to be happy.

Don’t fall for that.

Gender roles = gender stereotypes = gender.

Gender isn’t innate.

GENDER IS TAUGHT.

GENDER IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT.

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It's all connected. Corporations began marketing gay pride themed merchandise. An increase in "I-identify-as" populations began to flood gay bars and events, where outward appearance (marketed as "gender expression") became heavily emphasized.

Commercial visibility and marketability does not equal human rights progress.

Ability to consume does not equal citizenship to an oppressed group.

Biology, (referring to sexual orientation and sex) is not a brand you can buy into or boycott out of.

Corporations selling rainbows do not reflect our values.

The churning out of new "all inclusive" pride flags to pledge allegiance to is not indicative of liberation.

A historical homosexual slur being sold by the multi-billion dollar media obfuscates predominantly lesbian relationships ("queer women", "queer relationship") and retraumatizes many gay and lesbian people.

Gay pride only extending to people able to purchase detracts from the meaning of gay pride and distracts from the struggles of the most vulnerable. It positions the most privileged within marginalized and oppressed groups as those who represent the whole.

And associating body modification, aestheticism, and "expression" with self identity turns the lived experiences and material realities of entire subgroups of people into niche market categories that people who aren't even a part of these groups can identify into and out of based on social trends.

Biology becomes devalued, overshadowed by the social and manufactured "genders". Infinite genders means infinite target audiences. Lived, material realities of certain groups of people become materialism.

Human rights movements are becoming human rights industries, with the wealthy more directly capitalizing off of the exploitation of the poor, of the homosexual, of the female, of the immigrant, of the dark skinned, of the mentally ill, of the disabled, of the sick, of the marginalized and oppressed.

Don't buy into it.

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We are seeing a genocide against lesbians, autistic children, and those suffering from mental illness. "Masculine" females: you are perfect the way you are. You are worthy of love. You are desirable. You are someone's dream come true. You don't need to be less of yourself to be accepted. Why do you crave acceptance from misogynists? You are my heroines. I love you.

Extract from comprehensive article where space is given to all voices. Highlighted above is the more gender critical aspect voiced within article.

Read on here : https://www.thetimes.co.uk/magazine/the-times-magazine/meet-alex-bertie-the-transgender-poster-boy-z88hgh8b8

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This is all you need to know about men.

Rape is one of the most heinous crimes, and the most heinous individual crime. Both because of the act itself and because it‘s an extremely sex-based crime — it‘s a direct war on women. And yet men talk about it and commit it so nonchalantly, and on a larger scale they‘re not even held accountable for it.

The system lets them get away. The system lets them know that they CAN do it. The system ALLOWS it.

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No such thing as "sex" with a child. It's rape. Children can't consent. Their brains are under-developed until age 25-30. If they are pursuing an adult, the adult should reject, redirect, and leave. The child who acts this way is a raging red flag and has most likely been groomed and abused already. No good person would ever indulge the sick fantasies of an abused child.

I've never watched Game of Thrones or any of its related media but its stressing me out that one of the most popular media properties on the planet right now glorifies abuse and incest to the point where mass media takes it as a cue to normalize sexual abuse. No cosmopolitan, incest fantasies are not hot. Women and girls are disproportionately the victim of grooming and incest related sexual abuse. "Incest fantasies are hot" only if you are a man or a male pandering woman with shit for brains.

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The WHO’s Congo office has a total allocated budget of about $174 million, and its biggest funder is the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.

The U.N. health agency continues to struggle with holding perpetrators of sexual abuse and exploitation to account in Congo. A WHO-commissioned panel found at least 83 perpetrators during the Ebola response, including at least 21 WHO staffers. The youngest known victim was 13.

In May 2021, an AP investigation revealed that senior WHO management was told of sexual exploitation during the agency’s efforts to curb Ebola even as the abuse was happening but did little to stop it. No senior managers, including some who were aware of the abuse during the outbreak, were fired. (continue reading)

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the images in porn are disturbing. yes even the non-violent ones, because it is healthy and normal to feel discomfort when you see other people have sex, as you witness an intimate moment that is not yours. like a peeper. and most people dont have a voyeurism fetish, but porn makes you a peeper by nature and if it doesnt make you uncomfortable its because you have been desensitised, not only to the abuse and suffering you see on screen but also to crossing boundaries. and i can only imagine the repercussions that has for your sexual partners. but yeah sure keep watching

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I think the real key to helping women unpack why they claim to enjoy BDSM is asking not about their own arousal, but their boyfriend's. Example:

Why does he get off on you saying "no" and "stop"?

Why doesn't he get turned off when someone begs him to stop during sex?

Why does he get hard to see you bruised and hit?

Why isn't he turned off at the thought of you being hurt?

Why is he turned on by thinking about you beingc hurt?

These are questions that just don't have ~sex positive~ answers. They shine a light on how men are into role playing sexually assaulting their girlfriends.

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I wish torture and pain upon them all.