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[Image Description: Nine square transparent textless Ichika Hoshino stamps from Project Sekai edited to have a blue pacifier. /end ID]

paci edits ichi stamps 💫

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honami very nice. help while sis (cg) is away. very scary when sis not here but honami huggie me and tell me it ok nd igll be ok and me calm down

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honami!! i liek her very nice and soft voice when speaking to me and how her hugs and cuddles are so cozy . she never judges me, even if im nonverbal and scared

If you don't have a fictional caregiver, just share wif me your fav plushie 💖

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Neopets Islandberry Crunch Cereal (2006) 🥣 🥛 🏝️

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Imagine…your cg comes home to find you curled up with a stuffie on the couch…they scoop you into their arms n kiss your forehead…and take you into the kitchen to make you a warm bottle of milk and talk softly to you the whole time, reassuring you that “[cg name] is here, it’s okay baby, you’re doing so good for me”…they feed you your bottle and put you to bed, tucking you in, reading you a bedtime story…staying until they’re sure you’re asleep…imagine how safe and cozy wahhh

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[🗣️] Shoutout . . .

Shoutout to my Exhausted Littles and Caregivers.

to the little ones who didn't get out of bed today.

To the Caregivers who haven't had the energy to care-give!

To the Caregivers/Littles who barely ate or are only now getting something. Im proud of you

To the littles who don't have the energy to regress

To the Caregivers who Simply Existed today

To the littles who are trying their bests.

To the caregivers doing the best they can.

I see you, and i'm proud of you. Its okay to have off days, Its okay to have unproductive weeks. You'll get back into it in no time, just rest for now, take care of yourselves. - Syris <3

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☆ autistic regressor leo/need icons .ᐟ

pls like or reblog if you use, credit optional! /ᐠ 𒒬 ﻌ ^ マ

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How do you ask an involuntary age regressor if they are regressed??

Hi there

Someone who is involuntarily regressed might not always be aware of the fact that they're regressed, and in some cases, they might think that they're actually whatever age they're regressed to. If that's the case, instead of just asking them if they're regressed, you can try saying something like "how old do you feel?" or "do you feel small?"

I'd also suggest trying to talk to the regressor about how they would prefer you asking, and perhaps asking them if there's any signs you can look for that indicate that they're regressed.

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𝐈’𝐕𝐄 𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐂𝐄𝐃 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐍 𝐌𝐘 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐓, 𝐒𝐎 𝐈 𝐂𝐀𝐍 𝐑𝐄𝐌𝐄𝐌𝐁𝐄𝐑.

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a smol miku i drew a couple of months ago and reworked recently

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Steiff plushies!

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i wamt sis (cg) to huggie me. everything scary nd unsafe but sis hug protec me from bad stuff

want cry but sis mak it better

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Could we possibly get some positivity for age regressors with BPD? 💖

I don't have BPD, so I'm not super familiar with the struggles people have to face with it being a part of their life.

Some of my friends have it, they basically describe it at often times "feeling too much of everything", other times "feeling nothing at all" and a lot of the time "an utter panic of being abandoned by anyone and everyone". I can only imagine that being really scary, especially when small.

Feelings are complicated for adults to deal with and little ones are even more vulnerable. And with those big feelings heightened even more, kiddos with BPD definitely don't have it easy.

I'm really proud of you, little ones! You're so incredibly brave and your feelings are valid.

It's okay to have tantrums and cry and to let out all those feelings, as long as you (try to) keep yourself and others safe while doing so!

You're doing a really great job, dealing with all those big emotions, just know you are not alone. You are not just "being dramatic". And I know you don't want to hurt people. Sometimes emotions make us do things we normally wouldn't do, and since you tent do have more intense emotions than others, that might happen more often for you. But that doesn't mean you are a bad kid. It's not your fault. You are important. You are valid and you are so very loved.

I hope I did ur request justice! Apologies if I said anything out of line, please let me know if I did!! I'm really not super versed on this topic!

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vent ahead

i just want to be held by my cg. they cant be here all the time and me gets that, but being tiny and mentally ill makes it very very scary. i want cg, I don't want cg to leave me

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Coping with uncomfortable emotions while regressed (some things that work for me) sorry for some being repeated there's just some that work for more than one of these

Anger: punch a pillow, scream into a pillow, tear up paper or crumble it up, squeeze a stress ball, tightly hug a stuffed animal, play with putty, slime, or clay, write down whatever is making me angry and possibly throw it away, cry a bit if needed.

Sadness: cry it out, snuggle up with a stuffie, watch cute or funny animal videos online, color a picture, play with my cat, read a lighthearted children's book, watch cartoons, play pretend with my stuffies.

Anxiety: chew on one of those chewy things, get myself a warm drink like tea, coffee, or hot cocoa, fidget with a pop it or another fidget toy, take a warm bath, hug my stuffies, listen to music, try to remind myself I am safe, cry if needed.

Trauma memories (TW): try to focus on something other than my body like a cartoon or video game, punch my pillow and imagine it's my abuser, let myself cry, remind myself that what happened wasn't my fault, hug my stuffies, listen to some music, color a picture, read something, drink a warm drink like tea, coffee, or hot cocoa, do some arts and crafts, take a bubble bath if I am comfortable doing so.

Grief: hug and snuggle my stuffies, watch things I associate with them (bluey and some Disney movies), play pretend with my stuffies, cry if I need to, drink a warm drink, color a nice picture and possibly hang it on my wall, remember that it's natural to feel sad over the loss of a loved one, know that they probably would have wanted me to continue living and to do my best even when they are gone.

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Something something regressor Aether having a melt down and Kaeya having to pick up the pieces and comfort the boy to the best of his abilities.