#impure regression

[dino-boyo-agere]

Hey little one!

Oh, you had a bad day? I'm really sorry to hear that.

There's no need to apologize, sweetheart. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be upset, just let it all out.

You wanna hug baba? That's right, it's okay.

Look, baba got your favorite plushie! Let's hug them too, as tight as we can, yeah?

Do you want baba to put more pressure on your body? Wrap you up tight in my arms?

You don't have to be sorry, it's okay. I love you. I love you so much.

Thank you for trusting me. I'll hold you till you feel better.

I'm not going anywhere, I'm here for you.

Baba is always going to be here for you, darling.

You're so lovable. You're worth the world. You're my world, little one.

I'm here with you. Yes, and with plushie.

Oh, was that a giggle? No? It's okay, you can giggle and still be sad. You can giggle and still cry. Feelings are complicated. But we got this.

You got this. And I got you.

You're so brave. I'm proud of you. Dealing with all those big feelings.

Baba is so proud!

.ﾟ｡.･.*.ﾟ☆❗only interact if your blog is SFW❗☆ ﾟ.*.･. ｡ﾟ.

[crayola-critter]

no agere is impure. this includes:

involuntary regression

tantrum filled regression

symptomatic regression

people who regress to older ages than “normal”

poc regressors

queer regressors

alterhuman regressors

autistic / mentally disabled regressors

physically disabled regressors

alterhuman regressors whose alterhumanity doesnt go away when regressed

regressors who dont have titles on their regresson

non themed regression

hypersexual regressors

animalistic age regression

regressors who hate regression / are negatively impacted by it

regressors who dont have gear nor desire it

age stunted regressors

autistic regressors who have sensory issues with common things in the community

i love you and i see you. you are just as important in this community as everyone else. all regression is equal even if it is different for everyone. im sorry you have been labeled as less than, tainted or dirty. you are still valuable and valid. you should have a bigger space here.

[chesters-kiddo-corner]

Age regression safety graphics masterpost 💙🦋🐬🚙

reblog for visibility! Free to use, save, share, repost, no credit needed

Sources: Nemours TeensHealth, Know2Protect.gov, Know2Protect.gov, @cozy-cg

It has come to my attention that online safety is not taught, so I wanted to put together a compiled version of some helpful information I know and have gathered for my fellow regressors. I hope this helps someone!

[puppys-tiny-space]

🖍️Tips for tinies that struggle with hypersexuality🖍️

First of all it is completely valid and fine to struggle with hypersexuality while regressed or before regressing. This can be for any number of reasons and all of them are okay! It does not make you any less valid or precious. You deserve healing, love and gentleness. I will also be making a post for affirmations to deal with impure regression and hypersexuality.

🧮stop regressing if you need to, if intrusive thoughts or feelings get too much stop regressing, take a break from it, clear your head and calm down🧮

🧃do affirmations, remind yourself that you are precious, your regression is healing, you are clean and deserving of love🧃

🖍️avoid triggers, if you know what triggers hypersexuality try to avoid them extra hard while small, if it is not having close skin contact, not wearing tight close or whatever🖍️

🧮don't be shy to cope, cope however you need to, let out your painful feelings, scream, break things, run or write whatever helps you let it out do it🧮

🧃do not act on it, do not act on intrusive thoughts or feelings no matter how much you think it might help it won't, it won't make them go away it will make it worse🧃

🖍️journal, journal about your feelings, about what hurts and what helps, build skills that work for you, they don't have to be what other people do, it is your healing and nobody else's🖍️

🧃talk it trough, talk about your feelings with somebody, be it a therapist or somebody you trust, you deserve a safe space🧃

🧮teach yourself, teach yourself you do not need to do sexual things to deserve love and kindness, you have a right to gentleness and to being fragile, you don't have to be pure to be loved🧮

🖍️don't compare yourself, comparing yourself with others is never a good idea especially not with this, it might feel like you are alone with this issue but you are not, others struggle with it but most regressors don't talk about it as it's a very personal thing🖍️

Fun fact of the day: you can tell the difference between rocks and fossils by licking them

[shhtickerbook]

CONSENT WITHIN AGE REGRESSION SPACES

So apparently this is a controversial take as when I posted about this topic on the agere subreddit, a lot of people didn’t agree which was incredibly worrying. The fact this is even considered controversial is ridiculous.

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EVEN IF AGE REGRESSION IS ENTIRELY NON SEXUAL, CONSENT IS STILL EXTREMELY IMPORTANT.

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Age regression isn’t sexual, for most it is a coping mechanism and for some people, something they may not have control over. But when we are interacting with other people and involving them in your regression, said people have every right to be able to consent whether they feel comfortable. Somebody telling you that they’re not comfortable being around somebody regressed is not them being bigoted or ableist. And consent isn’t only ever necessary in nsfw spaces.

(I am not joking this is exactly the words people said)

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Ignoring somebody when they tell you they’re not comfortable around you regressing, is extremely unfair and disrespectful. Especially if you are in a public space, where drawing such attention (such as loudly baby talking, using pacifiers etc) could possibly put yourself and other people at risk of abuse or even assault. You wouldn’t say that somebody who’s uncomfortable around real babies is a bad person because the baby can’t help being a baby. People also have the right to say they’re uncomfortable around somebody regressing, not to mention the huge amount of pressure of somebody feeling like they’re now responsible for you.

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Your regression is still YOURS to manage. We may be babies sometimes, but it’s our responsibility to still be aware of those around us. Struggle with involuntary regressing? Try keep a survival kit on yourself of discreet toys and equipment. But another thing

If your regression is to a point where you are constantly involuntarily regressing to the point where you can’t care for yourself, you may need serious medical help. Age regression is a coping mechanism, and if it’s affecting you this severely, it’s likely not healthy for you.

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So find the people in life who love engaging with your little self, and please don’t make non regressors feel like they’re bad people because they aren’t good with regression. Everybody has their boundaries and they have every right to have such! 90% of the time they don’t hate you, or even regression as a whole. It’s just not for them! Everybody’s comfort is valid, not just ours.

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[fishiegirl]

i really wish a had a mama right now.

i need someone to put me on her lap and rocks me back and forward to calm me down as i sob. for her to brush tangle strands of hair as i cry, cooing me and telling me that everything will be okay, that as long as im in mommy's hands nothing bad can happen to me.

[tnyfoxx]

tw vent

having so much love in your heart is all fun and games until youre sitting in your room sobbing because no one can love you as much as you love them

[babibirbcrow]

I want to be babied. I want to be held a cooed at. I want to be told how good of a boy I’ve been and how I’m such a good little. I want to be praised and cuddled and pat and I want so many face kisses. I don’t want to feel icky every time I regress. I don’t want to feel like a bother. I don’t want to feel like I’m in trouble whenever I do it. I just want to be a soft little puppy boy. I want to play and be pet and given treats and taken care of. Genuinely taken care of not just baby sat or watched I want someone attention all on me. I want to be the most important thing in that moment even if it is a little selfish. I just want to be a good boy.

[theclowncarcircus]

Impure!Regression Ghost who bites, hits, and spits, only to apologize later through a mess of snot and silent tears. He doesn't want to hit, he's just so overwhelmed sometimes, so scared.

Impure!Regression Ghost who hides in closets, behind couched, and under beds because he needs a tight enclosed space that he's hard to get too.

Impure!Regression Ghost who cries, and cries, and cries. Chest heaving because he keeps trying to hold his breath, face red, cries silent to avoid being a bother, getting in trouble again.

Impure!Regression Ghost who needs to be slowly, softly calmed, approached like a deer ready to buck and flee at any moment. He needs to be reminded he's safe, he's loved here. If he wasn't how come Soap has his favorite snack? How does Price know the words to his favorite lullaby?

Impure!Regression Ghost who has an amazing team of caretakers who are always there whenever he slips, no matter how hard. Who now gets to end those bad moments, wrapped up in a warm hug, with a full belly and sleepy eyes.

[dragon-queen21]

Agere prompts: Angst

tw: Injury, character death, toxic relationships, past abuse, etc.

~Regressor with chronic nightmares afraid to wake up their caregiver (maybe because cg suffers from insomnia, also has nightmares and they feel like they should tough it out or they were told always as a kid to never wake someone up)

~Regressor who was reaching for their sippy cup and knocks over and breaks a glass cup in the process a: caregiver gets angry with them after saying repeatedly not to use a regular glass small b: regressor panics because they’ve never broken something before

~Regressor who’s injured and have to take care of themselves

~Caregiver suggests their regressor has a playdate with another little. Regressor thinks their caregiver is trying to get rid of them.

~A caregiver with two littles, regressor A scared that caregiver won’t have enough love for them both. They either a: try and be on their best behavior and get the other in trouble b: act out to prove that cg never loved them

~Character A overhearing that Caregiver is used to taking care of a certain age range of littles which is not character A’s age range (ex: adoring how cute baby space regressors are, or how independent middle regressors are and ‘complaining’ about how taking care of A is a lot different to what they are used to)

~Regressor mourning their caregiver

~Regressor mourning a toxic caregiver. Sure the relationship was unhealthy and did more harm than good, but it’s hard not to still miss that person

~Hearing a song cg used to sing or hum to them before sleeping and trying to find a music box that plays the melody but nothing fits

~Regressor mourning their actual childhood.  All the things they didn’t get to do, the way they were treated, the people and places that are no longer in their lives, etc.

~Regressor not wanting to slip around Caregiver because they are watching other littles and they don’t want to put more responsibility on their plate

~Nonverbal caregiver who never told regressor that they struggle with speech at times. Regressor who doesn’t know this and thinks they did something wrong and are being ignored

~A regressor experiences verbal shutdown and their caregiver becomes angry.

~Babysitter forced into the role of looking after a regressor

~Caregiver promises to always answer the phone whenever their little one needs them. One time they don’t answer

Masterlist

[cuddlesandsnuggles]

I just wanna be someone’s baby ;-; I want to held and loved and cuddled ;-; I just want to know someone cares about me ;-; 😢

Banner credit: @kodaswrld

[puppys-tiny-space]

🩹i wish people would be less negative about the term impure regression, I understand why some people don't like it and of course nobody has to use it if they don't want to but it's nothing bad. Sometimes my regression is impure, I feel dirty, unsafe and scared and thats okay. I don't have to be pure and healthy to be loved. I am allowed to struggle, I am allowed to be angry and an emotional mess, I am allowed to be all that and more and still be loved. Your regression doesn't have to be pure and innocent to be valid, it is allowed to be messy, dark and scary at times. There is nothing wrong with impure regression. You don't have to use different terms because of what other people say, do what comforts you.🩹

Fun fact of the day: avocadoes aren't vegetables, they count as fruit

[shhtickerbook]

there’s something so bittersweet about being an age regressor in a toy store. Going down aisles and carefully tracing the packaging of all these different playsets and dolls. All of the things I never got to play with as a child.

Yearning so terribly to pull open these colourful boxes and play to your heart’s content. Choosing my favourite little figure and walking them from room to plastic room. Mind fizzing with ideas and games.

But instead i stand apprehensively, are people staring at me? Do they think it’s weird that I’m here? I put the box down, even when a kindly worker approaches and asks if I need any help finding what I need today.

“Oh sorry no it’s not for me, it’s for my baby sibling.”

Every time.

[lemonys-place]

idk who the frick thought the term impure regression was nice but it's incorrect. that sounds so dumb. oooh you're sad or experiencing smth less than positive while regressing or its triggering your regression?? "oo that's impure cos everyone knows regression is only happy silly fun colors good time and not at all a very common COPING MECHANISM and therapeutic tool" /s (it is not and never has been only joy and good and silly, and it has always been a coping mechanism and it isn't even voluntary for some people!!!)

Regression exists on a spectrum, you can experience it in a variety of ways, there is no Pure way to regress. that's ridiculous and puts the unnecessary connotation of Good and Bad on people who are just trying to cope or get out of their head or don't even mean to regress at all.

NONE of my regression is impure regardless of the reason I'm regressing. when I'm sad and crying and hugging a stuffed animal or can't even hug a stuffie because I'm so upset or when I feel scared and small and need to hide a bit, I'm still regressed and there's nothing impure or less or wrong about it.

do not try to make certain regressions seem better than others, do not make regressors feel worse for their bad mood than they already do. just stoooopppp.

[silly-little-teacups]

hello, I'm a traumatized kid agere

Yes I will go non verbal alot, yes I have trust issues, yes I'm needy, yes I have weird little interest, yes once I get comfortable I share everything, yes I get scared really fast, yes I fear men, yes I like cuddles, yes I have panic attacks, yes I cling onto my caregiver like a lifeline, yes I like being alone, yes I'm scared by loud noises, yes I have sensory issues, yes I need you to be patient with me, yes I will cry, yes I will fight, yes I am scared

I can't control my regression and this is usually how I am

I just like the cutesy pink vibe

[moonhowler]

Vent art cuz I feel like shit ✨

Sorry if all this is annoying but I need a healthy way to cope.