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happy pride month everyone! i hope every queer person out there has the best and hottest sex of their life this month 😍🏳️‍🌈

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Hot take, but even if one trans man in the history of humanity killed himself for being trans, that’s still one too many. That man was still worth fighting for. You don’t get to tell me that the suicide statistics for trans men are irrelevant in the fight for trans liberation just because you’ve allowed history to erase us. We could have had more people marching alongside us, but they’re dead now. They’re dead and they’re forgotten and the names on their gravestones were recorded down wrong.

You should care about that. I don’t know how else to explain to you that you should care about that.

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my utopia

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My body is but a #caecilius est in horto temple.

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#transmasc and Other Things That Ruined My Life: An Autobiography by im-not-dead-i-only-dressthat-way

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One #autism makes us larger and one #autism makes us small, but the #boyflux mother gives us don’t do anything at all. Go ask @tumblrbot when they’re 10 feet tall.

Kindly,

the tumbeasts

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I forgot that one of the main things that gays do is dye their own hair.

How about we dye each other's hair for once and wash each other's hair when it's done processing?

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basically my position is that landlords should die until my siblings aren't forced into soliciting donations online for basic necessities like food and shelter and medicine. i do not consider this any more extreme than the popular position that poor people should suffer and die en masse so landlords can keep getting paid for doing fucking nothing.

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how did we lose the plot so hard with feminism and activism like seriously… are we forgetting that being kind and loving to the men and boys in your life, teaching them as kids if you are a parent to be kind respectful humans, and showing them how to be emotionally vulnerable and making a society in which it is safe to do so was like…. A huge part of feminism, dismantling patriarchal values, and creating a generation of loving men who are held accountable for their actions?

Why is it “kill all men yes even the trans ones and if you say otherwise you’re an MRA” and not “let’s maybe create a world that encourages good men.” Did we forget that feminism was supposed to be good for everyone and that the patriarchy harms men and boys as well?

Like maybe we should care about male loneliness and the male suicide rate BECAUSE MAYBE WED HAVE LESS SOCIETAL PROBLEMS if 100% of the population wasn’t traumatized by gendered expectations and not being taught decent communication skills/how to be emotionally vulnerable. And definitely we would if fucking redpill echo chambers weren’t the places most willing to accept and nurture (groom into hateful ideology) young men.

The problem has never been men, cis or trans, being uniquely capable of evil the problem has always been the fact that cishet patriarchal culture encourages and rewards shitty behavior that makes everyone involved bitter and miserable and calls it masculinity.

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I wanna be held. Hold my hand, hold my waist, cup my cheeks, give me hugs, cuddle with me, rub my arm or back during a hug.

All I want is to have physical touch, and I want the lesbian of my dreams to do it 🥺

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guys my girlfriend broke up with me and I’m losing it

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oh they hate when a beautiful girl is mentally ill. they hate when i am unwell and unhealthy in a way that they can’t handle

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happy april fools. please take this egg

hahahahahha………………..

youve been fooled………………by the april fools beeper……………..it was a fully grown bird the entire time…..no egg………………it tells u it hopes u hav a good april 1st

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I’ve seen a lot of posts on my dash tonight about users who are threatening suicide, with other Tumblr members posting in effort to try to get ahold of them. I think you all should see this:

IF THERE IS EVER A TUMBLR USER WHO HAS POSTED A GOOD-BYE MESSAGE, SUICIDE NOTE, VIDEO, OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT, PLEASE FOLLOW THIS POST.

1. Scroll to the top of your dashboard.

2. See the circular question mark icon at the top? It’s the third one over from your home symbol. Click on that, and a screen similar to the one in the picture will come up.

3. Where you can type in questions, the box with the magnifying glass at the top, type in the word “suicide.”

4. Click on the first link that shows up. It should say, “Pass the URL of the blog on to us.”

5. Type in the user’s URL and tell Tumblr admin that the user is contemplating suicide and has posted a message indicating that they are going through with it or will be attempting. Hit send! Tumblr administration will perform a number of actions to contact the user and take the necessary steps to prevent the suicide.

TUMBLR: THIS COULD SAVE A USER’S LIFE. PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE SUICIDE THREATS.

Reblog this to keep other users aware. Suicide isn’t a joke, and neither is someone’s life. If you didn’t know this, someone else may not, either. Pass it on.

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every time i open my phone i am continually surprised by the fact that i have?? a girlfriend?? that loves me??? asdfhdjskkd she’s so pretty

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guys join my religion we deffo don’t sacrifice little wannabe roadmen 👀🤫

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