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Pls I’m grateful to be able to attend a good college with a lot of financial aid💜

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

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I need some joy (preferably in the form of cash lol 💸)

everyone who reads this post will get some big spicy joy within 24 large minutes (hours)

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Sulli and Goo Hara 🌹

Rest in peace my Angels :(

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Out of curiosity, is your username based on the band from Fukumenkei Noise?

Yes, from Fukumenkei Noise! I'm happy you recognized it😊

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ok universe, i’m ready to feel good things. make me feel good things.

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Breakfast Across the Globe

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“The last three or four years has felt like a perverse situation that was inflicted on me. It hurts.” - Johnny Depp for the British GQ, October/2018 THE HOAX IS REAL!

I don’t even know how to start this today… The more we go deep in this situation, the more this situation gets dirtier. Today as the judge pushed back the court trial to September, we could see how Ms. Heard and her team wanted to destroy Johnny: 

“Some on Mr. Depp’s legal team SECRETLY represented Elon Musk” “Some of Mr. Depp’s legal team then HID FOR NEARLY THREE YEARS THIS EXCULPATORY EVIDENCE FROM MR. DEPP that disproved the malicious hoax perpetrated against him by Amber Heard.”

That’s one of the reasons for taking so long to Johnny prove his innocence…

JOHNNY DEPP WAS BEING BETRAYED ALL THE TIME! 

By her and by people he used to trust! She used him, cheat on him with Elon and had his help on her plan, used Johnny’s team and a lot of people against him, just to destroy his life. This  conspiracy is criminal and I’m horrified.

Ms. Heard is not a victim of domestic abuse; she is a perpetrator. She betrayed him, beat him, hurt him mentally and physically, has been lying all the f*cking time, and she had a plan to destroy Johnny’s life. And still there’s people defending her. Disgusting. It’s time to wake up and see who the real abuser is. We really have to keep sharing our thoughts on social media too.  Show your support to Johnny!  You can read the full article HERE.

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Final day of studying before my exam tomorrow and it’s a long one. Honestly haven’t been working as hard for this exam as I could’ve and it’s coming back to bite me in the ass now but I’m doing everything I can to save my grade! 9 hours of studying today, fingers crossed you guys!

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TIPS THAT WILL MAKE YOUR SCHOOL YEAR EASIER (≧ω≦)

Here are some tips that will make your school year a lot more easier when it comes to organisation,studying and it might help you when its time for exams!

*Organisation Tips*

Make to-do lists. Prepare your to-do list the night before. In doing so, you will know exactly what tasks you have to accomplish the next day.

Pack your bag the night before and ensure that you have everything you need for the following day.

Write the date next to any notes you take and title them so they are easy to identify. Putting page numbers on your notes is a good way to keep track of them.

Check your to-do list daily and cross off completed tasks.

Make sure your notes are complete. If you have incomplete notes it will be hard for you to learn from them when you are studying.

When you know you’ll have an upcoming exam,test,event or anything you must prepare for to attend, record it in your planner straight away. Don’t wait for later, you might forget it. 

Break up your study time. Work out how many study hours you will need and schedule the study time in your planner accordingly.

Set certain times of the day for studying,homework and other school-related activities and stick to it.

Work on the most important assignments with the closest deadlines and set aside time to work on longer-term projects.

Divide big assignments into smaller, more workable tasks.

Focus on the goals you’ve set for yourself and follow them up.

Never allow the work to build up. Always try to stay on top of everything and keep ahead of deadlines.

Use a wall calendar for each term. List all projects and exam dates for each subject as well as any other important commitments you have.

Label desk drawers with their contents.

*Study Tips*

Ask for copies of past exam papers. It’s always good to find out what kind of questions are included in exams and the best way to do this is to look through old exam papers.

The key to learning something well is repetition; the more time you go over the material the better chance you have of storing it permanently. 

Explain your work to others. Find someone who doesn’t understand the topic and teach it to them. This will help you to get it clear in your head. If you are unable to explain something clearly then more study is required.

Take short breaks during your study time. Eat nutritious food that helps your brain to focus and make sure you drink plenty of water.

Attend all review classes whenever possible.

Study in a well lit place with no distractions and have all the things you will need ready, such as paper, pens or a calculator. 

Create your own study aids to help you. Create an outline from your notes of the main points or create a timeline of important dates. Make up your own flash cards or quiz and have someone test you.

Study more difficult subjects first and do the easier, more fun ones after.

If there is anything you are unsure of ask your teacher for guidance. 

Set yourself a goal. Know what you want to accomplish before you begin to study.

Discuss topics with other students and arrange study groups to help each other.

Challenge yourself. A task thought of as too hard can slow you down. The same task thought of as a challenge can spur you on.

Time spent working on understanding issues saves time because you will then know what you are doing.

Find a study method that suits you. Make notes,use diagrams,flow charts and mind maps. Experiment and find what works for you.

Use any spare time you have to rewrite your notes and summarise your work.

*Exam/Tests Tips*

Read over the entire test and calculate how much time you will spend on each question.

Read the instructions carefully and make sure you understand what you have to do before you attempt to do it.

Answer questions directly. If you get stuck on a question, move on to the next one and come back to it later.

Leave time at the end to look over your work. Make sure you have answered every question and check your mistakes.

Eliminate obvious false answers first when doing multiple choice questions.

Good handwriting is essential. Train yourself to write quickly and neatly.

Don’t leave studying to the last minute. Cramming can cause you to panic and leave you too tired to think clearly the next day.

Read all assigned material well in advance of the exam date.

Over learn material for you exams. Continue to study past the point at which you think you know it well.

Always read the instructions and answer easy questions first.

Ensure your grammar, punctuation and spelling are correct. You may receive lower marks if your answer is poorly written or grammatically incorrect.

*Reading Tips*

Know what your purpose is for reading. How do you need to use this information? What do you expect to learn from reading this document?

Try skimming over the document first to get a sense of the general theme before you read it in more detail.

Make sure you understand what you are reading. If something doesn’t make sense then re-read it from where you became confused.

It may be helpful to read the words out loud or to form a picture in your mind of what you are reading to gain a deeper understanding.

Authors often include context clues to the meaning of words. The clue usually appears in the sentence or paragraph in which the word occurs.

*Listening Tips*

Listen out for key phrases from the teacher such as “this is important”, “you need to know this” and “it is essential”. 

Don’t confuse listening with hearing. Listening is an active activity, you must be thinking in order to listen.

Think about the reason why you are listening and set yourself a goal.This will help you focus on important information.

It is important to listen effectively. 80% of what you know is acquired through listening.

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Liar Liar, Amber on Fire

Sensational title: ✔️  

My sassy ass: ✔️

Facts: ✔️

Hilarious GIFS: ✔️

Amber Heard being full of shit: ✔️ ✔️

Because, yes, Amber Heard is very much full of shit. She may be a white woman, she may be “pretty” (and I use those quotation marks with a lot of emphasis), she may think she is an actress (she once stated that the part of Chenault in The Rum Diary required an actress, not a famous person), she may have “proof” (even more emphasis), and she may fit your women-power MeToo BelieveAllWomen better than track suits fit Jeffree Star…but that’s the point. That is what she wanted to do. She can’t act, she knows this, her “looks” are rapidly fading, and she has her head too far up her own ass to gracefully fade away into the background. 

So she did the only thing she does know how to do…lie.

Except, she doesn’t even really know how to do that. 

Here are 8 exhibits to show you why Amber Heard is less trustworthy than Loki Odinson. 

   1 - Overhaulin’. 

Let me first explain something to you. Ninety-Nine Percent of the time, an abuse victim, especially after an extended period of abuse, will always act submissive in public. They will wait for cues from their abuser to speak, they will be very aware of what their abuser is doing so they don’t make mistakes that could set the abuser off, and they will never act like they are superior. Ever. 

And they would. not. hit their abuser on camera. They would know that if they did that, their abuser would be furious, and they would get a beating later. 

Let me repeat that. THEY WOULD NOT PUSH, SHOVE, SHOUT AT, HIT, OR OTHERWISE ACT DOMINATING TOWARDS THEIR ABUSER ON CAMERA.

This is also known as humiliating the abuser. In the abuser’s mind, their victim has publicly challenged them, and since the victim is inferior in the abuser’s mind, this is a severe affront. 

Well, remember that episode of Overhaulin’ when Johnny had Amber’s Mustang restored? Let me list the things she did in that episode:

Flipped people off. 

Shouted at people.

Acted very aggressive.

HIT JOHNNY SEVERAL TIMES.

HIT HER DAD.

According to her, this was a fair amount of time into her “abuse”. She would not be acting like this. Now, you may say she is just putting on a face. 

No, she isn’t. I can tell the difference between acting and being genuinely a piece of shit. She was genuinely being a piece of aggressive confrontational shit. 

2 - Blabbermouth.

Amber describes her “abuse” as being life threatening at times…she said Johnny constantly hit her, dragged her up stairs, screamed at her, kicked her…for four years.

I was verbally abused for 12 years. Twelve years. It has been 7 years since I got out of that situation. I still don’t particularly like to talk about it. 

AMBER was apparently physically abused (severely) for four years…

BUT WHAT DID SHE TURN AROUND AND DO IMMEDIATELY AS SOON AS SHE DIVORCED JOHNNY?

She did a PSA on domestic abuse for GirlGaze, she wrote a letter and read it at a Porter Magazine gala, she did a feature in Allure Magazine, she spoke multiple times on Women’s Rights, she did an op-ed in the Washington Post, she went on television in Europe and talked about it (WHILE JOHNNY’S FACE WAS ON SCREEN)…she has basically had more trouble shutting her mouth then a busy porn star.

The LAST THING a victim would want to do is talk constantly about one of the most horrific times in their life. Especially not right away.

3 - The Finger

Ok. According to Amber, Johnny smashed his phone and cut his finger or some shit like that…and then dipped his bloody finger stump in a paint pail, and wrote on a mirror about her and Billy Bob Thornton while on ecstasy. 

Let me explain to you all the ways this is completely and utterly not possible. 

1. Ecstasy doesn’t fucking do that. “ You will also feel a strong sense of connection with those around you. It is common to feel a sense of well-being and peace regarding your overall life. The tiny frustrations and resentment that infect your inner dialog during “normal” life fade away. “

2. If a person has just sliced their finger open (or partially off), I don’t give a shit what kind of drugs they are on, they are not going to immediately put their bloody finger in a PAINT PAIL and THEN WRITE ON A MIRROR. PAIN, PAIN, AND MORE FUCKING PAIN. I will also remind you that since the entire mirror was covered…he would have had to dip his finger in the pail AT LEAST 10 times to write all of that bullshit. 

3. Where is the blood? A cut on the hand (especially on the finger) bleeds a fuckton. And his finger was partially severed, which means it would have been gushing blood. If he apparently IMMEDIATELY wrote on the mirror, there would have been more blood than paint. Unless he bleeds blue.

4. A glass bottle holding liquid being thrown at a high speed at a person who wears a lot of metal jewelry on their hand is going to fucking shatter. And when a glass bottle holding liquid being thrown at a high speed shatters, it is going to fuck a hand up. Being that Johnny most likely tried to guard himself against the bottle, it likely dispersed the impact, which is why only his middle finger was affected. 

4 - Her “photos”. 

Let’s talk about the photo of her face that Raquel Pennington evidently took right after Johnny “wound his arm up like a baseball pitcher” and launched an iPhone at her face. 

This is an iPhone 6, which is most likely the model that she had. I don’t know if you have ever held an iPhone, but they are fairly heavy. So, if someone were to launch an iPhone (because an extremely angry person would be able to aim at her cheek perfectly) at her face, and it struck her…

HER FACE WOULD NOT FUCKING LOOK LIKE THIS. THE FUCKING MARK IS A PERFECT STRAIGHT LINE. 

That, and if you were to take an iPhone, and hold it against your eye, you would notice that it does not touch any part of your eye socket, BECAUSE YOUR CHEEK BONE AND YOUR BROW BONE BLOCK IT. 

So this “injury” being from an iPhone is absolutely impossible. 

If an iPhone struck your face after being thrown at a high speed, it would most likely break some skin, it would make your eye swell up like a fucking puffer fish, and the point of impact would be incredibly obvious. 

5 - People Magazine

Have you ever heard of a “victim” selling the photos that contain evidence of being abused TO A FUCKING TABLOID? SERIOUSLY?

No, you haven’t, because victims don’t fucking do that. Victims submit evidence to the court straight away. 

Amber Heard KNEW she wasn’t going to get fucking anywhere in actual court, so the only way to sell her story was through the public court. You know, where people are willing to hang you because you said a bad word twenty-five years ago. 

6 - Her “friend” at People Magazine.

Apparently, according to Trinity Esparza, head of security and desk staffing at the Eastern Columbia Building, Amber approached her and asked her to change their statement that they hadn’t seen her with any marks. 

AMBER HEARD PRANCED HER WAY UP TO THE HEAD OF DESK STAFFING AND ASKED THEM TO LIE FOR HER. 

Sounds like a true honest fucking victim to me. 

7 - Coachella

So, let’s talk about the incident during her birthday party…where Johnny apparently dragged her by the hair, punched her…???????

I bring this up because this video is THE NEXT FUCKING MORNING, AND SHE LOOKS GODDAMN HAPPY AND FINE TO ME.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OvEM873Lk2g

8. The Extortion Letter

After escaping an abusive relationship, the victim usually just wants as little as possible to do with their abuser, married or not. 

Also, let me remind you that Amber Heard has always touted herself as ‘independent’. 

She was an independent abuse victim fresh off an abusive marriage.

Apparently. 

So then WHY EXACTLY DID SHE TURN AROUND AND DEMAND THAT JOHNNY GIVE HER A RANGE ROVER, THREE CONDOS, 50K A MONTH, and MONEY FOR HER LEGAL FEES???????????????????????????

 Amber Heard lied.

Face it.

A woman lied. 

She lied to insinuate herself in the MeToo movement because her career was going nowhere fast, and she lied because she is a controlling narcissistic abuser. 

And that’s the fucking tea, folks. 

Bye.

(If you want more info, check out this website: https://egyptgypsie.wixsite.com/thefacts)

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Now that the tables have turned are y’all gonna offer Johnny, a man, the same support you gave the woman falsely accusing him of domestic violence?

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i get really annoyed when people who don’t believe amber heard’s lying abusive ass get told “just say you hate bi women”

it has nothing to do with her sexuality, and everything to do with her lying about being abused by the man she was abusing. she even abused her ex girlfriend, but y'all will easily sweep that under the rug

like y'all say you support male victims of abuse, but are actively supporting a known abuser and calling her victim a liar, so let me tuen it around on you

just say you don’t give a fuck about male victims of abuse

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Hands down, one of my favourite Johnny Depp stories EVERRRRR.😍😭

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I Have My Dad Back - And He Is A Survivor Of Domestic Violence.

I can’t count the times I’ve heard my phone ring during the night and I’ve been met with instant dread, wondering if it’s my Grandma calling to tell me my dad is in hospital again due to a beating from his girlfriend, or worse, that he’s dead. For years I’ve had this fear, living in constant limbo not knowing if he’s okay, not being able to save him, or even talk to him. The call never came, but neither did any call for that matter, until November.

I remember it vividly, it was 19:55 and I was cooking tea ready for my fiancé getting home from work at eight. I was frying a steak, his favourite. Blasting an episode of ‘Friends’ on the TV in the living room so I could hear it from the kitchen when my phone rang, a number I did not recognise.

I answered and heard a sullen voice on the other end, “Hiaye squiddles it’s daddy” - just like that, as if we’d never stopped speaking. I responded lightly back to him, taken off guard, when he began crying. “It’s so nice to hear your voice. I’m sorry I haven’t been in touch, I’m sorry I’ve been a shit dad, I’m sorry I turned you away and let her get in my head, I’m sorry I did everything I did to yo-“ choking on his words, he took a moment to breathe.

I hadn’t had chance to process that he was calling, let alone think of how I felt up until those words, but I now began realising that this was unusual behaviour. He never apologised, his whole life, and now he was. Although he was in an abusive relationship, there are some things that he needed to take responsibility for, and I couldn’t help but feel that this was it, this was his turning point, this was the moment we had all been waiting for. The moment when the victim has an epiphany. The moment he realised that he was being abused.

As a victim, he had always made excuses for his abuser. He was blinded by love, believed what was happening to him was normal, manipulated and brainwashed into thinking everyone but his abuser was trying to hurt him. He was isolated from me, manipulated so much into thinking that I was an awful person and that he didn’t love me. That is not his fault, not at all. But some of the things he said to me while under her spell came from his mouth, she did not put them there. And he was apologising. This is a huge revelation.

“I know I’ve been a horrible parent, and I always said I didn’t need you, but I need you now. I know I’ve asked for your help time and time again” he continued, the steak had now crisped up in the pan, and my fiancé walked through the door. “but I really do need your help now. For real this time.” At this point I couldn’t stop the tears, sat on the very corner edge of the sofa, elbows on my legs, my hand covering my mouth to stop the cries. Matty comes over and puts his arm around me, just listening, I look up at him to see that he has began welling up too.

I finally had air to respond to him. “Of course, I’ll always help you, that’s all I’ve ever wanted to do, to help you” my dad gathers himself, his voice becoming more coherent. “Thank you flower, I really want to see you, let’s go for dinner soon before Christmas, my treat, bring your brother and we’ll go to Panda just like old times. I’m in a wheelchair now so you’ll have to help me get there though, is that okay?” This broke my heart, thinking about all of the damage she has done to him, he was always active, enjoyed taking the dogs on long walks every day. I couldn’t help but get the image of every time I have seen her abuse him, beat him, kick him, push him, attack him with objects, every time he’s ended up in a jail cell because she lied and said he had abused her. Once when I wasn’t there she hit him over the head with a hammer, it’s all took it’s toll.

“I’ll pick you up that’s no problem.” Is all I could manage to say. How could I express my frustration? How could I tell him how much I hated her for doing that to him? It would only put the memories back in his head that he is already having a hard time beginning to understand.

I didn’t want the call to end, I didn’t want to not hear his voice again, I didn’t want to have the risk that he might change his mind, or that she would find out he had spoke to me and end his life. He took that thought right out of my head and vocalised it. “I’ll give you a call in a couple of weeks, don’t phone me because I don’t want her to find out in case she finds out and does something, so we’ll keep it just between us, bring Matty too, yeah?” I looked up at Matty and he smiled. I took that as a yes.

I pressed the phone further into my face, just wishing that it would suck me up and pop me out infront of him so that I could cry with him, hug him and show him how much I love him. Remembering when I fell off my bike as a child and he picked me up, dusted me off, cuddled me and told me to keep trying, keep getting back on and falling off again as many times as it takes to get it right. As a child we take those moments for granted, as an adult, I realise now that the he is the child falling off that bike, in need of encouragement and support.

We said our goodbyes, he told me he loves me, something he hasn’t done in a long time. I reciprocated. And that was that. I dropped the phone on the floor and Matty pulled me into his arms as I cried, and cried, and cried.

I did hear from him again, he hadn’t forgotten, he hadn’t changed his mind, and we did arrange to go to Panda. When I went to pick him up I was terribly nervous to see the state of him now, not knowing what to expect. I walked in the door, my brother and Matty in tow, and there he was, sober, underweight and frail. Cross legged on the floor he greeted me with a cheery hello, and pulled me down for a cuddle, told me how beautiful I was, and just looked at all three of us for a while, etching our faces into his brain. I could see in his eyes that he was confirming his epiphany, that he was grateful he reached out, and that we were there.

We had a wonderful time, despite breaking my heart at seeing him in a wheelchair, despite wishing it didn’t have to come to this point, I couldn’t have wished for a better day. Since then we have kept in regular contact, I have frequent visits. She still lives in the flat above him, but his head is clear, he’s getting better every day, he’s healing, he’s recovering, and he’s surviving.

It’s like old times, he’s my father again, not physically, that will come back with time, but mentally and emotionally, he’s back. He agreed to do an interview with my for my university project in which he talked openly about the abuse he has suffered, he talks about how there is a lot of stigma around men being abused by women, how he has always had the fear that he would be called a pussy if the words “she attacked me and hurt me” came out of his mouth. I told him I’m fighting to change that.

He gave some advice in his interview, “if you push people away, don’t be afraid to rein them back in. You can’t do it alone, you need help, you need support, you’re not a pussy, you’re human, and when humans are hurt, it’s fight or flight, don’t choose flight. Speak up, stand up, the only person that can get you out of this is you. People can only do so much, you have to throw them a line and stay connected to it otherwise you’re on your own and the connection is lost.”

Those words resonate today; and will for a long time to come. Let’s end the stigma that surrounds male victims of domestic violence. Let us help and support the men in our lives, the great men that brought us into this world, the men that love and care for us.

Stop abusive women.

Believe men.

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Why the fuck are you guys NOW defending Johnny? Those who supported him were screaming hes been innocent for years and now that hes finally released evidence you guys are like: Oh my bad.

No! Not oh my bad! I’m mad as hell! I’ve seen and lived through moments of abuse. It wasn’t physical like Johnny, but mental abuse fucking sucks too! So I KNEW EXACTLY what Johnny was going through and it pissed me off that everyone just threw him under the bus because “we have to believe women!”

FEMINISM IS ABOUT MEN TOO!

And do you know how painful it was to see an abuser being supported by everyone and so well loved?!

THAT SHIT MADE ME SICK TO MY STOMACH.

I guess only those who lived through abuse themselves actually see the abuser.

But whatever. At least you guys now actually see.

Next time, maybe instead of lashing at someone right away (cause plot twist fake news all the time. Especially with celebrities) do your fucking research.

Now go wreck Amber Heard with the same fury you threw at Johnny Depp and make it hurt.