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📌 INCIDENT REPORT

📅 Date of Incident: September 25, 2024

📍 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada (Drai’s Pool Party, Various Hotels)

📝 Reported By: JayVee Vincent

👥 Individuals Involved:

• 🧑🏾‍💼 JayVee Vincent (Reporter)

• 🧑🏾‍��� Chizzle (Friend)

• 👩🏾‍🦱 Coco (JayVee’s Girlfriend)

• 👩🏾‍🦱 Chizzle’s Girlfriend

• 👩🏾 Coco’s Best Friend

• 🧑🏾 Coco’s Cousin

• 🧑🏾‍🦰 Coco’s Cousin’s Best Friend

🚨 INCIDENT SUMMARY

During a planned trip to Las Vegas for an anniversary 🎉 and birthday 🎂 celebration, a misunderstanding led to a heated argument 🔥 between JayVee and Chizzle. A combination of alcohol 🍹, miscommunication 📵, and separation 🚶🏾 resulted in frustration, causing a fallout 💔 between the friends.

📖 DETAILED ACCOUNT OF EVENTS

1️⃣ Pre-Trip Arrangements

✅ JayVee planned a Vegas trip for his anniversary and invited Chizzle for his birthday.

✅ The goal was to have a fun, stress-free trip with friends.

✅ Since JayVee invited Chizzle, Coco invited her best friend, cousin, and cousin’s best friend, making the group larger.

✅ Travel plan: Chizzle was asked to park at JayVee’s hotel 🚗 so they could all take a shuttle to Drai’s Pool Party 🚌.

2️⃣ The Pool Party at Drai’s 🎶

✅ The group attended Rick Ross’s Pool Party 🎤 at Drai’s.

✅ Chizzle’s girlfriend forgot to put her car keys in her locker.

✅ Coco offered to keep them in her locker instead.

✅ After the party, the group left intoxicated 🍾, looking for food.

✅ Coco’s cousin’s best friend (a local) 🚗 offered to drive them back, and everyone agreed.

3️⃣ The Separation Incident 🛑

🚶🏾 The group walked back in this formation:

👉 Front: Coco, her cousin, and the best friend.

👉 Middle: Chizzle’s girlfriend.

👉 Back: JayVee & Chizzle (drunk & talking 🍻).

❌ Chizzle’s girlfriend suddenly needed to use the restroom 🚻.

❌ JayVee & Chizzle followed her, but when they came out—everyone else was gone!

📱 Missed Calls:

📌 JayVee: 1 missed call.

📌 Chizzle: 2 missed calls.

📞 Chizzle calls Coco:

💬 “Where y’all at?”

📢 Coco: “Back at the hotel 🏨.”

😡 Chizzle: “Y’all left us?!”

🚨 Chizzle was furious 😤, believing they were intentionally abandoned.

4️⃣ The Hotel Conflict Over Car Keys 🔑

🚕 JayVee & Chizzle’s girlfriend Uber back to the hotel.

🛑 JayVee’s key card didn’t work at first.

🔨 Chizzle’s girlfriend started banging on the door aggressively.

📢 “Coco, open the door! We outside!”

🚪 Coco opens the door and goes straight back inside.

🗝️ Chizzle’s girlfriend asks for her car keys.

❗ Coco suddenly realizes—her best friend took them to another hotel!

💥 Chizzle’s girlfriend flips out 😡:

💬 “Why the hell did you give my keys to someone else?!?!”

💥 Coco snaps back: “Get this b*** out my house!!”*

🚨 Tension explodes 🔥—the argument gets loud.

👨🏾‍💼 JayVee steps in to de-escalate, but Chizzle’s girlfriend refuses to leave.

📦 JayVee moves her belongings outside to avoid further conflict.

5️⃣ Chizzle Walks Off & Fallout 🚶🏾

🚶🏾 Chizzle, instead of staying to resolve things, walks off on his own.

🚗 JayVee makes sure Chizzle’s girlfriend gets her keys back.

📞 Next Morning Call:

📢 “Bro, what happened yesterday?”

😡 Chizzle: “I don’t mess with people who leave me.”

🤦🏾 JayVee: “Bro, I was WITH you the whole time!”

❄️ Chizzle remains cold and distant.

🔍 ANALYSIS & FINDINGS

🛑 Primary Cause:

📢 Miscommunication & intoxication 🍾 led to an unintended separation.

🔗 Chizzle’s personal history with abandonment made him take it personally.

🤔 Contributing Factors:

👉 Group size made coordination harder.

👉 Excessive drinking affected judgment.

👉 No clear backup plan for separation.

💡 TAKEAWAYS & RESOLUTION ATTEMPTS

📢 Chizzle believes he was intentionally left, while others see it as a misunderstanding.

📞 JayVee tried multiple times to talk it out, but Chizzle stayed distant.

❄️ Future interactions have been cold, limited to group texts.

💔 The friendship is no longer the same.

🚀 RECOMMENDATIONS

✅ For Future Group Trips:

✔️ Use a buddy system 👫 to prevent separation.

✔️ Set clear backup plans 📍 in case of miscommunication.

✔️ Limit excessive drinking 🍸 when critical plans are involved.

✅ For Conflict Resolution with Chizzle:

✔️ If the friendship is worth saving, an in-person, sober conversation is needed.

✔️ If not, accept that things have changed and move on.

🔴 STATUS: UNRESOLVED – STRAINED FRIENDSHIP 💔

🚪 Chizzle remains distant.

📵 Direct communication is minimal.

🥶 Uncertain if the friendship will return to normal.

📌 FINAL NOTE: Sometimes friendships shift. If someone chooses to fall back over a simple misunderstanding, maybe they were looking for a reason to. JayVee made efforts to reconcile, but he can’t be the only one holding it together. Either move forward, or let it go. 🤷🏾‍♂️