Born Patrick Martin Stumph on April 27, 1984, known professionally as Patrick Vaughn Stump. Hometown of Wilmette, Illinois, Stump is the lead vocalist and rhythm guitarist for American rock band Fall Out Boy.
If you genuinely enjoy being alone, do you ever wonder if it is an inherent part of your character or if it stems from feeling inescapably lonely in the first place until you taught yourself to enjoy the peace and happiness one can find in solitude? what if the reason you now prefer & choose solitude at every turn is because you were a very lonely child, or teenager, not by your own choice, and that’s how you learnt to thrive and grow, so you no longer know if you can do that around people? There might also be an element of personal pride, an unconscious “you can’t fire me I quit” point when your brain decided to switch your feelings about solitude from distress to relief. I often find myself defending my love of being alone, to people who worry that I can’t possibly be happy to live in an isolated house in the woods; I insist that I do! I really do specifically enjoy the isolated factor and chose to live here because of it, but then I wonder how to differentiate an ingrained love of solitude from an acquired ability to thrive off unchosen loneliness, to learn from it and be nourished by it; to what extent it might be a form of contentment built on a bedrock of resignation.
Mmm... you should like hurry up Patrick, cuz you are just missin 3 years to be 40. And i dont want Fall Out Boy to really broke up. I am a believer and i believe that you'll come back but sometimes i see like there's no hope and i just think about the quote in one of FOB's songs that says The Best Part Of Believe Is The Lie. I would really feel pissed of if you guys never come back cuz that's one of my wishes i have on my bucket list. I Hope we have good news on the next years. By now, keep working on your Soul Punk stuff. I think it's cool. well, that was all. Sincerely, Dyane.