Sam, 27, disabled, they/he, white. Back on a feeding tube since May 2024 and homebound most of my day, so I talk about that a lot. Mostly here to post art, writing and fandom stuff! SFW, but no minors, please
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if you voted, please consider supporting amal's campaign (verified #55 by gavavetters). the fundraiser will help amal and her 4 children get food, water, shelter and escape to safety.
there's still 46% of the 30k goal to go and the campaign is going very slowly, so please donate if you can and don't forget to share
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i’m sorry i’m fine i’m just tired. i’ll probably be fine in a few hours
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i qualify for cobra and i’m gonna pursue it so i can keep my exact same coverage and not have to start my deductible and maximum out of pocket over, but it’s gonna cost at least $650 a month, which is almost half of my monthly disability, and doesn’t cover meds. i’ll be fine since my parents will help me, but i’m gonna go back to being like completely reliant on my family financially, especially because my cats are also going through health issues rn. again, i don’t need help but every time i get more reliant on my family it just kills me a little. like i’m never gonna be a financially dependent adult huh. i couldn’t even do it when i actually got a good full time job because my bills were still too high to afford rent anywhere that wasn’t above my dad’s business, and then i couldn’t even keep that job because i was too disabled. i’m so lucky to have family willing and able to help but god i’m just never going to be able to not be enmeshed and reliant on my family. i’m never gonna stop being a fucking burden no matter what i do
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i was officially let go from the hospital system i worked for yesterday. i’m still welcome to keep applying but they are no longer helping me, and I didn’t even really get the full period of an internal job search because i couldn’t get into their stupid app for two weeks. i’m just really upset, i applied for like ten jobs similar to my old job within the system and got blanket rejections from all of them, except the one i actually interviewed for, despite being an employee in good standing who was trying to come back to work after a severe medical episode, which was all on paper because i had several hospitalizations and surgeries at their facilities
didn’t get the job, and all but one of the applications i sent in have been rejected, the last is under review. i’m hoping it works out but i’m so frustrated rn. it’s probably not fair since i’ve had some people in the system trying to help me but it really feels like i’ve been fired for being disabled
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so true <3
#saw another one of these lists but the picture was andy and ollie and i felt what I can on#*only call parental defensiveness#I get to say that but you don’t listicle writer! stop bullying them! bullying their dad is fine though and even encouraged#anyway i was actually looking for cute pictures of Hugo idk why jimmy showed up
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My mother still bakes bread for us despite the difficult conditions here. My mother defies the circumstances and her illness. She wants to give us everything she can so that we can continue living. Please help me and my family. We need you. Your support gives us life and hope.
✅️vetted by @nabulsi link here
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honestly it just kills me how much linda was clearly parentified wrt taking care of gayle. it’s not gayle’s fault that she can’t be completely independent, but why the hell is that linda’s job and not, y’know, gloria and al. more specifically, why is linda the person gayle feels like she can go to when she’s having a mental health crisis or a financial issue, and, even more specifically, why are gloria and al not people gayle feels like she can turn to. not even to say that linda shouldn’t help out her sister, just that it’s really shitty that she’s clearly the only family member who is helping her out
#again i am a disabled adult who cannot be financially independent#this is not a gayle hate post. this is a where the fuck are gloria and Al post#i have specific thoughts about gayle and how she’s portrayed but her struggling with independence isn’t a moral failing
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you know when i first watched “father of the bob” as a teen, i spent the whole episode just so upset at linda because yeah, it worked out for the best, but forcing bob to reconcile with his dad sucked! if he wanted low/no contact that was his right! and while i love what they’ve done with bob and big bob’s reconciliation, it took a hot minute for me to not be mad at linda during this ep. like it still pushes some specific buttons for me but i think that when i was a teen, because al and gloria were like, bad parents in an annoying “comedic” way, it didn’t hit me the same. like it didn’t hit me that linda is at least partially projecting, because she’s maintained a relationship with her awful parents, because that’s what you do, so bob also has to!!! and like linda does still bug me a little in that ep for Personal Reasons but it’s so much sadder realizing how much she must be projecting
like i’m glad bobs senior and junior are in each others’ lives again… and also at the same time, lin, i think you should take a page out of bob’s book and maybe set firmer boundaries with your shitty mom. it’s not wrong for you to not let her walk over you, and it’s not wrong for you to maybe distance yourself. it’s not on you to grin and bear it to maintain a relationship with a woman who doesn’t even care to remember how many grandkids she has, hon
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Please, I’m begging you… My name is Amir, I’m 12 years old, and I’m from Gaza.
My grandfather is in critical condition. He needs urgent surgery this week — we don’t have time. His life depends on it.
I’ve lost all my old accounts, so I had to start again from zero. But I’m not giving up — because my family needs me.
Please, if you see this, help me raise as much as possible this week. Every dollar, every share, every prayer could be the reason my grandfather survives.
I don’t want to lose him. Please stand with me. Help my family. Help my grandfather.
You have no idea how much it means to us.
From a child with nothing but hope – Amir
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listen the problem with mort not being in episodes much is like ok whatever, he's not needed as much as he was initially, his role has been diminished, he's just the guy who lives next door who is generally pleasant but he doesn't need to Live in the restaurant, that's what teddy does, and actors schedules for minor parts dont always line up!! that's fine!!!
but from the perspective of the show. and dont get me wrong i like teddy. it feels like mort used to hang around more but then teddy successfully bullied him out of the picture (which isn't true this isn't true this isn't true this isn't what happened it's not that serious) but i miss him :(
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samah @ammar-family24 has been working hard to pay off all the money needed for a medical tent for ammar
this is a repost of my previous post because having photos of ammar made tumblr immediately flag it as mature content
it costs $5200 total - we were able to pay off the initial $3000 deposit, but not the $2200 afterwards
she was able to negotiate with the merchant into paying in installments - however, instead of $500 installments, he has demanded $800 installments, as well as we pay him the first installment immediately, which we have managed to do with help from a generous friend
with commission fees now 25%, this means we need $1000 every week 3 times - this is $1050 after ko-fi's fees as well
then we will need one last installment of $200 turned $500, which with commission fees will be $670 and then with ko-fi's fee of $34 will be $704
we tried to negotiate the installments to be every week, but he has demanded we pay him every five days
the doctor had advised that ammar needs special care even outside of the hospital to make sure he is in stable condition ammar has severely deteriorated from his heart condition not being seen to as well as conditions in gaza
this is why he also badly needs a medical tent, which will shelter him from the outside as it has a floor of its own and sturdier walls than most tents
samah’s original campaign and account are shared by 90-ghost, but it was shut down as her organiser’s bank account was deactivated
proof samah asked me to use my paypal / ko-fi account here
$15 / $1050
we also still need ammar's weekly medication, which helps to keep his condition stable and is required to maintain his health. even one day delay makes him incredibly ill
this costs $500, but unfortunately there are the 25% fees - in addition, the pharmacist has now requested she pay half her money in physical cash, so now 35% fees will need to be additionally added on to half of this amount
half of $500 is $250 - 35% fees makes it $588. 25% fees then make it $783. with ko-fi's 5% fees, this means we need to raise $822 for it
proof samah has agreed with using my friend's ko-fi here
$0 / $822
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ohhh the upa style end credits of the last Bob’s episode made me so happy, they were so fun
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“people are complicated. i didn’t think my grandfather was, but he was a person, so it makes sense he would be”
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“i’ll send the kids over if i see ‘em. if they even ARE my kids”
“— what?!?”
“i don’t know!!!l
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“my poor grandmother! you’d tell me if you had a secret family, right bob?”
“yeah, i’d need your help. that sounds like a ton of work”
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