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if you’re a white creator and your brown/black characters are always sassy, reckless, aggressive or cold and your white characters are always soft, demure, shy and introverted you should think about maybe why you did that

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trans youth should get to live to see trans adulthood!!!!

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Hi, it’s me.

Intro post. (below the cut)

I’m Tori. Here’s a link: en.pronouns.page

I go by they/them, xe/xem, ve/ver or sometimes he/him

Alright I have no clue what I’m doing and I live metaphorically under a rock so if I say something out of line or don’t know what you’re talking about that’s why.

Fandoms I’m in (or have been in. I rotate through phases usually): My Hero Academia, Marvel, Wings of Fire, any Riordanverse books, Five Nights at Freddy’s (it’s been a while), The Belgariad, The Umbrella Academy, The Amazing Digital Circus, Heartstopper (gradually entering the fandom), School Bus Graveyard (also recently joined), The Dragon Prince, Zeyn_Syre (on YT), Wheel of Time, Creepypasta (gradually getting into it), and probably more because I forget what fandoms I’m in.

I have social anxiety and autism (could be more but we’re unsure), so please be patient and don’t take anything I say in a mean way.

DNI: homophobes, aphobes, transphobes, ableists, nsfw accounts, anti-contradictiory labels, racists, sexists, people who force opinions, people like that. (sorry I’m lazy and don’t know many terms for certain types of people so that’s what I have so far, but you get the type)

A warning before interacting with me: I am a complete dumbass and as stated earlier, I am fairly sheltered so I might not know what things mean. I also don’t understand people or social cues at all so if I come off as mean or dismissive or ignorant or anything like that I really don’t mean to and I’m sorry in advance.

Please note that anything I say in sympathy is genuinely meant and I do feel for you and want to help you I just don’t know how or how to show it.

Anyway, I’m also a writer and an artist (kind of, I’m going through a bad time so not much being done), and I love music.

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What if I don’t have a car?? 😭

I can’t legally drive yet

“Kill them with kindness” WRONG HIT THEM WITH YOUR CAR 🚘🚘🚘🚘🚘🚘💥💥💥💥💥💥

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I’m Tori. When I was nine my kitchen got set on fire and the almost completely burned down. It destroyed my art too and we had to get huge renovations and live at my grandmother’s.

I brought mint chocolate

open tags, I’m too scared to put anyone

I have no idea if someone has already done this on tumblr but..

TRAUMA CANDY SALAD 😀

*clears throat* My name is Leelee and last year this kid in my class grabbed my behind and said he got tickets to gyattown. aNyWaYs I brought the bowl ><

@axisssss @teenagechildtyphoon @aroacegrimreaper @how2beanerd @cabin13winion @cherryblossomflowers444 @pinkxpxnda @epik-bylerfan + anybody who is interested / wants to join

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rb to tell prev they're being so brave right now and pat their head a little please

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I be checking my phone like I mean something to someone

😂silly fucking me 😂

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I have these awesome plot ideas when I’m on what I like to call my ‘highs’ (just cause I’m so happy and elated I’ve got goosebumps, doesn’t happen much) and then when I try to actually write, I blank out and have no clue what I’m doing.

what the fuck >:(

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Okay seriously. Reblog if you're OLDER than 11.

Yep.

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I don’t want to die, I just hate myself so intensely to the point where if I could become a different person I would do it instantly.

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yknow what, tourettes advocacy HAS to be more radical. i do not care!!!! we need to stop begging for people to be nice to us, to let us exist, to stop fucking laughing. i think we ought to focus on stop asking me weird intrusive questions, stop making me your inspiration porn, stop making me tic for you. we gotta demand better representation in the media because i personally can’t think of a single canonically tourettic character that isn’t the punchline. we have to focus our awareness on the exhaustion, the pain, the frustration, the discrimination, and the DISABILITY of existing with it rather than just the mild discomfort it causes other people to, god forbid, witness us existing. we have to stop apologizing and justifying and (jesus i wish i didn’t have to say this) accommodating others because ours is one of those “nasty” conditions to see and hear. it’s okay if we consider ourselves physically or neurologically disabled. it’s okay if we don’t. it’s okay if we wanna be considered “tourettic” as an identity and it’s okay if we don’t. it’s okay to tic and it’s okay to find it funny and it’s okay to not. im tired of masking it hurts and it’s exhausting and it makes me irritable. and im tired of not sticking up for myself. but anyway sorry lollll sorryyyyy sorry sorry sorry sorryyyy for sharing a space with people who don’t tic sorryyyy—

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"men don't need to be afraid walking around at night"

Unless they're black

"men make more than women in jobs"

Black men make less than white women on average

"men don't get followed around by people who mean them harm"

Black men are heavily policed and regularly jumped and killed for just walking down the street

"no one tells a man what he can and cannot do with his own body"

Black men are repeatedly assaulted and have their hair forcibly shaved or cut for wearing their hair natural and in culturally important styles. Black men who choose body modifications like tattoos or piercings are branded as thugs. Black men who have children and black men who don't have children are both regarded as players, hounddogs, absent fathers, and baby daddies, as if the logical answer is that no one's first choice of partner and father of their children would ever be a black man.

"no one judges a man's worth based on his clothes"/"a man isn't ever in danger no matter what he wears"

Black men are required to look presentable and professional according to eurocentric standards, push themselves into clothes not made for their bodies, and be highly uncomfortable in their daily lives or else risk 'fitting the profile' or 'matching the description' and getting detained by police AT BEST for the crime of existing in public. Black men wearing comfortable clothes are seen as sloppy, thugs, gangsters, street rats, hood and ghetto.

"no man fears rape"

The rape and sexual assault of black men ties directly to black buck stereotypes and black fetishization to the point where liking a black person or having your dating pool be open to black people is treated like a sexuality much like being gay. People are both threatened by and aroused by our bodies and that leads them to perform extreme acts of violence on us, including rape, SA, coercion, trafficking, and more. Much like how "tranny" and "lesbian" is a porn category, so is Big Black Cock. Sometimes with us featured as the rapist. Sometimes with us featured as the victim. Almost never with us featured as intimate, passionate, loving, tender. Black men are either to be feared and reviled, or to be broken and forced to submit. Direct ties to slavery with white people still getting off to our suffering.

Just say you don't care as much about black people's suffering and go, jesus.

I have privilege because I sometimes pass as a man? Try walking in my shoes for a while. Turns out being a black man vs being a black woman isn't always so different.

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I'm gonna say this because people on this app are fucking stupid.

You cannot claim to be against the idea that thought crime isn't real, and then turn around and demonize someone for saying that they are a non-offending pedophile and need to get locked in a mental asylum. You cannot weaponize the idea of thought crime the moment someone has thoughts that you deem immoral.

Pedophilia, zoophilia,and necrophilia are paraphilias. It's as simple as that. It is as inherently harmless as any other paraphilia (aka every single kink or fetish to exist). Is someone attracted to hands automatically just going to start forcing people to fingerfuck them? No? Same goes for the big 3 paraphilias.

A paraphilia is only disordered when it is inhernetly harmful when acted on (and then acted on), or the person is disturbed by their attraction. Most people can recognize that their thoughts are just that. Thoughts. For the people who have extreme and intense urges, of course they should go to therapy, but so they can healthily manage those urges and not hurt other, not because they're disgusting.

Thought crime is not real. It does not become real the moment someone you dislike has scary thoughts. It does not become real the moment someone talks about their strange attractions.

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like i cannot stress enough if ur white u have been raised and taught to view urself as the center of the world, almost all media caters to you, ur cultures viewpoints dictate the world, ur ancestors are the “victors” of colonialism and shaped the planet to fit white supremacy, that little voice in ur head that tells you to comment on every post about racism u see with stuff like “LISTEN to this white people” “im white, but this is important” “im as white as snow but i also agree with this” is not the compassionate gesture u think it is

that little voice is ur taught racist desire to center urself and ur opinion as more important and factual, something to be listened to above all else, because you were raised to believe you and everyone like you has the final say, you get uncomfortable when brown people voice frustrations because you don’t like reckoning with how the entire world is shaped in your image, you need to ignore that little voice that tells you your input is needed, because that little voice means absolutely nothing to the lived experiences of people of color, we donot need your approval or for you to agree for the racist history that has oppressed all of us to be true, we donot need YOU to tell us we are right when it has already been proven through history, through statistics, on the millions of lives lost to genocide and war in the name of white supremacy, you are not the center of the world, you are just taught that you are

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anyway you should always remember that all those foreigners you see dying on the news are just as real people as you are who have just as much interiority as you do. there is nothing about you that makes you more important and it is by pure chance that you are not in their position. in fact, this holds for all of history. every person, no matter the horror of the fate that befell them, had just as much interiority as you do. i feel like some people haven't fully internalized this.

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"harassment is bad, but its okay if they-"

nope🚨 wrong 🚨 incorrect buzzer sfx🚨 harassment is Never a good thing

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0: around 156cm so like 5’1 I think

1: shhhhhhhhhh

2: no clue

3: no

4: sometimes I get second hand from my grandpa when he hugs me :(

5: no

6: idk

7: no

8: easier to draw on myself with fine liner

9: nope

10: too scared

11: Sioux

12: non existent I’m aroace

13: ew no

14: ew no

15: No particular favourite

16: what the hell is love lmao

17: My mates from sixth grade

18: Kitchen almost burnt down and we had to live at our grandmother’s for five months

19: It sucks

20: e v e r y t h i n g

21: nothing haha

22: either an author or in a band (probably never gonna happen)

23: bittersweet

24: bittersweet, mostly okay

25: i don’t do those

26: Slow walkers, giving me extra options when I’ve already clarified what I want, being stubborn and closed minded

27: huh what’s that

28: i don’t even wanna think about it

29: Can’t remember

30: i struggle profoundly to complete and understand it if it isn’t interesting

31: (I’m not gonna share that)

32: any form of ‘other people have it worse’ or trying to justify bigotry

33: and high praise of my work

34: um what

35: huh no

36: no idea

37: how I look and act and am perceived by people

38: scientist

39: fuck you I’m not picking one

40: Alex Fierro (MCGA) or Blake Novak from Zeyn_Syre

41: In my bed, which is where I am

42: can’t remember, it was last night

43: ewwwww

44: Coconuts have water in them /ref

nosy anons let's go

0: Height

1: Age

2: Shoe size

3: Do you smoke?

4: Do you drink?

5: Do you take drugs?

6: Age you get mistaken for

7: Have tattoos?

8: Want any tattoos?

9: Got any piercings?

10: Want any piercings?

11: Best friend?

12: Relationship status

13: Biggest turn ons

14: Biggest turn offs

15: Favorite movie

16: I’ll love you if…

17: Someone you miss

18: Most traumatic experience

19: A fact about your personality

20: What I hate most about myself

21: What I love most about myself

22: What I want to be when I get older

23: My relationship with my sibling(s)

24: My relationship with my parent(s)

25: My idea of a perfect date

26: My biggest pet peeves

27: A description of the girl/boy I like

28: A description of the person I dislike the most

29: A reason I’ve lied to a friend

30: What I hate the most about work/school

31: What my last text message says

32: What words upset me the most

33: What words make me feel the best about myself

34: What I find attractive in women

35: What I find attractive in men

36: Where I would like to live

37: One of my insecurities

38: My childhood career choice

39: My favorite ice cream flavor

40: Who I wish I could be

41: Where I want to be right now

42: The last thing I ate

43: Sexiest person that comes to my mind immediately

44: A random fact about anything