itgomyway - Tumblr blog

[itgomyway]

you cannot become what you already are.

"but i want" - you cannot become what you already have

"but i wanna be the one who-" there is no "one" you do not exist in a singular form. you cannot become what you already are.

"i need this physically because it reflects my-" there is no delayed reflection when you are constantly experiencing yourself. you cannot become what you are.

[itgomyway]

the “physical” world vs “imagination” = consciousness ☘️

i get a LOT of questions regarding people grasping the no separation, consciousness is the only thing that exist, but then they relate the “real world” to what they see physically. human senses are misleading and you should never lead your understanding with them.

for example, the kitchen stove now exist to you because you’re aware of it. do you see it right now though? do you hear it? can you taste it? no! but that doesnt mean it does not exist.

your physical world and how you perceive it is just as fake as your “imagination” and how you perceive it. the only real reality that exist right now is consciousness. consciousness is nothing because consciousness is everything. nothing goes on until you the observer observes moments happening. that is what the present is. that is the only perception of time you actually have. everything else like the past, future, tomorrow, yesterday, in a few hours doesn’t exist.

HOWEVER whatever you observe is not real because it CAME to your awareness. you had to become aware of it for it to exist, while consciousness will always exist. whether or not you understand non dualism, thats why it doesn’t matter if “you” don’t understand because the “you” that has to understand non dualism doesnt exist.

consciousness is the only thing that actually exist and you are this consciousness. a favorable story “you” like to tell yourself is that you are a human being experiencing this earth as a human. and i mean go for it but i wouldnt let it control you. because you are MUCH more.

i cannot describe exactly how powerful you are. its not possible because any words of power automatically limits us. “god” “master manifester” “shifter” “witch” “astrologer” are forms of consciousness youve created to understand human conditions. you are much more than that because you are all of that. so seeing you limit yourself to the human condition is very interesting to say the least. sure human emotions can be fun to experience but so can rollercoasters. are you gonna let that control you?

all im saying is, understand what you are and then you can truly experience “life” however you please. there’s nothing wrong with “desiring” youre just wasting energy by desiring the process to achieve things and not the thing itself. you are EVERYTHING so why limit yourself? you have everything instantaneous so why focus on getting anything?

would a god limit themselves? would a god look at the human condition and be like “damn youre so right this is hopeless..” no? then WHY are you? circumstances don’t arise with adjectives like “hard” or “easy” theyre just circumstances youre aware of and as the observer you give the circumstances their identity. whether or not its real, it is negative, positive, WHATEVER! all of these are connotations you as consciousness are giving these experiences. and it is your fault. by accepting responsibility of circumstances that arise and by working WITH them you can condition yourself into understanding theyre not real anyway. they only have the power the observer gives them. dont be a victim in your own reality. LIVE YOUR LIFE <3

© itgomyway

[itgomyway]

understanding and “applying” non dualism 🪷

there is nothing to get with non dualism because YOU ARE EVERYTHING. i am being literal when i tell you that you dont gain or lose anything. you always are being. anything that can come and go with your awareness does. not. exist. YOU are the only real thing. just be.

“well how do i be?” this seems to be what people struggle with the most. theyre thinking of techniques that are usually associated with law of assumption and while not inherently wrong, its not non dualism. “doing” anything to “get” something contradicts what non dualism is about

you always are being. even “shifting your awareness” isnt a technique it is just what you do and is apart of who you are. what is the one thing your awareness stays on? YOU. no matter what you observe, u observe it through “your” pov. this is how you experience life. this is you

everything around you, whether physical or imaginary cannot exist unless YOU, the observer, is aware of it. i dare u to try to prove this wrong. believe me, as someone who loves learning i tried to think of a scenario where existence happens outside of my awareness and came up empty!

i cannot stress this point enough. no matter how many times or different ways you ask this question, the answer will always be the same. whether you believe in “non dualism” or not, things cannot exist unless youre aware of them. so what now? APPLY!

do you want a better job? okay then be aware that you always get the best job opportunities. how? you just did it. you just said you wanted a better job so now you have a better job. since everything is you and theres no separation, this happens INSTANTLY.

there is no difference between your imagination and your physical reality. none of what takes place in these perceived differently dimensions share a different level of awareness. it all comes from YOU and YOU are one. the only thing that validates smth as real is you.

awareness has no prejudice. it’s not the one that decides what is real and whats not, you as the observer do. you can really just breathe. whenever youre aware of something you dont like just observe the opposite. how? theres no “how” because theres no process it is instantaneous! life can be a game so HAVE FUN.

moral of the story? point of this post? NONE of this is real. its all temporary that comes and goes with your awareness. your creations are not your enemy, THEY ARE YOU! stop fighting with yourself and learn to work with yourself.

© itgomyway

[itgomyway]

you are not a person imagining reality

you are reality itself imagining that it is a person

[itgomyway]

Just wanna your posts are chef's kiss fr 😩🫡

thank you lovely 🥺🧚‍♀️

[itgomyway]

i was the previous anon, but basically i read your post about no separation and attachments and it made me feel at peace (ty for posting that) and i guess in my head i had it as i would “plan out” who i wanna be and decide and blah blah blah and i guess this is duality and concept? i have been in this community for months and i think im just making things harder for myself and feeding into the concept of desires

if you understand there is no separation then have you really thought about what planning is? planning is having an idea in your mind about how events are supposed to play out, however you are everything. nothing happens, everything just is. you don't need to plan anything (sometimes plans and having list make me feel better) but ultimately there's no reason. i also don't know what the question here is i think you're just confused but i hope i cleared it up for you! 🤍

[itgomyway]

i would like to send in an ask about my experience and realizations and just a bit of advice if youre willing to give it? if not i totally understand and should probably be relying on myself but wanted a “other” perspective

sure ty for asking but pls don't use so many words. ask with long paragraphs are daunting for me

[itgomyway]

you cannot become what you already are.

"but i want" - you cannot become what you already have

"but i wanna be the one who-" there is no "one" you do not exist in a singular form. you cannot become what you already are.

"i need this physically because it reflects my-" there is no delayed reflection when you are constantly experiencing yourself. you cannot become what you are.

[itgomyway]

[itgomyway]

you cannot become what you already are.

"but i want" - you cannot become what you already have

"but i wanna be the one who-" there is no "one" you do not exist in a singular form. you cannot become what you already are.

"i need this physically because it reflects my-" there is no delayed reflection when you are constantly experiencing yourself. you cannot become what you are.

[itgomyway]

the quickest way to make "yourself" unhappy is to remain attached to all that seems like it's separated. remember only consciousness exists. this means everything in your "3d" is not separate from you. it's not some big bad wolf you have to try to find a way around it's just another form of your consciousness your ego is not identifying with right now. that's FINE. it doesn't need to. the only requirement for existing is YOU being aware of it. whatever "comes after" means nothing because only now exist

[itgomyway]

stop and sit with yourself and be pleased with where you are for once instead of chasing. you'll feel a lot better living in the present moment, the only actually moment to exist. whether you think you're experiencing it in your imagination or the physical world, dead the illusion of separation and stay present. the temporarily perceived duality won't matter

[itgomyway]

everything is connected / a reminder from the legends of korra

[itgomyway]

dead the illusion of the past and the future. you cannot get or lose anything when you are present in the now. that is all there is

[itgomyway]

hello i miss talking about non dualism and stuff but im conflicted cuz there's nothing else to talk about 😔 i don't really consider myself a teacher, coach, lifestyle whatever, mindset whatever, "non dualism teacher/blogger" i'm just sharing my experiences and knowledge with whoever is like minded or wants to become like minded. that's all :) you can take or leave the information but one thing im not doing is going back and forth with anybody. if you do not agree then leave it and go on about your day and i promise you im doing the same 🫶

[itgomyway]

non dualism cheat sheet 📝

💭 the moment you are aware of something is the exact moment it exist. it exist infinitely in many different realms of possibilities but none of them are separate. the “realms of possibilities” they’re all just you. you are only ever experiencing you. all that can be perceived is done solely by you. it exist right now and right now is all that will ever exist.

💭 even when you “manifest” something and you tell yourself that now that you see it physically, its real, it still goes away whenever the present moment ends and youre aware of something else. why hold so much attachment to temporary fake things? why give so much validity to one thing? logically, tell me why would your awareness have prejudice? as an infinite and absolute being, why would one prefer the other? would a god* have favorites? no!

💭 you can allow your ego to hold attachment to these things because whatever the ego “does” actually changes nothing but its not the ego or the attachment that manifests. its your awareness. stop and sit with yourself right now. understand that whether or not you see something or imagine something, you are still experiencing yourself.

💭 when you identify as the ego, you are taking on the burden of the brain which is bound by logic, beliefs, thoughts, doubts, and other “3D” oriented things. these are things the “doer” looks to do that it can see what to do. consciousness as the observer doesn’t have to. by assuming the role of the doer/ego, you will never live in the present moment because the ego can’t understand it.

💭 it is the ego that believes it has to manifest. it is your ego that believes it has the power to do anything. it doesn’t. consciousness just is. manifesting just gives the ego an excuse as to why it now “has” something. this isn’t incorrect. the ego cannot understand the present moment/awareness/consciousness. so you must decide.

*god; when i say “god” or “a god” i never mean it as an all powerful omnipotent being. when people think of god they think of power!

© itgomyway

[itgomyway]

I feel deep anxiety bc the ego’s exam is tmrw and she didn’t learn anything the whole study break.

The most appropriate response is to go within and ask “who is the one feeling anxiety? If we removed the labels of everything what would be left?Who is aware of being aware?Who is aware of their fear rn?” Right? 😭

I’m sorry, I’m just so anxious rn and I’m panicking and idk what to do, egos thoughts are running wild.

firstly calm down 🫂 second of all, it may not seem like it because of your anxiety but really the ego and all of its supposed problems do NOT exist. they dont exist in the way that they operate without your awareness. you probably didn't even get to enjoy your break because of the bad thoughts. let them be. let them run its course. it's never the thoughts, it's always the reaction and the story you gave it that makes "you" anxious. what i would do is dead the entire illusion by detaching myself from it. go through the motions knowing that whatever "you" are aware of is whatever "you" are seeing. and this is infinite. you already are aware of failure and dwelled on it for awhile. but just what if everything worked out?