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You and your f/o complement each other so well!!!!! You guys are adorable together <3

[jaimereyes-selfshipper]

Your F/O(s) love you regardless of your flaws. Anything you hate about yourself, they will love ten times over. There is nothing about you that can make them hate you. You are the whole universe in their eyes. And they would do anything for that little universe.

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Imagine comforting your F/O because something they perceive as 'not a big deal' upset them. Imagine gently validating their fears or worries or feelings, it's not 'overreacting' to you, because the person you love so, so much, is upset.

They wave their hand dismissively, they don't want to inconvenience you with something that won't matter in the end, and you gently take their hand and rub their knuckles with your thumbs until they unclench their other fist.

They take a breath, and you relax alongside them. You ask them if they want a hug, and they nod, which you are happy to oblige with a gentle embrace and whispering of reassurance.

It's not 'nothing' to you. If it matters to them, it matters to you. If it hurts them, it hurts you, and you just want to make everything right by them again.

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If there's one thing you must take from selfshipping, it is that your f/o is utterly, absolutely, and undoubtedly in your corner. If you want them to love and care for you, then they do. You create the dynamic. So, with that being said; let them love you. Allow yourself to bask in that emotion you want them to feel for you. it's there; all you've got to do is embrace it.

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Imagine your f/o(s) stepping in front of you protectively when someone threatens you.

They don’t need to be especially big or good at fighting, and they don’t care. Even if they are much smaller than you or the threat, or not particularly strong, it is still their instinct to keep the one they love safe. A fire burns in their eyes, silently saying that they will never let anyone hurt you, no matter the cost.

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HEY! Your selfship is not entitled to be aesthetically pleasing ᯓ★

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but your relationship doesn’t have to have lovely layouts or art pieces or a dedicated following to be real!!

Your lover adores you. No matter what. 💚

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this is a sign to draw yourself in your f/os clothes. idc if they wouldn't actually fit you you should do it anyways

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f/o hands. f/o hand in your hand. f/o hand on your shoulder. f/o hand rubbing down your upper arm. f/o hand on your waist. f/o hand on your hip. f/o hand on your thigh. f/o hand on cheek. f/o hand in hair. f/o hand.........

[jaimereyes-selfshipper]

your f/o walks in on you with a plushie of them, how do they feel about it?

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Listen as an autistic person I really do understand the urge to want your selfships to be ‘accurate’ but 1) accuracy is subjective 2) your f/o will act differently (in a positive way) after knowing you 3) at the end of the day this shit is self indulgent soOOOOOOOO have fun and indulge<3

[jaimereyes-selfshipper]

Mutuals*!! Give me one of your F/Os and your S/I and I'll assign each of them a ring!!

[*People I follow that follow me back, I will not follow back just for this post's interaction!]

[jaimereyes-selfshipper]

🌙 — Imagine ,

It's well past midnight when your f/o pulls you close again, the world outside your window cloaked in velvet blue. The only light in the room comes from the soft golden hue of the paper lanterns strung overhead, swaying slightly as if breathing with the same rhythm you both share.

They trace lazy patterns along your arm, not needing to say anything—just basking in the quiet warmth of being near you. The room smells faintly of tea and worn pages, and there's a record spinning somewhere in the background, humming an old love song like it was written just for tonight.

“You always look like you're dreaming when you’re with me,” they whisper, brushing a strand of hair from your face.

“Maybe I am,” you murmur back.

They smile, that soft, sleepy kind of smile that only appears when they’re too in love to hide it. “Then don’t wake up.”

...but you don't plan to, do you?

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Imagine wrapping your arms and legs around your F/O, and you won’t let go, not for anything. Your love for them is just too overwhelming.

And they won’t let go of you, either. They’ll hold onto you and gently rub your back, and they’ll let you stay like this as long as you’d like.

And maybe, just maybe, they find it endearing. Maybe their breath hitches knowing how much you love them, and they give you a gentle kiss.

[jaimereyes-selfshipper]

imagine your f/o comforting you when you’re anxious. no matter what’s causing it, their priority is to make you feel safe. they might take you to a quiet or familiar place, giving you a chance to let out your feelings. if you’re comfortable being touched, they will hold you until the panic subsides. if not, they will stay by your side and be your rock for as long as you need. they’ll do anything for you if it helps you ground yourself, whether it be comforting words or soothing touches. they love you so so much, and they want to be your safe space when the world feels overwhelming.

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Anyways shoutout to the selfshippers who use their f/o as motivation to do better. You did your classwork for the day? Your f/o is so proud of you. You worked out in some fashion? Your f/o thinks you looked hot doing it and wants you to do cute little flexes for them. You did that thing you were putting off all week? Your f/o says 10,000 kisses for you

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draw you and your f/o like this, it's the easiest thing ever and gives you so much happiness it could blow up a SUN

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if you have a bad day just remember that your f/os lips are available and kissable . just sayin