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Ok everyone let’s think beautiful thoughts about masculine women today.

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My favorite part of the Mo Dao Zu Shi novel so far is how when Wei Wuxian is resurrected he proceeds to play gay chicken with someone who is a) actually gay and b) completely in love with him.

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Man: I'm only attracted to women and am married to a woman

Tumblr users: you're straight

Man: I'm only attracted to women and am married to a (trans) woman

Tumblr users: wow this is some insane queer gender fuckery. His sexual identity is so complex there can't possibly be a word for it

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I hope when I say "please advise" in an email they know I sent it screaming in utter terror and confusion

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Mildly annoying thing I've noticed: when someone says "not all nonbinary people are transmasc or transfem", a lot of well-meaning folks go "yeah! transneutral nonbinary people are valid too!" and it's like. thank you for the attempt but there are also nonbinary people who are not that, either. have we considered the somewhat controversial position of just acknowledging, including, and supporting nonbinary people regardless of how else they choose to describe their gender or transition? because right now it seems like you're only able to accept nonbinary people if you get to expand the latest binary to a trinary.

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part of the reason I think it’s so sad that we collectively write so few stories about unrequited love is bc I feel like there’s very little public acknowledgment of how much it sucks to be the one somebody is in unrequited love with??? and not in a way of like, oh they’re crossing boundaries or putting expectations on me or whatever. becoming close friends with someone and then finding out they’re in love with you and you don’t love them back the same way is heartbreaking, bc a) someone you love is in pain and there is literally nothing you can do about it, and b) it usually means that whether you like it or not there’s going to be distance in your friendship that wasn’t there before as they try to get over you. idk man I just feel like we’ve all discussed the tragedy of loving someone who doesn’t love you back quite a lot and very rarely discuss the tragedy of finding out the way that you love someone just isn’t enough.

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I’m a recovered hater who needs to see the good in people so I don’t kill myself and my brother is a recovered care-too-much-er who needs to dislike people so he doesn’t accidentally carry the world on his shoulders so as you can imagine hanging out in public is sometimes an ordeal

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It should be illegal to have a bus stop without a bench I am 1000% serious rn

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Lesbian Lovers Kissing In Tiananmen, 2006

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"you can use ai to improve spelling and grammar"

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Pre-chopped fruits and veggies make it possible for so many people with various disabilities to prepare healthy meals and maintain their energy.

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take a break while watching this little bunny cross your dash

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I see many people (mainly “cis” women) make fun of a “hypothetical” young trans masc in their life and his “weird” name (“like arson!”) and “edgy” interests and having dyed hair and I’m immediately like OHHHHHH you wanted to be this guy so bad. that’s why you’re still mad at this “hypothetical” kid over genuinely nothing at all. you were and are deeply jealous of this person. wherever he is I hope he’s happy because you’re clearly not lol

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There is no crime where torture is an acceptable punishment.

There is no crime where sexual assault is an acceptable punishment.

There is no crime where slavery is an acceptable punishment.

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Oh!

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While taking a nap today I dreamt there was a hazard sign called "never found" which was used to indicate a location where people disappeared never to be seen again