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It's bittersweet to leave the place I've called home for the past year. Sweet because I'm getting out of Aycock and the awful endless stairs, but bitter because of all the memories that I've made and shared here. Aycock may be one of the worst dorms on campus, but it was still home this year. Can't wait to be back next year! Scott here I come! #FreshmanYearIsOver #AycockHall #ECU

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This is what I woke up to this morning. #SpringBreak2k15 #MyrtleBeach

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I love where I grew up. #WrightsvilleBeachNC #WrightsvilleBeach Forever Beautiful

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My babies playing in the snow! I wish I could play with them!!! I love my fur babies!!

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I'm going to kick these 2 tests butts!!

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Tumblr shows us all the sexiness of D/s, but what it rarely shows us, is the struggle. And let’s be clear, D/s is often a struggle. A war raging in the minds of its participants.

For the submissive, the question of how much to give. She may want to be taken sexually, because it’s fun and enjoyable. But what about her mind? Is she prepared to let him alter her behaviors, change the way she acts or reacts? Is she prepared to suffer the shame or humiliation of punishments? How far will she allow herself to be pushed? To what levels of depravity is she prepared to sink to be with this man? Can she submit when she’s tired, or scared, or hurt or angry?

For the Dominant, can he effectively set and maintain his boundaries? Can he uphold his responsibilities to be honest, to provide for her growth, her safety, and her happiness, all while balancing her needs for his strength and determination to guide her? Can he hold himself as accountable as he holds her - or more? And what about when times are hard - will he cave, will he break? Will he let his own morals slide for the sake of convenience?

These are the challenges we all face. This is not always fun. It is not always easy. It is not all great kinky sex. It’s really hard work. It’s two people pledging themselves to one another for one another’s mutual benefit.

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Stole this from @ipsy. Sooo trueeee!! #neverlookback

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In a D/s relationship, the building of that relationship is based on respect, trust, and, above all, consent. A true Dominant values his submissive, because he understands the gift he is being given, in her submission to him. They work as a team, in defined roles towards her growth in her submission, carefully pushing her limits. Reaching and surpassing these limits is an extremely liberating, not humiliating experience. You discover places within yourself that you didn’t know where there or never thought you’d be able to face, and you are able to do it in a safe, supportive environment. The Dominant provides that safety with his strength and his patience. He is strict, but only because he needs to push the submissive to her very best, and not allow her to accept less from herself. You find yourself better able to face the outside world, with confidence after experiences such as these, knowing that you are worthwhile, and that you are strong within. A submissive’s dependence on her Dom, can be her greatest strength, and the beginning of true confidence and self-worth, stripping away the false façade that we all too often wear, to protect ourselves from the outside world.

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Happy Birthday Marines! Especially those in my family! Happy Birthday Daddy, Clark, Grandpa, and Jordan! #USMC #HappyBirthdayMarines

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The human body has 7 trillion nerves and some people manage to get on every single fucking one of them

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#tbt we were too cute!

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Holy #tbt Hahaaha, that's my baby brother! Yup, I put him in my favorite purple dress! Love you Matt!

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Put an end to something too many people deal with on a daily basis!