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i ruined everything // 8.4.2017

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FAT GIRL PROBLEMS

1. chub rub 2. people who see us as a fetish 3. cute clothes are never in our size 4. when clothes are our size, they never fit right  5. boobs, belly, hip, but, ratio 6. people regularly call you “fat,” as if you never knew 7. “you can have the front seat” when traveling with friends & family 8. you can never find a towel that goes all the way around you  9. people are surprised when you order a salad instead of a burger  10. “oh honey, you’re not fat, you’re beautiful” 11. painting your toe nails 12. doing up shoes with the buckle on the sides 13. people who think fat girls don’t have sex 14. cute bra’s and panties in your size are impossible to find  15. public transport at rush hour 16. fat girl clothes prices  17. judged if you eat too much, judged if you eat too little 18. the crotch/in between the thighs if your trousers rip too often 19. “sore throat?” .. “Yeah…” …. “It’s because of your weight"  20.  squeezing past people and still rubbing your body against them 21. body hair in places you never knew existed 22. “you’re so soft can i use you as a pillow?” 23. the stare of death you receive from other fat girls in public 24. “you’re so pretty for a fat girl” 25. no matter who you’re with in public you both get dirty looks 26. shopping with thin friends and only trying on shoes and jewellry 27. “would you like that meal as a large?” 28. stairs 29. the fact that it’s socially acceptable to make fun of fat people 30. booths in restaurants 31. your family automatically plate up XL portions of food for you 32. “have you put on weight?” at every family gathering 33. you can never find pretty bangles or rings that fit you 34. “you should go to the gym with me” 35. “you’d be so much prettier if you lost 100lbs” 36. irregular periods 37. we’re treated worse than murderers/rapists/pedophiles by society 38. people are shocked when they see you eat fruit 39. “fat girls have to try more with their personalities” 40. we’re made to feel like shit by society, and it’s fucking wrong. We are fucking beautiful. We have as much right to love ourselves and feel great, just like every other human being. Rock on fat girls.  Fat girls, I love you. 

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Losing weight does not cure negative body image.

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Thank you, Bernie.

           You’re my brother.

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To my fat girls who struggle with intimacy:

- I see you

- I’m with you

- I love you

- You are enough

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what a mood

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I’m here for these tweets

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Check out my short film I made around anxiety 🎬

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The Breakfast Club (1985) dir. John Hughes

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Question:

Have you ever kept a secret that only very few people know the truth about and to everyone else you lie, but the lies get bigger and bigger and you’re too far deep to dig yourself outta the hole because damn what’s done is done.

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is this moving or my eyes tripping

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me, handing in my essays:

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