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Don’t confuse my hatred of the hyperwealthy for jealousy over what they have. I don’t want a six figure sports car, or a 40 room mansion, or a gold leaf truffle wagyu steak dinner. I want redistribution of wealth that allows for infrastructural support of all citizens’ basic survival needs.

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(via Saturday Morning Cartoons: Baopu #15) by Yao Xiao

words to remember

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I just can’t with this joker.. I don’t even remember his name 😅. There’s just so much wrong with this . You guys have fun cringing as much as I did . I put up with him to practice being patient 😂😂💀

A lil background - I found this guy on meetme. My friend and I were streaming and drinking a bit and he starts blowing up the chat about how beautiful I am and blah blah blah. I know guys will take their compliments right back if they don’t get their way so they don’t matter to me . We chat a little and I can tell he’s obsessive. Texting 4,5,6 times if I don’t answer in 10 mins . He calls and I talk all sweetly to reel him in . It works but I reeled in the wrong person . He then tries to play these stupid games with me as if I’m in the mood for it . Just a complete joke that’s the only thing I can say. Can you count all the red flags?? 🚩😂

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I love seeing the reaction of men’s face once they know I’m experienced. Let them know they aren’t the first nor the last. You think the first man who has offered me money? You think (chuckles) you are the first man who has a company and has told me “I will mentor you into success.”

“I’m not that guy.”  You are exactly that guy and you want to f**k me, I will have to see that envelope. It’s not transactional, it’s deserving. I swear men go to women and demand the opposite of what is expected. You really think someone in their 20s, who is working, and beautiful wants to be a mutually beneficial relationship for connection? 

You think women like me dress up, shave, do nails, work out because, we are desperate for chemistry and dick? I understand why older men try to go for 17-20 year olds, he states what he will do in the future because he has time not do it. This is why the last girl wrote to your ex-wife and your kids because naïve women are always falling in love; They take whatever you give to them and they somehow think you are their savior for textbook money. I can’t wait for the second date on Friday. I’m going to either crush his ego or have stacks. I’ll enjoy it either way. 

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Sugarbabies: We must act like a lady and not be so blunt. Sugaring is a process, a dance and only women who know how to act will succeed. Be strategic when discussing the financial details.

Escorts: If I don’t get my God damn deposit, I ain’t showing up. If I come for an appointment, I look for the envelope before I look for the man. 

Luxury Women: We must go to exclusive events, drink champagne,  travel, educate ourselves in art, politics and the world. Men of a certain caliber will gravitate to us like magnets. 

Me: All of the above.

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TED2018: THE AGE OF AMAZEMENT

Sugaring has and always will be about more than just the money, gifts, and travel for me. I have strategically manipulated my way into a position where I’m comfortable. Never fully satisfied because I always want more and there’s always room for improvement, but nonetheless I’m content. I’ve infiltrated just about every social and professional circle that I know of and it has paid off immensely. Slowly but surely working my way up to socialite status. Anyway, back to my original point.

I met my Russian guy last year at a hotel lounge the week of the TED conference. I sat next to him at the bar and I noticed his TED lanyard so I asked if he had just come from the conference which got our conversation started. He asked me “Are you attending the conference as well?” to which I responded “No, but I’d love to one day attend and possibly become a speaker”. I didn’t think anything of this conversation. We exchanged contact details at the end of the night, and we kept in touch and eventually began our sugar relationship.

It’s been almost a year into our arrangement, and this man has surpassed almost all expectations. As much as I enjoy material things, I value experiences a whole lot more (some may disagree with this sentiment).

I watch TED talks on a daily basis and he knows this. I knew that he would be attending TED again this year because he has been going for about 15 years, so I was more just looking forward to hearing stories from him about the happenings of the conference and did not in any way expect to attend because:

A TED membership is hard to get

Conference attendance space is very limited

The cost of membership ranges from $10,000-$250,000USD

This man went behind my back, applied for and attained a TED membership for me😭

I ATTENDED THE CONFERENCE THIS YEAR😭

Honestly, it was an experience that I won’t soon forget.

I sat in a different section from him because he was with his business associates. I didn’t mind, I was just happy to be there.

I socialized with scientists, professors, business people, doctors, film makers, producers, activists, authors, linguists, journalists, musicians, a well-known black actress, etc. Any and every occupation you can think of was present. I received a lot of business cards and also gave out mine (my actual legitimate ones with my real name and credentials😂). It was the best networking opportunity thus far. I’m excited to build bridges with my new connects.

Small word of advice: 🗣USE THESE MEN FOR THEIR CONNECTIONS🗣

That’s all folks!💛

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Got drunk with ‘luxury courtesans’ last night, (booze and loose lips….) and this is what I learned:

-Dont believe all the stuff you see, the 1k girls on twitter who thanks ‘Mr.X’ for dinner and new manolos are picking up their own checks and sponsoring themselves.

-Multiple personas is a real thing…. 1k+/hr girls at 300/hr, and it’s the 300/hr that’s paying the rent and saks bill…..

-Escorting used to be a lot easier (the glory days)— a time where dinner dates were the norm, 1 or 2 hr bookings wasn’t a thing. Now you really have to work for the dinners, trips, etc, you mold these dudes into giving you what you want… paid trips to Paris aren’t going to just fly into your hands, no matter how pretty your pictures are.

-At first I thought 10k a month was the ultimate money goal, then 20k, then 30-40k. But there are chicks out there doing 100k per fucking month. High end and steady volume is a thing. Just have to build your base. It takes time

-Don’t get caught up in this life… at the end of the day it’s a fake persona that has minimal long term value. Don’t let it pollute your day to day. Don’t get into shit, don’t get thrown into any hooker dramas. Before you speak, just think: will this bitchy comment make me any money? Bottom line, we’re doing this for $$$$ and leveling ourselves up in real life. Focus on that.

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What is your checklist when investing into stocks? (The traditional way)

I don’t know if you’re referring to my checklist when trading, or checklist for any investments.

Trading and investing in the financial market are two completely different activities.

My checklist for any investment (long-term) is much more extensive than my checklist for trading (short-term).

But for long-term investments, I usually have to do a very extensive financial analysis and try to answer the following questions:

Do I like the business?

Can I, in one sentence, say exactly what the company does? — I won’t buy into anything that I don’t understand, or at least to a certain degree. 

Do I like the management? (Operators, capital allocators, integrity, vision). 

Is operating cash flow higher than reported EPS (earnings per share)?

Is there growth in Earnings Per Share? 

Is Free Cash Flow/Share higher than dividends paid?

What is the Free Cash Flow Margin?

What is the debt-to-equity ratio? 

What is the debt to EBITDA ratio? 

What are the financial covenants and how many are currently in place?

When is the debt due?

Is the current asset ratio greater than 1.5?

What are the pre-tax profit margins? 

Is the quick ratio greater than 1?

What is the Altman Z score? Greater than 2.99?

What is the Piotroski F-Score?

Is there substantial dilution (issuance of additional stock/shares)? This can either be good or bad. 

What is the Flow ratio? 

What is the bargaining power of suppliers? 

Any net share buybacks?

Is it a low risk business or highly volatile? 

How capital intensive is the business?

Does management have the ability to naturally re-invest in the business at a high return?

Is the company highly profitable?

Has it got a high return on capital?

Has the business got an enormous moat?

Is there room for future growth?

Does the business have strong cash flow?

What has management done with the cash?

Where has the Free Cash Flow been invested? Share buybacks, dividends, or reinvested in the business.

Is this a dividend stock or index? 

Do I understand the business, and after all analyses; is it worth it?

1. Safety: Safety of your capital should be of primary concern so that you are able to invest confidently. Following parameters are important to analyse the safety of investment into any company: 

Debt Equity Ratio: should be less than 0.5. Decreasing Debt is a good sign

Current Ratio: should be greater than 1. This ratio gives a measure of liquidity of the company. If this ratio is low, that means that the company is facing issues with liquidity to meet its operational needs.

Interest Coverage Ratio: This ratio gives a measure of Profitability with respect to interest paid. Avoid Stocks that have an interest coverage ratio less than 2.5.

Operating Cash Flow vs Net Income: Avoid stocks which don’t have Income and OCF as parallel. Ideally, OCF should be a bit more than net income. Be wary of any major diversion between these two.

Pledged Shares: Avoid the companies whose more than 5% shares are pledged.

2. Performance: Company’s past 10 years performance should be taken into account. A company which performs consistently is a great investment. Analyze the performance of the company by looking at following parameters:

Return on Equity: Return on Equity or Return on networth is the ratio of Net Profit and Net worth of the company. It gives a measure of how well the company uses its assets to generate the profit.The companies which have an average Return on Equity greater than 15% are considered good.

Net Profit Margin: You should see whether the Net Profit Margin has decreased or increased in last few years. This would give you an idea of decreasing or increasing competitiveness of the company in its industry

Free Cash Flow: Free Cash Flow represents the amount of cash that the company is able to retain out of Cash generated from Operations after meeting all its operating capital expenses. A consistently negative FCF means that the company is struggling to meet its operating capital needs with the cash that it generates from operations.

3. Growth: Market rewards the companies that can grow their revenue and net profit manifolds over a period of time. Most of the time, the increase in price of the stock is exactly proportional to the growth in profit. Following are the growth parameters you should look at:

Revenue Growth: Should be greater than 15%

Profit Growth: Should be greater than 15%

Dividend Growth: Dividend Growth should ideally be similar to Profit Growth.

4. Valuation: It is not advisable to buy a good company at a very high price. One should wait for some correction before investing in. In order to determine the correct price, you would need to use some valuations models such as Graham Formula, DCF, Median PE, EPS Growth Valuation models etc. Using these, you can determine the correct time to enter into any stock.

A very important thing for me as well is quality of management. If I’m putting my money in a stock, I want to make sure the management is of good quality. What do I mean by management quality? Basically, the management is smart enough to figure out what is good for the company, and then keep doing it. How do you check for it? One way would be: every quarter, when a company declares its quarterly results, they also provide a “Guidance”, which is basically their vision of what they want the company to be able to achieve in the future. You can check past few results and check if the company is achieving what they’re saying they want to achieve.

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The Girlfriend Experience

In my regular life I dislike affection and anything that has a somewhat emotional aspect to it. It makes things complicated and I have an issue with things that aren’t definitive.

But in my persona life, GFE has become my favourite thing. Most providers that I come across hate GFE and would rather just get to business and leave. I get it; it can be emotionally draining to put on this whole façade. However, I think I’ve gotten to a point in which I can almost fully shut my personal thoughts and feelings off (but with parameters) and transform into my persona. She’s bubbly but sultry with a mix of my mysterious nature. You never truly know her, but she makes you feel like you’re the only person in the room and therefore allows you to believe that you know her intimately.

Maybe I’m fucked up, but I love the push and pull of the whole experience. Perhaps it’s because the feelings are manufactured; a simple figment of his imagination that I try to emulate. It’s the reason why I’ve been able to raise my rates to a point in which I’m considered “high-end”* in my local city and other parts of the country. And I’m going to continue to raise my rates because there will always be someone willing to foot the bill.

*The reason I’m able to get away with this is because there simply isn’t another like me (at least in my city, and even elsewhere I don’t think there’s another like me). I have yet to come across any other dark-skinned companions in my city of residence.

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2019 Challenge

What is it going to take? 

What is it going to take for you to put 110% of your blood, sweat, and tears into getting what you want? 

You’re sitting here watching your sixth episode of Grey’s Anatomy in a row, when you could be doing literally anything else. Reading ahead for your classes. Working on your latest project. Whipping your body into shape at the gym. Literally, anything. 

Let me put this into perspective. If you’re lucky you have a good 80 or so years on this earth. 

18 of those years are spent growing up, making mistakes, learning how to interact with the world, etc. That leaves you with 62. 

You spend approximately 4 years of your lifetime eating/drinking. Now you have 58. 

Believe it or not, an average human will spend around 20 years of their time as an adult sleeping. Which leaves us with 38. 

My math might be slightly off, but you get the point. I could go down even further, just to show you exactly how much of your life you spend simply trying to do basic human things to survive. Eat, drink, sleep, etc.

When are you going to stop just surviving and actually live? 

You’ve got approximately 38 years, not the 80 you thought you had. Does that change things up a bit? It should. Now you have less than half the life you thought you would have. It would be even more unfortunate if you didn’t even have those original 80 years in the first place. What if you only had 20? 

What would you do? 

Would you still sit here and watch your show in peace?

What if I told you that you only had a year?

Do you feel that tenseness now? That increase of your heartbeat as you think about the limited time you have? Don’t you feel your mind itching to do something? Do you feel uneasy? 

Good. 

As much as you’d like to believe otherwise, you’re not invincible. That sudden unsettling echo in your bones? That’s your body aching to be put to good use. 

Yes, you have a dream. It’s probably great, brilliant, absolutely revolutionary. 

Now what are you doing to turn that fantasy into reality? 

Don’t tell me “Oh, I have to own my own company in order to live my dream”. Don’t give me some bullshit excuse. Better yet, don’t give yourself some shitty reason why you aren’t taking charge of your own life. 

Take charge of your life or someone else will. You can choose to control your own future, or dance for somebody else. 

Open your eyes. You should always be doing something to further your own interests. Read. Think outside of the box. Stop letting “no” stop you. 

Do me a favor and look at yourself in the mirror. Do you like what you see? What can you change? Why isn’t it already changed? What can you improve upon? Why isn’t it already something you’re working towards?

The fact of the matter is, you can get exactly what you want in life. You just have to get up, reach out, and grab it. Your actions can benefit only yourself in the long run. 

Do you want something?

It’s 2019, my darling. I challenge you to go out and get exactly what you want.

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How do you get men to wanting to care for you and help you? It doesn't matter what kind of men I meet, bf/pot/sub they don't want to give me money, they don't want to give me any gifts and they don't want to help with anything. And I don't get it? It's like I am so strong that I should manage by myself. But I never do the whole independent woman thing, on the contrary I really try to be feminine, I ask for help, I show appreciation when they do things for me etc. What am I doing wrong?

You are either picking up men in the wrong place or your “look/appearance” is not giving off a “kept woman” vibe. You get men wanting to take care of you by looking and acting as if you’re already being taken care of.  

You have to look like it, act like it.You have to eat, sleep and breathe it. You have to EMBODY it.

Giving you a “script” or phrases to say doesn’t always work because certain words don’t have the same effect on every man. 

For instance some guys love damsels in distress. (aka “captain save-a-hoe” types). If you approach them with a tragic, sad story they’ll leap at the opportunity to help you. 

But every guy isn’t like that. 

Some guys love the bossy, princess type. They love a girl that’s a bit demanding, bitchy and takes no shit. 

Both of these guys will “keep” you. But they will do it for different reasons. And if you try to use a “bossy princess tactic” on a “captain save-a-hoe” type it’s not going to work. He’s going to get turned off and will probably cut off contact with you. Or he’ll pretend as if he’ll assist you and then never come through. 

Words are not the most effective way to IMPLANT the idea into a man’s head that you want to be kept. 

Most people don’t really hear you when you speak. Everyone has “selective hearing”. They hear what they want to hear. 

So what do you do?

You show them better than you can tell them. 

It’s 80% of how you present yourself and 20% of what you say. 

Haven’t you ever made up your mind about someone or made a judgement about a person before they even opened their mouth to speak?

Your words merely back up your actions. 

You have to dress like a kept woman. This doesn’t mean you have to be draped in Chanel but you do need to be put together. Looking put together is SO fucking important. Look at how the “rich women” in your area are dressing and presenting themselves. Are you doing the same? Everyone has their own unique style but the common theme is that they are put together from head to toe. Be honest. Are you doing this? ALL of this? Hair. Eyebrows. Skin. Teeth. Makeup. Posture. Perfume. Properly fitting outfit. Manicured nails. Quality handbag and shoes (it doesn’t have to be designer).

When you look like a million bucks you attract a million bucks. There are quite a few videos on YouTube about how to look expensive on a budget. Watch them and take notes. 

You have to act like a kept woman. How would you act if you were already being sponsored? What would your hobbies be? Where would you go? What would you do?

Begin incorporating it into your lifestyle. And don’t think it has to be expensive either. It costs absolutely nothing to walk around Saks Fifth Avenue. 

Now where are you finding your men?

I know you’re on a lot of online sites. I urge you to diversify and begin freestyling and to also change the pictures that you’re using. If they’re head-shots or body-shots of you in some random location or in front of a plain background/wall they’ve got to go. 

A picture is worth a thousand words and you need to set your narrative: 

A picture of you in an upscale hotel lobby.

A picture of you in front of a high end department store (with the name of the store in the picture with a shopping bag in your hand)

A picture of you in an expensive restaurant at the bar with a pretty drink.

A picture of you holding a bouquet of flowers, box of chocolates, etc. 

And when a man sees that type of profile with those kinds of pictures, he’s not going to think “wow she’s an independent woman getting it on her own”. He’s going to think “there’s some man paying for all of that and if I want to get with her, I’m going to have to do the same.” 

And THEN when you start to ask for things, he wont be surprised. But you have to set this precedent from the very beginning.  

He doesn’t want to give you what you want? Thankyou, NEXT. 

I personally like to start off like this:

2 Dates at a NICE restaurant (do not accept drink dates).

Then I start asking for gifts. Maybe a dress for our next date. Or 2 dozen roses. Or chocolate truffles. Nothing too crazy as long as it sends the message that I am a luxury, I like luxury things and you will spend your money when you’re around me. 

It doesn’t matter if he’s a captain save a hoe type, bossy princess type or something else. NO MAN should have a problem with buying gifts for his lady.

He has a problem with it? THANKYOU NEXT.

After a few gifts, I ask for a small bill to be paid. Then I keep working my way up.  

And do not be afraid to “act dumb”:

“What do you mean you didn’t give your past girlfriends gifts??? Didn’t you want to do something sweet for her?” *look confused* What do you mean you never took your former Mistress/Domme shopping?? I thought you liked showing your appreciation? *look confused?*What do you mean that’s all you gave your previous sugar baby?? Didn’t you want to help her out more? *LOOK FUCKING CONFUSED*

You do not have to act bitchy or demanding (unless he’s in to that)You do not have to beg or plead.You do not have to act overly sweet. 

You simply say this as “matter of factly” as you can with a straight face. 

He’s going to feel like an ass and is either going to cave within 24 hours or disappear out of your life.

You have to set the standard from the beginning.  

And you can not waver from it. You have to be ruthless and willing to cut him off with the quickness if he will not meet your demands.

You don’t have to be mean. Just stop giving him attention.

A kept woman does not “ask”, she expects.

She expects you to take her on shopping trips.She expects you to take her dining at upscale restaurants.She expects you to take her on luxury vacations.She expects you to take care of her financially.

That is simply the “cost” of dating her.

When I look at both my successes and failures I noticed that every time I failed it was because I acted like a woman that WANTED to be a kept woman. Every time I succeeded it was because I acted like woman that IS a kept woman. 

There is a difference.

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gotsa a date 2nite so u know i had to do it to em

🌹hollister: top: $25 bottoms: $20

🌹VS: purple bra: $60 black bra: $60 undies: $17 tank top: $27

🌹H&M: necklace: $8 glasses: $10

🌹DSW: shoes: $55

👑total: $283👑

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Kneel Down to the King ( @lynel dragon that i got for him //btw//)