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A reply to your Facebook accusations

My perspective. I have been a mum and single parent to a child for three years. A child who was brought into the world in some pretty diar circumstances. A 17year old mum with little to no qualifications no proper job. A family home that was being ripped apart by unexpected deaths. A 17year old who lost her two only male figures in her life and her two friends who she thought she could rely on. The father of the child who age 24 was illusive and unreliable. Who's family only wanted a relationship with the baby on their terms. On 14th December Darcie Marie Byrne was born. Due to a 30hr labour both mum and baby caught septicaemia and were required to stay in hospital for a week. During this time the father visited three times. Every time he would show up outside of visiting hours, and the first time he came into the neo-natal ward, where there were severely ill children, he wore a dirty tracksuit he stunk of cannabis and his shoes were covered in mud. The last time the father saw Darcie was the 29th of December 2015. It was arranged to me at 2 in a local shop to go for a coffee. Due to traffic and having a newborn child I arrived at 2.15. The father didn't arrive at the shop until 3.30. On that day he arrived with an unwrapped empty euro piggy bank. And a card. Whilst leaving he said to the mum that the next day he was receiving a payment from dwp and that he would call the next day to send over some money that phone call has never come. The mother then didn't hear from the father until the new year, about 8 weeks after the baby had been born asking to go and register the birth. Anyone knows that a birth needs to be registered within the first 6 weeks. I as a mum then decided that I was not going to chase the father for him to have a relationship with his child but rather leave the ball in his court. If the father wishes to have contact with the child it was to be through a contact centre to start off until he could prove himself reliable. This was due to the mother knowing very little about this man other than that he had an extensive criminal history and history of drug abuse. When I as a mother asked questions such as where he lived or what he was planning to do for work it was greeted with 'that's none of your concern'. So after contacting social services and speaking to the Heath visitors family members and midwives I chose to inform the father of this and leave it at that. In may 2015 I personally witnessed the father sat in a car with a girl in the car outside my family home. After checking cctv for the previous few weeks and finding him there multiple times I informed the police as I did not feel this behaviour was appropriate. A few weeks later I received a phone call from the father giving me abuse and telling me it couldn't have been him despite the police confirming it was him. In December 2015 after not receiving a penny for the year from the father I applied for CSA as entitled to. £6.38 aweek was collected and received for about 14 months until the father decided he wanted to pay into the mothers account. The mother set up a new account and the details were given to the father. Not a penny was receive for 4months so the csa started Collecting the payments again. In June 2017 the father then decided he wasn't the father of the child. The mum wasn't informed of this until the csa case was closed on 29th July and she was told to reapply for csa so the father could then choose to do a DNA test. She did so on 15august2017. The father still hasn't payed or set in motion for a DNA test. At no point have I as a mother refused a DNA test or denied the man as her child's father. To this date, I have never received any form of contact from the father asking about the wellbeing of a child who he claims on social media to love so dearly. I have never had a phone call asking to see her or asking for a contact centre visits to be arranged. So after three years of being a single parent, working, studying and primarily being a mum to a beautiful daughter. Am I wrong for putting my daughter needs first by choosing to give her 200% rather than 80% with 20% of my time chasing a man who has failed at every opportunity he has been given? A man who has never willingly provided for a defenceless human? A man who chose to take himself and his girlfriend on holiday as oppose to provide for his daughter? A man who at 24 hung round a college picking up 16year old girls? A man who kidnapped someone for drug money with the mother of his child present? A man who uses and spends money on recreational drugs as opposed to making an effort with his daughter? A man who has every opportunity to be involved but flopped when the time come? Quite honestly, As a parent or even as the child in question, would you want a man who over 3 years has made no contribution emotionally financially and physically to just waltz right is an if nothing has happened?

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