| Kandi/Beadwork Shop | I don't post my ao3 handle on here but I will post my writing thoughts | prefers it/its pronouns & goes by Kandi. Sometimes I think mischaracterization is funny so if you wanna talk to me seriously abt a character you gotta let me know.
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look I've harped on this before but I think it's worth doing again. if you put "cis men dni" you are forcing trans men to out themselves to interact with you and that's shitty. you're also making eggs and closeted transfems feel worse about themselves and making the distance between womanhood/femininity and themselves feel that much wider and unassailable. (source: me) you're ALSO making recently out/early stages of transition/just very insecure trans women feel like shit, and probably desperately consider what the difference is between themselves and men, and they likely won't interact with you either. (source: me again) also yk what I get it kind of if ur making sapphic posts or whatever but sometimes it just isn't necessary. sometimes it genuinely is just shitty to cis men too and it promotes a weird ass culture of bioessentialism. just. you're showing a message. and it's maybe not the one you think you are, or the one you want.
#this post.. yeah.#and like#why would I want my brothers to have yet another place shoving that there's a fundamental difference between them and cis men#and have my sisters questioning whether or not I think they count?#When I see those it's like#Would you kick my sisters out your care for being too butch?#What about in that early vulnerable state of just finding themselves?#Or if they didn't want to shave that day—if at all?#If they don't want to train their voices?#If they do and happen to be tired or have their voices crack would you turn your back over what you heard?#And what about my brothers?#Will you support them only so long as they don't take hormones?#What about if they dare to express themselves?#Or if they happen to be one of the rare few who can pass without years of hrt?#And if they don't duck their heads and nod along to yet another man-hating joke that#would have never been spoken around a man that was percived as cis?#Cause that's the thing isn't it?#There's a person's actual gender (or lack of) and there's a perceived gender#So many times I see hate against my sisters that isn't because they're viewed as women or anything else (though that obviously does exist)#but because they're veiwed as cis men who are Wrong/disgusting/perverted.#And these sorts of dnis against cis men specifically (though I dislike general ''men dni'' stuff for similar reasons)#just very clearly state to me that anyone with them veiws ''trans woman'' and ''woman'' as seperate genders#and ''trans man'' and ''man'' as different too#which is pretty textbook transphobia#it feels like denying a person their manhood or their womanhood to instead forever resign them to an ''other'' category#Of course. It's also a mess to anyone who exists outside of the easily-digestable gender binary#Is my genderfluid friend only allowed to interact every other day or so?#Is my bigender friend allowed to scroll through but not touch any button—heavens forbid he accidentally like a post?#Perhaps not able to articulate this as I'd like due to the constraints of talking in tumblr tags#but I'm just so tired.
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looking and staring and gazing even
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day 1 - only had time for a sketchbook doodle today. prompt list is here :3
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recent stuff
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regained the motivation to draw for a couple of days
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haven’t interacted with wof in a long while, but the designs are still fun to play with
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i have the nerve to call myself a creature artist, yet it’s been so long since i’ve posted any creature art. here are some scraps
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they should invent an apartment that has huge windows but is never too hot and is near everything i like and all my friends but is also quiet when i want it to be and costs zero dollars or perhaps they pay me to live in. and they save it just for me so i dont have to look for it :)
#and also has super thick walls so I can sing super loud without feeling bad for my neighbors#<33333
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i want to love g3 cupid so bad but her color scheme is such a mess so here’s my take on what i wish she looked like

i want to like her i do…
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some ylva for 2day

trying to figure out her werewolf(???) deal
og tweet for the comic thing below cut

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