kcliste

[kcliste]

My introductory sessions are made in such a way that they exist on their own without anything that will get their hooks into someone. So many inductions I've listened to try and thread this addiction or irresistance to bring people back. Why don't I do that? Because its safer. I want people to know that they can have an experience with me and be safe.

After an introductory session, the first thing I do is talk to the client about safety, and what I'm going to do to help them become resilient and practice hypnosis safely. If they come back after a while, I reinforce those safeties again. Why? Because there are people out there who are hoping to use hypnosis for their own gains and prey on people.

I was subject to one of those people yesterday.

I had someone try and covertly hypnotise me in the comments of my own post. I spotted them. I knew exactly what he was doing. His language, his cadence, his pattern. He tried to turn my own words against me initially, trying to turn the tables on me. I rebuffed him, but then his 'apology' was written in the same attempt to persuade, to soften, and to influence.

I changed my tack, no longer talking about the content of my writing, but targeting why he felt the need to apologise. He persisted in his character, acting like some Dickensian villain using long words and run-on sentences to confuse his prey. Then it hit.

I felt helpless.

I was too polite. I should've been more clear and blunt. But I thought this person might have been reasonable. I realised that, no matter what I said, he already had his sights set on me.

No matter what I said, he would continue.

I am so lucky that I have friends in this community that came in and called him out and shot him down. He instantly broke character, and called his advances 'an invitation'. Called them paranoid for 'believing someone could be tranced like that'.

I felt sick.

They trawled his blog. He believes that if being hypnotised is consent, that no other kind of consent needs to be sought because if someone didn’t want to be hypnotised, they couldn’t be hypnotised.

I started shaking.

I was playing games with friends while all this was happening. I was masking what was happening because I was trying to have fun. But now I have time to think today, I realise that I'm not ok. I keep thinking about that moment I realised that he knew what he was doing and could not be pushed from the track his mind was set on.

Then it occured to me. What if it wasn't me, someone who has been practicing for so long and has become a resilient subject as well as 'tist? What if someone was just looking for a little bit of fun found themselves in his trap?

It is because of people like him, why I practice the safety measures I do with my subjects, and my darlings. Why I reinforce that they stop any time they want, regardless of reason. Why I tell them that they have the first and last say, even while under in trance.

Because there are predators and they do not listen.

[kcliste]

hey (with the intention of strapping a VR headset and headphones over your head the minute you wake up so that your sleepy little brain can be conditioned whilst you’re easily manipulated and pliable)

[kcliste]

Recently been playing with a Toy I really enjoy. She's so incredibly obedient and listens well.

Last night, before work we had a session. Now I have enough trust they consent to a lot, and I take full advantage of that

So much so that when I'm horny. All I think about is how good her cunt is. How energetically she begs. And how sweet it is to corrupt her. The only shame is that I can't toy with them all day.

Maybe you could help fill in the free time I have, Toys

[kcliste]

I think one the last few posts, I've been rather tame in my wants. A little task machine, an induction, and even just saying I wanna break your mind.

But how do I wanna break your mind? Well maybe I start with some foreplay, pressing myself against your back. Groping your body and whispering trigger after trigger into your ear. Nothing to big like an orgasm, but a simple one that reminds you what you are. A Toy.

Then after you start dropping and drooling, I start guiding you around. Put on that lingerie, take off that clothing, wear a pretty smile for Sir so then I can fill your mouth with my cock

[kcliste]

tw: Induction

A Small realization I had is that I've had is that while I've done plenty of horny posting.

I haven't just sat down and talked with you, the Subject.

Of course you don't have to talk back with me, I'm more than happy to simply talk and talk.

And you'll just have to sit or lay there, listening to me.

Relaxing and taking time out of your day to listen to me.

That's right just like that, don't forget to calm your pretty head as much as you can for me.

A relaxed and thoughtless head is best when listening to me. Oh? You need help, well sure I can do my part.

Just take a deep breath, and then let it out. Your heart must be racing after all.

Thats right, just like that. Now I'll count for a bit and you just focus on relaxing.

3...

2...

1...

Good Subject, you're doing such a wonderful job following my words. Lets take a bit more time again for relaxing. Just to make sure.

Deep Breath in... 3...

2...

1... and now push it out. You feel so much better now don't you? All those thoughts that clouded your head are just floating around. Leaving more room for my words.

Now, why don't you scroll back up and relisten to my talk again. Wouldn't want to forget anything when your thoughts come back in a bit now would you?

[kcliste]

Here's a thought I had specifically about Dronification and other dynamics in general (idea came from the lovely Mindless Maisie)

See, I'm a bit of a computer nerd and recently I've seen tweets about combining Dronification and Sims. Then I had the thought, what if two people, the Hypnotist and the Subject, linked their computers. So at any time, the Hypnotist could just open up a spiral or notepad and leave a little task sheet and oop, there goes the Subject.

It would take a lot of effort and trust, but just the thought of being able to send the Subject on a task before they can sit down and game or watch something on the computer. Well I'd say that's well worth the effort and more. Wouldn't you Toy?

[kcliste]

Nimja

This writing, which is not by me, was removed from Fetlife because of reasons. So I'm posting it here.

🚩His first consent violation in the Dutch kink scene over 20 years ago. This is a long established pattern.

🚩He has been known to groom people under 18 years old. One such person reported Nimja to NEEHU because they wouldn't feel safe if he attended.

🚩Both Nimja and the organisers of NEEHU are accountable for the fact that Nimja attended NEEHU online under a pseudonym after he was banned for above reason.

🚩Multiple bans from hypno kink events in the US, UK and internationally.

🚩One case of hypnotising a person who did not give consent to be hypnotised. She was traumatised and still gets very angry talking about this, even fifteen years after the event.

🚩One case of a little agreeing to play with him on the condition "nothing sexual" and he proceeded to give her a hypnotic orgasm. This was so traumatic to her, she never wants to be hypnotised again.

🚩Numerous cases of creepy behaviour.

🚩One case of sexual assault and numerous consent violations.

🚩Multiple cases of online hypno D/s play that he ended abruptly and without giving proper aftercare, leaving them addicted to files without any recourse. Some of these women flew to the Netherlands to meet him only to be dumped.

🚩Multiple cases of gaslighting his victims into believing he had done nothing wrong and they must be bad subjects or they must need mental help for reacting this way.

🚩Numerous cases of trying to remove complaints and information about his abuse from online spaces, accusing people of harassing him and badmouthing his victims.

🚩The parasocial relationships he develops with his fans are unhealthy because there is an imbalance in power and he has taken no steps to change that over the years. He still seems to seek out young women who are inexperienced in kink and hypnosis so he can teach (groom) them, and so they won't talk back at him.

Every new girl who becomes his fan is at risk of falling prey to this same abusive behaviour again.

[kcliste]

About to get busy with my day but before I do, I feel I need to take a second to mention just how pretty a toy looks when I play with them.

Boy, Girl, Nonbinary, whichever. All that I personally care about, and all you should care about is how best to please me.

I think a good start is to break your mind, it certain has helped other toys. Would it help you?

[kcliste]

edging a pet and hypnotising them to make them forget each edge

[kcliste]

For context, a couple months I got a beautiful cat. He is a joy to have and no you can't steal. While searching for toys, I found a really cool flashlight/red dot light combo. Recently however, its got me thinking. How well would it work on an actual toy?

Like, we're talking or video chatting. Then there attention just shifts, I of course know what happened so I let them stare at it then put it away and pick up the conversation again. It would take a long time to get the desired result but oh how much I would savor that look

[kcliste]

Hickeys? Hot. Bite marks? Hotter. The imprint of my hands left on your wrists after pinning them so hard that it looks like a burn? Fucking perfect.

[kcliste]

I want to take a girl and make her mine.

A cute, hypnosis-obsessed girl who’s eager to see just how far her mind can be pushed and squeezed and molded into something new and exciting~

I’d have her sit down on the couch, make sure she’s comfortable before we start our first session. I’d start slow, giving her simple triggers: “drop for me,” or “suck on your fingers” or “freeze in place.”

Then, I’d go deeper. Rewriting her mind. Changing her memories. Turning her into a pretty dress-up doll. Making her worship me.

And a day comes when she realizes that, beyond the kink, beyond her fascination with changing her own brain, she simply cannot imagine herself any way except kneeling at my feet, obedient. She is owned, body, soul, and mind. And she loves it. <3

[kcliste]

+* Intro Post *+

Hi, I'm Kcilste. I'm 23, and almost 24 who uses He/Him pronouns. Asks are open but be warned I can have a massive ego, but if you tell me to chill I will. I'm a Dom, but can submit if I feel the scene calls for it. Don't assume you can hit me up and get me barking. I prefer to bite.

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Kinks and Main Interests (Italics are big interests of mine): Hypno, BDSM, Control, CNC, Marking, Degradation, Resistance Play

Limits (No Goes): Incest, Scat, Golden Shower, Feet, Misogyny

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Intrests outside of Kink: Art, Dnd, Pokemon/Video Games in general. Other Notes: I will be horny posting, and while I am open to everyone right now. If I find someone/a group of people. I focus on them but I'll tell you.

*Open

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My Opinions are my own, and Im at the same time open minded. No AI, and everyone deserves respect unless they are a P.O.S. I prioritize consent more than anything, and will go to great lengths to ensure it.

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Rules of Engagement: I am happy to message and will do my best to reply in a timely manner. Not all of my kinks are posted because I'm a bit of a scatterbrain with them and usually I'm happy to play off the Subjects Kinks. My Dms are always open regardless of my own status. So feel free to shoot any shots you want