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krystalfowler-blog
Krystal
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I've always known the system was broken. But through all of this, this last year I've learned that is a huge understatement. It is unreal how these government positions that are put into place to help and protect people and families and children especially are being filled with such cruel people. Since the beginning of this I have been desperately searching for help, and just about everywhere I turn I don't just get turned away. I get kicked, criticized, bullied and punished. All three of my girls for most of the last year have been locked away in different facilities. They have been emotionally and physically abused by the foster families they have been placed with, ignored or told to be quiet and stop asking questions when attempting to speak up and ask for help. They refuse to let the girls talk to any of the family that have known their entire life. Trinity 13 and Alexis 8 are currently in facilities and they have been to at least 2 each. Tabitha 11 is in her 5th facility in less than a year. One of those 5 facilities even made her Squat and cough. One of the few times I could get ahold of my caseworker she informs made recently that Tabitha is now stating she is beginning to hear voices but can't understand what they're saying. These people who we have been begging for help, help healing and putting us and our family back together, have done nothing but traumatize, bully, and punish us but most of all my children. I'm going to start trying to add documents and recordings to this campaign. I'm working on hiring my third lawyer and have just about lost everything including my life. And regardless of how this battle ends or whether it actually does kill me, I am going to expose these people in every possible way I can. I shouldn't have to be fighting the biggest fight of my life to find and get help for me and my children. Help spread the word!
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krystalfowler-blog · 6 years ago
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Whole World Vice Versa (on Wattpad) https://my.w.tt/ttpuFjXjoX As I finally begin telling my story I smile because I am almost certain that this is the very day, April 5, 2019, so many things will begin to change for me and my children. Although those changes may not be seen at this moment, by the end of my story many unsuspecting people will be unable to deny, notice, and even resist the remarkable changes. …
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krystalfowler-blog · 6 years ago
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Whole World Vice Versa (on Wattpad) https://my.w.tt/AsocwbCABW As I finally begin telling my story I smile because I am almost certain that this is the very day, April 5, 2019, so many things will begin to change for me and my children. Although those changes may not be seen at this moment, by the end of my story many unsuspecting people will be unable to deny, notice, and even resist the remarkable changes. …
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krystalfowler-blog · 6 years ago
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Whole World Vice Versa (on Wattpad) https://my.w.tt/14fgRxeABW As I finally begin telling my story I smile because I am almost certain that this is the very day, April 5, 2019, so many things will begin to change for me and my children. Although those changes may not be seen at this moment, by the end of my story many unsuspecting people will be unable to deny, notice, and even resist the remarkable changes. …
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Why Won't You Help Us?
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Last year my children and I went to counselors and and agency we thought helped people looking for answers, help, encouragement, someone, anyone to listen to us and help. We need help. I need help. My girls need help. My girls trusted all of you to help and protect them. We trusted you to help, protect, and put us and our family back together after such tragedy.
So 1 year later shouldn't we be making some kind of progress?? Some kind of healing?? Moving towards being okay??
Where we actually are a year later...
My entire family has and remains torn completely apart. Every one of us are completely alone. Alexis, 8, is in Jackson. Tabitha,11, is in Pontotoc. Trinity, 13, was to be released from Pontotoc but haven't gotten an update, as I rarely ever do. I am living in this empty house filled with nothing but memories from the last 6 years. Aside from this house we once called home I have lost literally everything short of my life and that isn't looking to good lately. I have not been allowed to see or speak to my children since the beginning of December. No one in the family has. I can't imagine how confused, scared, and angry they must be. It is literally killing me. Among the very few updates I have gotten I was told Tabitha has recently disclosed that she is hearing voices. A year later, instead of healing, my precious 11 year old baby girl has been taken and kept from her entire family, sent away to 5 different facilities, abused by foster families, made to squat and cough, and now is hearing voices!
Alexis, my youngest daughter, she is 8 and in Canopy at Jackson. After every single family member has been stripped from her life completely, in January the agency suddenly felt it was necessary to take her father from her. (Her mother was taken in December) Regardless of what Alexis and her father's DNA test shows (this test was administered a year ago so keep in my it wasn't new information to the agency) William Holley is, has been, and always will be her father! I understand you wanting to find the man who would match the DNA test, but despite my efforts to try and make him be a part of her life he disappeared when she was 1. William is the only father she has ever had or known. She loves her father more than anyone in the world. And since I was a daddy's girl my whole life also I can only try to imagine the pain and anger she feels right now. I don't understand why you have to take her father from her while searching for this stranger. Why can she not have both???
Then there is the proven fact that a DNA test alone DOES NOT in any way make you a father!! Surely after talking to Tabitha and Matthew you couldn't argue that fact right?
Now, before you even ask what I am doing on my own to heal for myself and my children I will go ahead and tell you. When I realized we needed help in February of 2018 I began with the school counselors. I figured they would know and be able to point us in the right direction or send the right people to us. Then we met several workers from the agency (MDCPS), the Saltillo police department, counselors, etc. The agency didn't seem to be of much help, they told me to go to the resource center. So I did. I have been in some kind of counseling for a year, I have had to change counselors many times and while desperately needing this therapy for me and my children I have tried to juggle everything my life as a single mother consisted of with very little or no help. I found Miss Pat at Lifecore who got me started in outpatient treatment which is what was required on my service plan. (Keep in mind it is impossible to heal, move forward, or do almost anything really when you are not able to even speak to your children on the phone, but that's something any parent should know) So I get started in this program and begin to find a little hope... About a month into it we have a court date where I thought and hoped the agency would inform the judge of my involvement in the program and the progress I have been so desperately trying to make... I was hopeful since this was the only thing left to complete on my service plan other than turning in some paperwork. I thought surely I will be able to talk to my children which would give me strength to keep moving forward and making progress. That court date was the end of January. Something like the 29th I believe. And it was a nightmare. My caseworker stated that I was making no progress and requested that the plan be changed to adoption. She lied. The hearing was post poned and I was ordered to take a fingernail test, which I did, about a week later I believe. I recently requested that my counselor put me on the waiting list for inpatient because I am literally dying without my children in my life at all and I don't know what else to do and I can't get anyone to answer any of my questions or help me find any kind of help we need.
So here we are April 2019, completely separated, devastated, confused, still waiting to go to court, and still wandering what my results were from the fingernail test...
They only questions I have now I don't even need you to answer. Just read and ask yourself...
-What did you do to help these 3 innocent little girls?
-Has anyone asked them how they are and made them feel comfortable enough to answer truthfully?
-Are you proud of the job you have done with this family? The whole family?
-Could the decisions and the results of those decisions you made in this case give people, families, and especially children any confidence or courage to speak up if they are being abused or need help???
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