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No one talks about how bittersweet being in a healthy relationship actually is. Yes I am finally receiving the love I deserve but I am also having to face myself and all the things I have to unlearn in order to love this human the way they deserve to be loved.

I know I am capable of it and I have been on this healing journey for a while now. But, adding another person to my journey has really made me face myself in a manner that is no longer in my control.

It’s wonderful yet terrifying.

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Eli Sostre, Keanu Kay Milborrow

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IG femalepentimento

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girl you look like a Mariusz Lewandowski painting (complimentary)

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some very random asks

1. how many pillows do you sleep with?

2. do you believe in soulmates?

3. would you ever kiss a stranger?

4. describe your dream house

5. do you usually use cash or card?

6. do you enjoy driving in general?

7. do you like your name? if not, what would you change your name to?

8. what’s your favorite cuisine?

9. how often do you get massages?

10. do you play video games? if so, what games?

11. do you prefer to color with colored pencils, crayons, or markers?

12. what other fandoms are you in?

13. do you have a signature in your style/everyday outfits?

14. do you have any pets? if not, do you want some in the future?

15. do you give objects you own a name? (car, house, plants, etc)

16. do you like the weather where you live?

17. if you could wear one color for the rest of your life, what would it be?

18. do you like making small talk?

19. what’s your favorite social media platform?

20. have you ever been to hawaii?

21. name a fashion trend that you absolutely hate

22. name a fashion trend that you absolutely love

23. what was the last text you sent?

24. when making plans, do you like to organize or go with the flow when the time comes?

25. what do you want to name your future kids?

26. do you have a type?

27. when was the last time you kissed someone?

28. how often do you cook?

29. do you think __x__ is overrated or underrated?

30. do you always remember your dreams?

31. do you believe in ghosts?

32. would you ever want to move outside of your country?

33. describe your first love

34. more peanut butter or more jelly?

35. do your irls know about your tumblr account?

36. do you prefer hot or cold beverages?

37. when was the last time you finished a book?

38. what would you want your wedding colors to be?

39. how long do you let your nails grow?

40. if you could stay at a certain age, what age would you pick?

41. who do you think has it easiest: older siblings or younger siblings?

42. how often do you post on social media?

43. do you enjoy big groups?

44. do you like it when you’re awaken by the sounds of birds chirping?

45. which hand is your favorite?

46. how many people do you follow?

47. how many followers do you have?

48. how many drafts do you have?

49. do you hang or fold your sweaters?

50. even numbers or odd?

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This is important hello (x)

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For example Frederick Douglas’ wife did so much for his ungrateful ass. She helped him get on his feet, gave him her last name, and supported him financially and took care of house and home. And in return was does this nigga do? He lets white abolitionists tear her down and treat her like a slave in HER HOUSE. Moved two bitches into HER HOUSE over a span of 20 years. Belittles her for being illiterate while using HER MONEY. Not even in death does she get the respect she deserves. His last wife is more recognized as being apart of his life than she was. Just trash. And y'all still normalize that shit as if it’s a black woman’s job to struggle. Fuck that.

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Healing is neither linear nor permanent. The journey back to yourself after trauma will be a long one with many detours and unexpected turns. Pack light.

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Need this

STOP REMINISCING AND MOVE FORWARD.

STOP REMINISCING AND MOVE FORWARD.

STOP REMINISCING AND MOVE FORWARD.

STOP REMINISCING AND MOVE FORWARD.

STOP REMINISCING AND MOVE FORWARD.

STOP REMINISCING AND MOVE FORWARD.

STOP REMINISCING AND MOVE FORWARD.