lady-of-endos

[lady-of-endos]

I love you spiritual systems that are also psychological

I love you walk-ins of any kind

I love you soulbonds and charabonds that get upset how they're displayed and treated by their source (ot waste writing term you use) fandom

I love you spiribonds (+ other walk-ins) who struggle to take care of a human body

I love you intrabonds

I love you exobonds

I love you walk-ins who have relationships with non-spirutual headmates

I love you walk-ins who get told your relationships aren't real because you're with a non-spiritual headmate (more directed to our system's walk-ins, but this goes for any out there)

I love you mixed origin systems with spiritual headmates

I love you mixed origins who have been told "you're either a spiritual system or you're not/you can't be both" (or have had thoughts of someone saying these things)

I love you systems/headmates that have spiritual practices and those who don't

I love you walk-ins who wish to see more people like you and get upset when you don't

I love you bondsystems

I love you cosmagenics

I love you gateway systems

I love you metaphysical systems

I love you psychgenic systems

I love you soulbased systems

I love you seelegenic systems

I love you all

[lady-of-endos]

I dunno if I've yapped about how much I love Endo (and other non traumagenic origin) systems. Like, the community has been genuinely so kind and accepting, so much more than anti Endo spaces.

We were kinda anxious to start posting as a system on this side blog, but it's genuinely so super duper awesome. We've only seen kindness, which is really what we need in our system journey.

We've been a realized system for nearly a year now. Hhholy shit. But dude. I'd never give it up for anything.

Right, sorry, rambly brain is here today apparently (i also have the hiccups as im writing this gaaahhhrhshrbdjej) but endos, pro Endo, and all other non traumagenic origin supporters / identifiers, you are all super duper awesome. Like, genuinely, you keep being you.

-Ambrose

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If the future isn’t plural, real people suffer more than they already have.

[lady-of-endos]

This is court mandated ball pit time. Get in.

ANY ENDOGENICS FOUND ON THIS PAGE WILL BE HUNTED FOR fun times in the ball pit!!!!! ^w^

[lady-of-endos]

Racism in the plural community is a real problem. Racism in the medical community is a real, dangerous problem.

Pour one out for DID/OSDD systems of color that go undiagnosed or misdiagnosed because the psychiatric institution dismisses them.

Pour one out for all systems of color who feel isolated because the online community often conflates plurality with whiteness.

Pour one out for systems of color who get called racist or appropriative because their systems incorporate aspects of their own culture, but people automatically assume they must be white.

Pour one out for systems of color whose voices are silenced because of their ethnicity.

Uplift non-white systems. Talk to non-white systems, not over them.

[lady-of-endos]

being shitty to endogenic systems and saying they're not plural is ableism. care about this.

[lady-of-endos]

Hecc yeh!! >:3

I saw a cute post about giving headmates delicious home-cooked mac and cheese, but it said endos DNI in the tags. :0 So here's some delicious home-cooked mac and cheese for the endogenic headmates out there who would like to have some mac and cheese.

You're in for a treat, mac and cheese is my specialty. :> Even if we can't draw it all that well. We tried. :0

-Luc

[lady-of-endos]

<3

You are not hurting people by being plural.

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Okay but will there actually come a day where anti-endos stop being ableist while also accusing others of being ableist? You can't preach that you're "protecting victims" while also sitting there being all "endos/those who support them are delusional!!". Psychosis is not your tool for hate, and psychotic people are no lesser than anyone else and do not deserve to be used to discredit other peoples experiences that you simply don't understand. Traumagenic DID systems who support endos exist, but you hate those too--what happened to protecting "actual trauma survivors"? You are not protecting disabled people, you are using them as a tool to explain your hatred for things you don't care to understand.

[lady-of-endos]

fun fact! the sysmed notion that "most endos have trauma they don't remember" is genuinely fucking disgusting. here's some horrid things that little piece of sysmed rhetoric causes, in no particular order: - self doubt - looking for trauma that isn't ready to be remembered yet - self harm related to the previous point (repeatedly engaging with the trauma to be "valid" despite how much damage its causing) - looking for trauma that isn't there (and getting distressed when none is found) - faking (in relation to the prior point; faking having trauma to be "valid") - system repression/denial/etc - "taking away resources from traumagenic systems" (aka... you prompted the endo in question to go to therapy that they didn't need for trauma they don't have) - unnecessary splitting - unnecessary integration - unnecessary dormancy

[lady-of-endos]

Stay safe, friends!

*sigh* just a friendly reminder that PluralKit attaches a unique code to your system that allows anyone to look up your system - and if you look up a system on discord using pk;system [code], gives a link to all of their public system data on PKs website, which for some of you includes information on triggers, sexuality, and other things that cyberbullies may misuse.

I have been messing around with the settings as much as possible and I cannot find a way to avoid this beyond privating all alters and all system info, which many users don't do.

Even with information privated, it still seems that PK will link your discord handle with your Pluralkit user if the unique code is plugged in.

Sharing as this seems to me like a breach of privacy at best, and dangerous at worst.

[lady-of-endos]

Not system related, but I think it's important to inform people of this!!

ooc - Make sure to send whatever you want before the 22nd of December(or 23rd.) I’m planning to temporarily turn them off maybe until January? or at least until the 26th because of the raid theyre apparently planning. Media asks are off again. I dont want to risk anything, and I highly suggest you dont send links. I wont reply

If you’re a roleplay blog too, please do this. Please turn your asks off. They are planning to send potentially gore of real people, specifically children. Take care of yourselves please, you are your #1 priority, nothing and nobody else.

[lady-of-endos]

RAGHHH!!!!

-🎉

REBLOG IF YOU LOVE YOUR HEADMATES!!!!

[lady-of-endos]

Please dont interact with Astro or even try to send him negative oriented inboxes. Thats what he wants you to do and by doing that youre "proving his point". Block and ignore him.

[lady-of-endos]

my first decree is that CRINGE PLURALS ARE SO AWESOME

xenogender and mogai label hoarder plurals. age regressor plurals. neurodivergent plurals (including PDs). furries. kinky plurals (esp ones with kinks related to their plurality). fictives. dream smp fictives. systems who talk to themselves out loud. objectims and posics.

and of course endos

RAAAAHFH

[lady-of-endos]

by Comicname

👍

[lady-of-endos]

i think its funny that we all looked at astro and queenofproendos + a whole lot of the pro endo community decided to start a fucking roleplay empire. chaotic good movement honestly /pos

-syntax (the dragon) and natasha/angel (the princess)