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And also yeah him and Louis are gay for each other

Finished reading Dunk and Egg again <333

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I’m now on book four of this stupid book series and lestat is so annoying (he’s the reason i keep reading and i actually like him)

Finished reading Dunk and Egg again <333

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sansa and lady in the godswood at winterfell

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Rose made them bestie bracelets!!!

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Every time a straight terf claims she’s being transphobic out of solidarity with lesbians I get so unbelievably mad. Like shut the fuck up, you do not speak for me and you’re not allowed to use my identity to cause harm to other queer people

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Sweet couple of, you know, best friends. Typical male friendship. Very heterosexual of them.

Young Ned and Bobby B

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game of thrones: favorite moments [28/-]

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Catelyn's resentment at always having to adhere to men is not talked about enough in my opinion. When she bitterly thinks that she always did her duty. When she thinks about having to wait for the men in her life. When she snaps that Robb did not her consider his sisters important enough. When she laments that no one sings songs of the battles of women aka childbirth and children.... Yes she conforms because she is realistic and pragmatic and dutiful and she wants to survive and be happy enough and she wants the same for her daughters.

YES EXACTLY. I think it’s like. For so long she conformed because it was realistic pragmatic dutiful, because being a perfect lady and heir made things easier on her parents, and she loved her parents, she wanted them to he proud, and it turned out she was GOOD at so many of the things they asked of her, and it gave her the ability to be in charge of herself and her life for so long, and when minisa died, she could help lift the burden off her father’s shoulders, and it gave her the ability to grow and speak her mind, and being dutiful brought her ned, who was so much more than she ever thought she’d get, and it brought her five amazing children, and a home she loves and can be free in - like jon snow thing does suck but compare this situation to like upwards of 90% of the marriages & you know what it’s a fucking dream and Catelyn knows this, she is aware things can always be worse, it’s why she understands immediately why jon & lysa were doomed from the start, she understands this system and how it works, and it’s worked so well for her she can ignore the ways it has hurt her.

And then it just. Completely fails her. She’s tricked by Lysa and Petyr, the two people she’d least expect it from that she never even entertains the idea, Ned is murdered, Sansa is a hostage, Arya is just gone, Bran has been nearly murdered twice, and she’s in her childhood home and Hoster is dying and Edmure is annoying and Blackfish is off fighting again and she’s reliving the worst days of her life but this time the person waging war isn’t a husband she doesn’t know, it’s her own son and she just can’t stop thinking about how she’s done everything right, she’s played by the rules her whole life, she upheld the social contract because it promised she’d have control over her life, and then the whole thing just completely fails because joffrey has a tantrum after petyr whispered in his ear, AGAIN, just another mad king with power hungry advisors, and she’s stuck in this room AGAIN-

AND SHE DOES.

like, that’s what happens, is she spends her whole life doing what she’s supposed to and then it crumbles down around her and she just figures, fuck it, if following the rules can’t do the one (1) most important thing it has to do which is keep my family alive than i’m not following shit anymore. she starts to just do what she thinks is best. starts to snap back. starts to just speak without being asked. like, she’s cracking, she’s breaking up, YEAH she’s still dutiful, but what is she being dutiful TOWARDS? is she doing what robb says? what edmure says? NO, she’s making her OWN DECISIONS she’s trying. and then people will see her become a literal undead spirit of rage and revenge and be like “she’s so dutiful and never struggles or chafes against the patriarchy” when she struggled and screamed so much at the ending she was clawing her own face to ribbons!!

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sansa :)

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It's funny to me that ned doesn't think he is as hot-headed as as to claim the infamous "wolfblood", when he almost killed littlefinger for insinuating that his wife would be in a brothel.

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It seems like every ASOIAF AO3 fanfic is tagged with Ned/Catelyn and at this point I have to believe it is just some curse causing them to be tagged in 50k word fanfics where they only show up for half a paragraph for my own sanity.

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Catelyn Stark 🥺

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GAME OF THRONES 1.09, Baelor

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Bride of Winter | Catelyn Stark, née Tully

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Every time a GoT/ASoIaF dudebro calls Cat an idiot I grow stronger