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Anxiety’s the wildest, I’ve got to get a background check done for a job application and now I’m suddenly worried I’ve got five charges nobody told me about
#but yeah I got the ‘we don’t usually do this but we’ll make an exception’ treatment#so fingers crossed it goes well babeyyyy
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I’m sorry is RTD physically incapable of writing something that a new viewer would actually understand? Literally what is the point in splitting it off into its own section like it’s a soft reboot when everything is based in deep lore from Classic Who?
#I’ve been watching dr who since I was what. five?#never watched even a second of classic who#I’ve never struggled to understand the lore#until now#doctor who#dw#doctor who spoilers#dw spoilers
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Anyway so this is now a Jeremy Jordan and Frances Mayli McCann stan account thank you
#just watched the bonnie and clyde live proshot and goddamn#like ive loved jeremy since like. 2017? but now frances is the loml too#they’re just so fuckign great I love their chemistry#absolute icons#jeremy jordan#frances mayli mccann#bonnie & clyde
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yeah golden retreiver boyfriends are great and I've met several personally, but personally I have a house cat boyfriend
extremely affectionate despite of seeming aloof and politely distant to unfamiliar people
my friends have seen him irl less than 5 times in the five years I've had him - if I invited people over he would hide under furniture until they're gone
haha you got up from your work desk, time for unskippable 35 minutes of kisses and cuddles
can and will throw up out of sheer anxiety because Things And Events Are Happening that do not even involve him in any way
can instinctively sense exactly when I am going to decide I'm done bedrotting and will climb on top of me to cuddle exactly 3 minutes before I was just about to get up
can be placed sideways on any soft surface at any time of the day and immediately takes a five hour nap
cannot eat or drink in unfamilair places. can and will go 16 hours without food or water if the situation is uncomfy.
unhelpful but valiant efforts to try to protect and rescue you from things and situations that he would personally hate being in, out of not understanding of Why Are You In There Voluntarily
will come show me incomprehensible memes the same way a cat will bring you a random bug. thank you. I do not understand it but I know you brought it to me because you love me.
#… alex mercer thought hours have commenced thank you#don’t get many of them these days so I’ve gotta appreciate them#but also it me
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Owen Patrick Joyner final destination movie??????????
#I saw him for a fraction of a second in the trailer and almost threw popcorn across the cinema#I feel like that’s gonna be more shocking than the actual horror movie I’m about to watch#good for him good for him#owen patrick joyner#owen joyner
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I fucking hate that the general response to RFK Jr's eugenist take on autistic people is "autistic people do pay taxes, autistic people do work, autistic people do date!"
Some autistic people don't and that shouldn't make them less worthy of life. Some autistic people do need constant help and support and that shouldn't make them less worthy of life.
Once again we're falling in the right wing trap of :
They make a hateful, fascist statement
Instead of focusing on the fact that it is hateful and fascist we try to show them that they are factually wrong
We throw our own allies and the most vulnerable of us under the bus in the process
We legitimise an only slightly less hateful, fascist view as we go
They have completed their goal of making us accept the still hateful, fascist second version, hurrah. What a victory.
Right now what we're getting to with that is that autistic people who can work and pay taxes are okay, and the others aren't. Fuck this shit.
Same thing happens with the people who are being deported ("they have a visa!", "they didn't even have a criminal record!" -> even if they didn't have a visa, even if they did have a criminal record, deporting them and detaining them in what's essentially a concentration camp wouldn't be okay, you absolute tools of fascism.)
#just disagreeing with the conclusions of a fascist take inherently accepts their logic#you have to deconstruct and discard them#if someone says disabled people are inherently undeserving of life#and your response is ‘hey some of us aren’t completely disabled’ then you’re accepting that more disabled people are undeserving of life#the correct response is fuck you#countering discrimination by saying some individuals are actually normal doesn’t help anyone#the high needs disabled people are just as deserving of life love and support as the low needs ones#same with the weird queers and the undesirable people of colour#acceptable minorities are still minorities and throwing the unacceptable ones to the wolves just helps the bigots
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Lord Robert John Reed, President of the Supreme Court
Lord Patrick Stewart Hodge, Deputy President of the Supreme Court
Lord David Lloyd-Jones, Justice of the Supreme Court
Dame Vivien Rose, Justice of the Supreme Court
Dame Ingrid Ann Simler, Justice of the Supreme Court
These are the five motherfuckers who made this judgement. Never let them forget.
The UK Supreme Court has just ruled that trans women aren’t women. And JK Rowling is one of the major financial backers for it.


Fuck this country, fuck JK Rowling, and fuck everybody who continues to support her. You cannot define us out of existing.
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The UK Supreme Court has just ruled that trans women aren’t women. And JK Rowling is one of the major financial backers for it.


Fuck this country, fuck JK Rowling, and fuck everybody who continues to support her. You cannot define us out of existing.
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So uhhh guess who’s gonna be speaking at an academic conference babeyyyyy
#attendance is mandatory for postgrads so it’s gonna be extremely stressful lmao#severe social anxiety vs being a huge nerd
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why be radically exclusionary abt queerness when you could be radically inclusionary instead. let's inflate the numbers. let's become the majority. the sky's the limit
#as someone who studies queer sociology: yeah#my mind goes to the article making fun of darren criss for calling himself culturally queer for being raised in san francisco#sure it sounds kinda goofy but genuinely who cares. if he considers himself queer in any way then that’s his right#cishet people having ‘weird’ complex relationships with their identity and considering themselves queer is a good thing actually#there shouldn’t be a limit for who gets to consider themselves queer. if a cishet guy who wears nail polish says he’s queer then awesome#maybe he’ll find out later that he’s bi or he’s nonbinary. maybe he’s completely cishet but feels connected to queerness#it’s nobody’s business except his#queerness is inherently political and trying to put barriers on who can associate with us is completely counterproductive#nobody knows a person’s identity except that person and they’re the only one who gets a say in how they identify#so yeah let’s make the world queer babey
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I think we should call out women's misogyny more often. My mom was the most misogynistic person I had ever encountered growing up. At herself, at other people. like she's better now, but woman left me some deep scars.
#we all know that the patriarchy enables men’s violence but guess what#it also enables women’s violence#because women are viewed as fundamentally incapable of it#they’re meant to be uwu precious lil baby girls who can’t hurt a fly#never mind that people of all genders have experienced abuse at the hands of women because that isn’t ‘real’ abuse since she’s not a man#the patriarchy dehumanises everyone by portraying men as mindless violent beasts women as sensitive children and everyone else as deluded#any version of ‘feminism’ that upholds that idea (looking at you terfs) isn’t actually feminism#it’s just patriarchy in pink#everyone is capable of violence but we’re a lot more inclined to compassion#humans are fundamentally social and kind. violence is the exception not the norm.#men are no more inherently violent than women we’re just trained to think they should be#murder mention#murder tw#assault mention#assault tw#rape mention#rape tw#misogyny tw
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Lecturer: make sure you plan out your work before you start it to avoid the sunk cost fallacy
Me, a clean slate ADHDer who routinely throws out hundreds of hours of work just coz: uh huh.
#between writing and video games it’s horrific how much work I’ve willingly thrown away#I think I’ve deleted around 700 hours worth of stardew valley gameplay alone#never reached perfection#I get all the golden walnuts and 10 hearts with everyone then the dopamine runs dry and I start over#and I have about. a hundred stories that I’ve started then thrown away#I don’t think deleting graphs will be my stumbling block#but sure
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This genuinely felt like being slapped
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Got reminded again of my old coworker who was a massive misogynist but also trans inclusive. Told me he believed trans women are indeed women because "only women would be stupid enough to want to be women"
I wonder what he's doing now
#as a sociologist I want to study him (derogatory)#absolutely fascinating#like if I could I would actually write my masters diss on his view of social dynamics
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seeing straight men be disgusted by booktok smut recommenders has actually radicalized me to the side of booktok smut recommenders. girls your taste may be atrocious but i will never disparage you for exposing mainstream discourse to the concept of soaking through your underwear. spent my whole life listening to men talk about penises it’s about time they get jumpscared by women talking about pussy in crude detail on social media. go forth and goon my warriors
#I could write a dissertation on how much I hate a lot of popular romances because of their right-wing messages and blatant discriminations#because I’m actually interested in (some) romances and the ways we internalise inequalities is one of my academic interests#but if a straight guy tells me that those books are degenerate for being smutty then I instantly distrust them#like I can’t stand colleen hoover and I think her books are super misogynistic racist and homophobic#but I would much rather stand with the cohort than anyone who thinks the only problem with her books is that they’re porn#gooning is way less harmful than misogyny
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Reading a book that you’re really interested in only for it to turn into a shit romance is genuinely one of the worst feelings
#if anyone’s read daughter of smoke and bone by laini taylor please tell me if karou and akiva actually get engaging#coz I’m halfway through the first book and it’s killed my interest in finishing it#like oh wow. a 50 year old instantly falls in love with a 17 year old. riveting.#ive read strange the dreamer and muse of nightmares and I could believe laslo and sarai’s relationship#I wasn’t huge on their age gap but it didn’t feel awful since they were both sheltered#(tho she did lose me when she started repeatedly mentioning that sarai - a brown girl - pink nipples. that genuinely set me off.)#(and I know people of colour can have pink nipples but the fact that it’s used to accentuate her beauty and ‘purity’ feels very. uncomfy.)#but the dosab insta love feels so lame#and I’m guessing karou is a reincarnation of madrigal or smth like that since it’s not very subtle#laini’s a great writer but I’m just. not huge on her romances.
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It’s honestly hilarious that I’m at a point in my transition where instead of being clocked as a tranny or dyke, I’m clocked as an AuDHD fag. Went from being gender confusing to just. confusing
#people are absolutely shocked that I’m ftm#that I’m neurodivergent? not so much#my friend said that the second they met me they just went ‘oh this guy’s autistic and adhd’#nobody expects the trans reveal#still remember the time one of my flatmates was being transphobic so I just deadface showed him my top surgery scars#and our other flatmate (who id already come out to) was super shocked coz she’d immediately forgotten#just a very funny existence
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