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Please please please please 😩😩😭

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Say it with me:

I will not perform for love. I will not beg just to be chosen. I will not scream just to be heard. I will not overgive just to feel enough. I will not disappear just to be desired. I am not here to prove I’m worthy. I already am.

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All a girl wants 😩🥹🫶🏾

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i don’t think people understand how much of life is grief. not just people dying, but losing the version of yourself you thought you’d become. grieving the city you had to leave. the friends you lost not in argument, but in silence. the summer that will never come back. the feeling that maybe you peaked at 12 when you were reading books under the covers and believing in forever

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Me. lol

“don’t compare yourself to people on social media it’s all fake they’re all editing their pics” until you see a baddie in real life and she looks exactly the same. now what

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Me currently 😩 been a rough week I need rest 🤣

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My namesake 😍🫶🏾

Killing Me Softly LAURYN HILL

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Was sad so I got some new lingerie 👙🤩 but no one to show ☹️🍑

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the formula to get that perfect “barbie” energy

barbie can do anything. she does what she sets her mind to always! she can go to space, go underwater, be a doctor, a teacher, a business woman, a mother, or anything else! there is nothing she can’t do! she is a kind friend, a thoughtful neighbor, and carry’s her confidence with her wherever she goes. every women wants to be like barbie, but how DO you become the barbie?

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on the inside:

a kind and confident heart is always the first step to achieving that barbie energy. as said before, barbie is a kind friend who is always a helping hand. even to the people who aren’t nice to her, she has a positive attitude towards them! she is also very confident, showing off her fantastic style as personality wherever she goes. here’s some ways to glow up your attitude and mindset . . .

1. always offer a helping hand when needed:

barbie LOVES to be helpful! even while being such a busy bee, she tries her best to fit in and volunteer as much as she possibly can!

ways to help in your community:

- volunteer at animal shelters, non profit organizations, or food banks.

- if possible, donate some money to organizations fighting to make the world a better place!

-if somebody is in a bad situation, speak up!

- offer to help somebody who is having a hard day.

2. be a girls girl!

barbie is a girls girl! she is a figure of empowerment for women across the globe, and tells all women “you can be anything”! a girls girl is somebody who is an advocate for the women around them.

what being a girls girl can look like: standing up for women, prioritizing female relationships, empowering the women around them, celebrating your female colleagues achievements, being genuine, offering sincere compliments, and defending women targeted in harassment.

what being a girls girl does NOT look like: dumbing yourself down for boys, not supporting women victims of s3xual assault or domestic violence, asking the question “what was she wearing?” or saying “she was asking for it”, talking badly behind another girls back, calling a girl a slut or a whore, and targeting another girls insecurities.

3. confidence is key

a pretty outfit is only pretty if worn with confidence, and a pretty smile are the ones worn by the most confident of people. never be ashamed of who you are. as barbie says, “you can be anything!”. walk into every room like you own the place. last, always remember, a secure person would never make fun of your appearance or personality, it is only the insecure people who do that!

for tips improving your confidence this summer, click here <3

on the outside:

to go along with her sweet and uplifting personality, barbie also has her own style that’s unique to her! if your unaware of her usual niche, her signature style consists of pinks, frills, ribbons, glitter, and gems! more on that later <3

now, if you wish to have that barbie energy, you can choose to have your own signature style, or you can choose to go for the signature barbie look. first, let’s take a look at barbie’s style!

the barbie approach:

barbie knows what she likes and doesn’t like. she is very specific with her style, for example, one look inside her closet and you’ll notice it’s almost entirely pink!!! she embraces traditional feminine clothing, and that doesn’t diminish her power in the slightest. below are some of barbie’s outfits to take inspo from!

THE BARBIE STARTER PACK

- look for more maxamalist clothing, lululemon is out, but frills and chunky heels are totally in!

- embrace early 2000s fashion! some of barbie’s best outfits were on her 2000-2010 dolls!

- wear tons of pink! pink is barbie’s signature color. though she wears other colors, pink is barbie’s color and makes her stand out in the best way.

- don’t be afraid to show your feminine side, it makes you powerful!

-always accessorize: wear purses, chunky glasses, gold/silver jewelry, belts, and hair bows.

- lastly, always wear a smile! showing that your confident and happy in what you wear makes your outfit even better!

choosing your own style:

choosing your own style is a perfect way to show off what makes you, you! however, constructing your perfect style can be tricky. always remember barbie’s motto, “you can be anything”, so wear whatever makes you feel like yourself, no matter what the latest fads are. here are some tips to help you find your own unique style!

don’t pay attention to social media trends! these trends change too often and can seriously control your fashion choices. instead, find what you like and stick with it

find your signature colors! find colors that you love to wear and show them off! it’s the perfect way to have memorable outfits.

make a pinterest board of your dream closet! this helps me so much when i go shopping, so i know exactly what to buy and not buy.

experiment with different patterns and textures! try out things you’ve never done before, you might like it!

last, dress for yourself. it doesn’t matter what other people think about you, as long as you’re happy in the clothes you wear.

conclusion:

and there you have it! are you ready to rock your new barbie doll energy this summer? remember, it’s impossible to get a mindset makeover in one day. it takes consistency to improve your confidence, happiness, and ability to love yourself. i completely believe in you! have so much fun finding your style and doing what makes you happy, see you next time!

“you can be anything!” -barbie

yours truly, bambi 💋

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And then we can cook and drink tequila together 🥹🫶🏾 (skip the wine) 🙃

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Need this a fat joint and my paints 😍✨