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Please, spread this for those who might need it right now

U.S. suicide hotline: call or text 988 (available 24 hours)

U.S. trans lifeline: (877) 565-8860 (when you call, you’ll speak to a trans/nonbinary peer operator. full anonymity and confidentiality)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) – provides 24/7 confidential support and referrals for individuals and families facing mental health and substance use disorders, including panic attacks and anxiety.

LGBT National Help Center: (888) 843-4564

Trevor Project: Call (866) 488-7386, text START to 678-678, or chat online.

Take care of yourself and each other. Please stay safe ♡

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Happy National Coming Out Day! Wherever you are in your journey, know you are so loved and valid 🌈🥰

(Photo Credit: @briannavieria)

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To all the bi+ peeps: Wishing a happy bi visibility day/week/month to all. May your days be free from biphobia and bi erasure and full of honey, acceptance, acknowledgement, and understanding.

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Wishing a happy TDOV to all trans folks, but in particular the closeted trans people. To all the trans people who cannot be out, who aren't ready to be out, who don't want to be out, who aren't fully out, and all of those who for any reason aren't given the space, time, resources, or peace of mind to be seen. You are in your community's thoughts today and always. You are loved now. Even if you're not able to step up and accept it. You are loved now.

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confusing comic about existing as a trans person during confusing times of trans visibility.

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every time I see those screenshots from queering the map it makes me fucking weep

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everyone dunking on that automated fleshlight sex toy needs to remember that disabled people get horny too ok 💜

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Small reminder that I do have my bookish amazon wishlist up for anyone who wants to and is able to support me in that way too.

This blog is run by only one person crazily obsessed with books so that's really the only thing I can ask for, plus purchasing books always helps the authors as well.

If you do get me a book, I will always say thank you and give your url a shoutout for being awesome! 💜

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Happy bisexuality pride day! 🩷💜💙

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SEX-ED GUIDE,

Because the popular one going around since 2014 that's got 630,000 notes is full of broken links

Educational videos with Sexplanations/Dr. Lindsey Doe (also on Tumblr @tumblingdoe ), and Watts the Safeword + a couple of other sources.

GENITALIA

The Penis

Does Size Matter?

Curved Penises

Testicles

Can a Penis Break?

Vulvas and Vaginas

Hymen

Vaginismus 101

The Clitoris

37 Clitoris' (YouTube video contains images of human genitals in an educational context)

Vaginal Orgasms?

Kegals

HYGIENE

Vagina and Vulva Hygiene

Does My Dentist Know if I've Given Head

Butthole Maintainance

NON SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS

Bacterial Vaginosis 101

Yeast Infections 101

Urinary Tract Infections

SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS

STIs (and puppy pictures)

HIV FAQ

PrEP

Lindsey Takes an HIV Test (no needles)

What is Herpes?

CONSENT

What is Consent

How to NOT Rape (consent 101/what is rape)

Saying No

Sexual Negotiation

Age of Consent

Consent and Kink - Watts the Safeword

DISABILITY AND SEXUALITY

Sex and Disabilities - Watts the Safeword

Disability and sex Dr. Doe

(Sex)abled: Disability Uncensored - Health Equity Institute

The Last Taboo: Sexuality and Disability Documentary

LGBTQIA+

Gender Affirming Surgeries

A Trans History

Questioning

Bisexual Erasure

Lesbian Flirting

Demisexuality

5 asexuality experiences

Polyamory, Asexuality, Nonbinary Journey: Interview

How Do I Know That I'm Intersex

RELATIONSHIPS

Monogamy with Hank Green

Polyamory

Polyam Lingo

Mismatched Sex Drives

Friends With Benefits

How to Date Long Distance

Finding a Partner

BARRIERS

Sex Shields

Condom Time - let's play

How to Put a Condom on an Intact Penis

More on Condoms

Internal Condoms

Boners vs Condoms - erection trouble?

CONTRACEPTION

Pregnancy Prevention

Choosing Birth Control

Emergency Contraception - Plan B, Morning After, Copper IUD

Does Pulling Out Work?

HAVING SEX

How to Get the Sex You Want

Sex and Autism

Orgasmic Sex Positions

First Time Tips

Fingering

Squirting

Anal Sex Prep

Anal Sex

Prostate Massage

Cunnilingus

Felatio

Analingus

Pegging

Transgender Sex

SEX TOYS

Toy Cleaning Experiment

Sex Toys 101

Vibrator Guide

DIY Sex Toys

DIY Dildos

DIY Fake Semen

Cock Rings

Clit Stimulators

KINK

Consent and Kink - Watts the Safeword

Aftercare - Watts The Safeword

Large Object Insertion

Kinky Red Flags - Watts the Safeword

Bondage 101

Trans and Kink - Watts the Safeword

Rubber Kink 101 - Watts the Safeword

Chastity for Beginners - Watts the Safeword

Pup Play for beginners - Watts the Safeword

Breathplay for Beginners - Watts the Safeword

Erotic Asphyxiation

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bruh people ID'd the estrolabs person it's a known neo-nazi

People figured it out by matching domain registry stuff and the fact that his name was connected to the paypal account being used on his site

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This site has been going around Twitter trans accounts quite a bit lately, so just pointing out here too that it'll do fuck all, they're exploiting trans people at a time when hrt is particularly hard to access and please don't give them your money

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hello trans friends and allies! the Tennessee Senate has passed bill SB 1440, which will hinder trans people’s ability to change their legal names and gender markers. this will go into effect July 1, 2023 which is in less than a month. 

what you can do right now is visit https://www.inclusiontn.org/tnncp and access free emergency name change services from legal professionals. if you don’t need these services, you can also donate to help cover the costs.

please please spread the word and share to your friends in TN as we only have until the end of this month! 

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Get it here at hirbawi

In honor of pride month and the continuing struggle of the Palestinian people, please consider supporting the talented people at Hirbawi by buying a rainbow kufiya (or any other one for that matter) and help keep a traditional craft alive.

🏳️‍🌈🇵🇸

(This really shouldn't have to be said but terfs/swerfs do not touch. This post is for all LGBT+ people)