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People really need to stop viewing labels as some locked cage. Identifying as aro/ace as a minor does not limit you and it does not keep you from experiencing attraction or realizing you're not aro/ace down the line

Just saw a post saying “minors shouldn’t identify as aro/ace” and I wanted to say… fuck you.

No look, okay I get why some people don’t want minors in certain spaces, and that’s fine. DNI minors then, if you want to.

But you can identify as anything at anytime in your life. It doesn’t hurt anyone to identify as one thing and then realise you’re another. It’s growth. Your identity will change as you age. It’s normal. And if it doesn’t? That’s also normal.

Also, from 13-18 (minors in most countries) is the most complexly romantic and sexual time. Obviously I’m not going into detail as again MINORS. But teenagers undergo the most change is hormones, emotional growth, romantic and sexual interest then any other age.

In my opinion, teenage years is when you’re MOST LIKELY to figure out you’re aro/ace. It’s the MOST LIKELY time to question your identity in general. Obviously, again, no age limit, but it’s the most common time for self discovery.

It’s called a “coming of age” story for a reason.

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We need to bring back the athletics body type post

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I want more tattoos & less worries

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and thinking all you need is there building faith on love and words empty promises will wear i know

see also: anime/gifs version another anime/gifs version

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and thinking all you need is there building faith on love and words empty promises will wear i know

see also: another version manga/video version

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and thinking all you need is there building faith on love and words empty promises will wear i know

see also: another version manga/video version

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Some people are just built different

My introverted socially anxious ass would never even think about asking a complete stranger on the street if there are any restaurants nearby that are still open late at night

I would pull out google maps or simply doom myself to either walking around lost until I found something or just not eat dinner that night lmao

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Some improvised weapons are better than nothing. Others were so good that they became military issue across Europe for several centuries!

Anyway, here’s Patreon

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y’all ever read a fanfic that you cannot believe an author just wrote for free?? what an honor it is to read a piece of someone’s soul they shared out of nothing but love for a piece of media. what a privilege it is to be allowed their talent because you share an interest!!

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can someone please be proud of me like fuck I’m trying

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i envy ppl who can provide deep analysis about their favorite media and/or characters b/c whenever i like something a lot it looks like:

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Lmao me love you cookie <3

Some of my experiences:

Wildly different timezones can inconvenience but never stop the brainrot 🫶🫶

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NO BUT FR I HAVENT STOPPED THINKING ABOUT THAT LINE LIKE WHAT DO YOU MEAN PERCY GETS TO HEAR THAT FROM HIS GRANDPA AFTER EVERYTHING AND IM SUPPOSED TO WHAT JUST BE FINE WITH IT AND GO ON WITH MY LIFE????

IM GONNA THROW MYSELF OUT A FUCKING WINDOW OMFG MY HEART NAKABA 😭😭

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*nods head seriously* This is so accurate lmao

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Shel Silverstein predicting ChatGPT in 1981

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Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”

and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”

and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.