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New OC Blog

I have a new OC blog for K Project! It’s called @lillyinhomra !! I’d love for you to check it out!

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I apologize for what I am going to say to you, but I have to. I am Ahmed from Gaza, married with two children. We live in the shadow of war and destruction. I lost my brother, my home, and most of my relatives. We have nothing left. I ask you to help, even a little, so that we can survive and protect my children. Any amount, even a small amount, will save our lives.

https://gofund.me/991535b1

https://gofund.me/991535b1

Here is the link! Let’s help whoever we can. I wish you the best and hope you’re safe.

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Hey just a quick question but I saw that this was an RP blog and I wanted to try out an OC but didn’t know where to start. Also I don’t know if your Online or not due to your situation and I didn’t want to come off as Rude to you so take your time.

// Hello!!! Yeah, I’m barely now but that’s just because I’m pretty busy. Thank you for the question though! Starting an OC blog is really fun, and it all depends on your tastes and what you like.

I ended up making an OC blog because I saw other people with rp blogs for Alice in Borderland and was like- no way!! People do that? Thats so cool!! Everyone is super nice and super welcoming.

Anyways, some tips or info:

• I draw my OC because I’m able to, and I have a very specific idea of what she looks like, but most people use a “face claim” which is essentially a celebrity that they use as the face or ideal look of their character for their blog. So they’ll use gifs and pictures of that celebrity as if they’re the OC.

• Some blogs are also themed based on color and aesthetic to match the personality of their OC. I did my blog black and red to reflect the show that she’s based in.

• Most people also have a “masterpost/OC introduction” which has all the basic information you need to know about their OC, almost like a character wiki page.

• Some people also have a blog which is a "multi-fandom" OC, which means they rp between different shows and games with the same character.

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• As for interacting with people, what I did is send a few blogs a quick introduction of my character, as my character, basically saying “Hello! I’m Lilly, etc” and I’d usually get a response.

• After that it’s kind of just interacting with people, responding to their posts in character and stuff. Some blogs like to create “starters” which is a post with a prompt that people can respond to, to start a role play between their characters.

• Another way people interact is making posts in character as if this is their characters social media profile, and other people will comment and respond in character as well.

• I like to make extra posts sometimes just about my character, background information and “flashback” stories, so people can get to know my character.

But yeah, overall it's just posting about a character or acting in character, and talking to others as well. It’s really fun!! If you have any more questions feel free to send them my way, and good luck!!!

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𝐏𝐒𝐀: 𝐈𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐃𝐀𝐍𝐆𝐄𝐑𝐎𝐔𝐒 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐄𝐒 & “𝐕𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐍𝐒”

Writing with a dangerous muse can be really interesting and exciting, but there are some things to be mindful about to make the experience fun for everyone involved.

When interacting with a dangerous muse, keep in mind that it’s not the other mun’s responsibility to rein their muse in if your muse is constantly being rude. Antagonize a dangerous muse at your own risks! Especially if there was no prior plotting involved, taunting/insulting a dangerous muse can result in your muse getting injured or worse.

Sometimes, a muse is going to be more powerful than yours. It’s more likely to be the case when interacting with a very dangerous muse. It’s ok if your muse doesn’t always have the upper hand, it’s ok if your muse isn’t always the strongest, or the most dangerous. Power imbalances are fun, but they require compromise. 

Remember that it’s not always fun for the mun if their dangerous muse only gets used for antagonistic purposes. Yes, of course, if someone is writing a “villain” or a very dangerous muse, they know it will lead to antagonistic threads. But it doesn’t mean they don’t want to explore other themes as well! All muses have nuances.

Don’t forget that muse ≠ mun. Even if someone is writing a muse that has done terrible things, it does not mean that they condone their muse’s actions, or agree with their muses. 

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// I want more information on season 3 PLEAAAAASEEE

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Break

I wanted to say thank you for all the wonderful interactions I’ve had with everyone and all the relationships I’ve built. Due to mental health reasons, I have to leave for a while. I hope to come back in around a month and hopefully be back and ready for season 3. Hopefully I will be in a better place.

Unfortunately, I will not be using any other social media. But again, thanks for everything, I had a really good time, and hopefully I’ll be back soon. Don’t forget me 😂 and Happy holidays. ❤️

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Lets Play A  Game of This or That

My muse has to pick one or the other. They have to pick one. Not Both or Neither. 

Cats or Dogs 

Carnivores or Herbivores 

Monochrome or Colourful 

Liberal or Conservative 

Lawful or Chaotic 

Sweet or Sour 

Heroes or Villains 

Books or Movie

Spicy or Mild 

Endurance or Sprinter

Quality or Quantity 

Perfectionism or Efficiency 

Hot or Cold 

Night or Day 

Sunset or Sunrise 

Vacation or Staycation  

Logic or Emotion 

Angels or Demons 

Ghosts or Aliens 

Past or Future 

Abandoned Places or Crowded Spaces 

Walk or Drive 

Left side of the Bed or Right

Coffee or Tea

Knives or Guns 

Pirates or Ninjas 

Vikings or Knights 

RomCom or Horror 

Date Night or Friends Night 

Hook up or Relationship

Clean or Messy 

Writing or Typing 

Indoors or Outdoors 

Spring or Autumn 

Doctor or Dentist

Fly or Drive

Silence or Ambiance 

Subtle or Blunt

Plans or Surprises 

Dad Jokes or Dark Jokes

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How are we feeling about this drop fellas

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The 36 Questions of Interpersonal Closeness

from Arthur Aron's The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness: A Procedure and Some Preliminary Findings

Set I

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Set II

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in a friendship?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

Set III

25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling…” 

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for them to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them [already].

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how they might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

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*She mocks his amused snort and gives him a judgmental look*

UHHH I just can’t help but panic when I see blood- especially since this is usually our safe spot. We aren’t in a game right now and ALTHOUGH I know you kill people all the time, I’m not around you enough to witness it. Sooo uhhh just sayin’ bro-ski.

Punched a mirror to get some frustrations out. Now I wonder to try to stop the bleeding of my hands or just think fuck it and go for a drink.

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*thinks for a minute* UH- Wait no they didn’t jerk- you- I- UGH! *she makes an angry grabbing motion with her hands* stupid hand stupid blood stupid stupid- *she mumbles angrily*

Punched a mirror to get some frustrations out. Now I wonder to try to stop the bleeding of my hands or just think fuck it and go for a drink.

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Cause it’s blood? I-

…

You know what? Why do I care? You’re right. You shoot people dead all the time.

…

*stares at his hand for a minute awkwardly* *looks up at him*

Okay then. Anyways…

Punched a mirror to get some frustrations out. Now I wonder to try to stop the bleeding of my hands or just think fuck it and go for a drink.

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OH GOD ARE YOU GOOD? STOP THE BLEEDING DUDE- WHAT THE FUCK STOP THE BLEEDING!?!???

Punched a mirror to get some frustrations out. Now I wonder to try to stop the bleeding of my hands or just think fuck it and go for a drink.

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tw: mentions of death/hopelessness

Humanity is a curse.

Whoever said it was a blessing, lied.

Games bring out the worst in humanity. They’re a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Games aren’t fun. They’re brutual. Whether you’re fighting with your family over a stupid round of monopoly… or playing a murderous version of tag… someone will always betray you. Someone will always throw you under the bus for their own survival. Their own gain. Because that’s all that matters. Right? Saving your own soul. But how will that affect you for the rest of your life? Knowing you pushed someone in front of death so you could save yourself? Do you feel accomplished? Do you feel complete? Satisfied? Watching souls leave this world while yours stays behind?

You know… I read a poem once… it really reminds me of the borderlands. Let me read you a line.

“And if I am killed for simply living, let death be kinder than man.” - Althea Davis

Next time you enter a game arena, look another contestant in the eyes. A life isn’t a piece of paper for you to crumple up and toss away. A life is hundreds of pages worth of writing, a book that was never published. One you never read.

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Damn it…

SEND MY MUSE CURIOUS ANONS!!

Okokokok- would you ever team up with me in game? *crosses arms* I mean I’m sure both you and I would if we absolutely had to, but if we had a choice… do you think we’d work well together? Or would it be a horrid mess that would end up in us dying? Genuine thoughts. Also, what’s your favorite food? You seem like a burger guy to me.

I'm not really into teaming up for games but if I had to I might consider it. I guess it would also depend on the kind of game we would be in. If I think you would be off use. If you don't get in my way of handling things I think we could work rather well together.

My favorite food is katsuon.

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