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[lilyevans-wife]

I’m so so so so so incredibly proud of you <3

Hi guys!

So I have been hit with a bit of the sads today and I’m trying to convince myself that it’s okay to like…ask for help and reassurance 😅 and I think I need some right now. There’s some things I’ve been putting off working on for a while that I need to do and I could use your encouragement! So..

50 notes and I’ll clean up around my house

100 notes and I’ll work on some job applications to find a less toxic school that accepts my identity

500 notes and I’ll talk to a friend about some issues we’ve been having that I’ve been avoiding

1000 notes and I’ll make a goal to drink at least 4 glasses of water a day because I’m chronically dehydrated lol

2000 notes and I’ll make a goal to be active five times a week (right now it’s three and I really need to do more)

3000 notes and I’ll actually listen to my doctor about how to treat my new health condition instead of just ignoring it until my next appointment (don’t do what I do, kids!)

4000 notes and I’ll force myself to write nice things about myself and I’ll post them here.

5000 notes and I’ll question all of your sanity for being so dedicated and I’ll…idk I’ll do whatever you guys want to take care of myself. I’ll take your suggestions I guess. As long as it’s not expensive. And I’ll post proof on here.

[lilyevans-wife]

Reblog if you:

Like the color purple

Enjoy long walks on the beach

Desperately need to scream loudly into the void

Are secretly three cats in a trench coat

Need to drink more water

Are hiding seven walruses in your basement

But don't say which.

[lilyevans-wife]

Hi guys!

So I have been hit with a bit of the sads today and I’m trying to convince myself that it’s okay to like…ask for help and reassurance 😅 and I think I need some right now. There’s some things I’ve been putting off working on for a while that I need to do and I could use your encouragement! So..

50 notes and I’ll clean up around my house

100 notes and I’ll work on some job applications to find a less toxic school that accepts my identity

500 notes and I’ll talk to a friend about some issues we’ve been having that I’ve been avoiding

1000 notes and I’ll make a goal to drink at least 4 glasses of water a day because I’m chronically dehydrated lol

2000 notes and I’ll make a goal to be active five times a week (right now it’s three and I really need to do more)

3000 notes and I’ll actually listen to my doctor about how to treat my new health condition instead of just ignoring it until my next appointment (don’t do what I do, kids!)

4000 notes and I’ll force myself to write nice things about myself and I’ll post them here.

5000 notes and I’ll question all of your sanity for being so dedicated and I’ll…idk I’ll do whatever you guys want to take care of myself. I’ll take your suggestions I guess. As long as it’s not expensive. And I’ll post proof on here.

[lilyevans-wife]

A MARAUDERS KAHOOT!

(Kind of)

So Kahoot would only let 40 people participate unless I paid like $100 for a year subscription, so I redid the quiz on quizizz, which is like kahoot except with powerups (yay!)

Rules:

This link is open until Sunday (4/21) noon EST so you have until then to play!

You do not need an account to play. It's free <3

Use your Tumblr name as your nickname, that way I can announce the top 5 at the end of the week!

The top five players will get to send me a request for any microfic they want! (within reason, respecting my boundaries)

First place gets a full-length oneshot! (like 2-5k words)

You're welcome to play as many times as you want because it's fun, but if you do, I'll take your lowest score for places, just to be fair. <3

All questions are based off of facts (as in, none of my personal headcanons), so if you think anything is wrong, please let me know! I used the Harry Potter Lexicon to double-check my work, but I can always make mistakes.

However, I do ask factual questions about many fanon ships (i.e. what does "starchaser" mean) so please be aware that multiple ships are mentioned. I tried to include all of the popular ones, even if they aren't my personal favorites.

Please reblog this so as many people can enjoy it as possible! I worked hard lol.

After Sunday, I'll restart the game just for fun and leave a link on my pinned post.

Let me know if you have tech issues! I am NOT tech savvy but I'll do my best to help!

UPDATE: If you don't finish because of a glitch or whatever, I won't count the score. Just finished scores.

So much love to you all! <3

[lilyevans-wife]

To all the amazing people out there questioning their gender, their sexuality, their identities in general:

You aren't faking it.

Feeling like you're faking it is such a common thing. But you aren't. What you're feeling is real and valid and so okay and you will figure it out, I promise <3

Reblog to remind someone that they aren't alone <3

[lilyevans-wife]

I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

[lilyevans-wife]

hi i saw @justafrogghost do one of these and they look fun so i’m going to do one to

50 notes i’ll start studying for finals

100 notes i’ll correct people when they misgender me (no god pls no)

200 notes i’ll tell my therapist about my actual problems

300 notes i’ll tell my mom about my new name (Rowan)

400 notes i’ll (attempt) to eat 3 meals a day for a week

500 notes i’ll go clean for a week

600 notes i’ll actually wear my invisalign (and the rubber bands) (also don’t ask)

limit 15 tags and 15 notes per person

[lilyevans-wife]

I feel like I need motivation so bleh

100 notes and I start drawing more

500 and I start working on learning digital art

1k and I’ll uhh write at least a page of my book every day (I work in a notebook so my parents don’t see it on docs and easier transportation so I can write during school)

2k and I’ll start trying to deal with my anxiety and adhd

5k I’ll try to sort out my gender confusion

10k and (*sigh*, sorry Spotify kids I’m a hypocrite and ashamed in myself) I’ll start eating healthier

by the end of APRIL ok

[lilyevans-wife]

LGBTQ+/Queer Themed Asks

❤️ - What are your pronouns?

🌹 - What is your Sexuality?

🍁 - When did you first realize you were queer?

🔥 - How has the way you think about yourself changed since you realized you were queer?

🧡 - How has the way you presented yourself (ex. Clothing, hairstyle, etc.) changed since you realized you were queer?

🌼 - If you used any other labels before your current one, what were they?

💛 - Who or what made you realize you were queer?

☀️ - Is there anyone who helped you accept that you were queer? If so, who?

🌾 - How queer do you think you look? Would it be obvious to someone that you were queer if they looked at you?

🌱 - How would your younger self act if your current self told them they were queer?

🍀 - What thoughts or emotions that didn’t make sense to your past self make sense now that you know you’re queer?

💚 - How many queer people do you know irl?

🦚 - Are there any queer books/shows/etc. that you would suggest?

💙 - When you first learned about the Queer community, did you immediately realize ‘That’s me!’ Or did you consider yourself a ‘really good ally’ for some time?

🫐 - Are there ways you wish you could present yourself differently, but can’t?

🔮 - What Was the Moment you Realized you were Queer?

💜 - What Label(s) Have You Identified With for the Longest?

😈 - How Sasitified are you with your current Labels, if you have any?

🏳️‍🌈 - Do you enjoy the colors of your preferred flag? Do you incorporate it into your outfits, decor, etc.?

🏳️‍⚧️ - What Flag do you think has the best color scheme?

🌈 - What's a Queer Identity, Experience or a piece of History you feel deserves more recognition?

Reblog to Join! :D

[lilyevans-wife]

In case anyone is having a bad night:

Here is the fudgiest brownie in a mug recipe I’ve found

Here are some fun sites

Here is a master post of Adventure Time episodes and comics

Here is a master post of movies including Disney and Studio Ghibli

Here is a master post of other master posts to TV shows and movies

*tucks you in with fuzzy blanket* *pats your head*

You’ll be okay, friend <3

[lilyevans-wife]

Wooing for the happiness of all of you <33

Happiness Will Come To You.

[lilyevans-wife]

No, no you’re not

I screamed when you followed me back

MY DAY HAS BEEN MADE

@my-castles-crumbling

[lilyevans-wife]

whatever you do don't picture pandora sitting with regulus on his bed, curtains drawn shut, carefully covering his dark mark with her foundation. don't picture her leaning forward and pressing a kiss against his temple and whispering "out of sight, out of mind" in his ear. don't picture regulus on the verge of tears because his list of two people he was ok with holding him just got shortened down to just pandora.

don't picture barty laying with evan in his bed, curtains also drawn, barty's head on evans chest. don't picture evan whispering to his boyfriend "do you think we'll ever end up like regulus and james?" don't picture barty shaking his head an responding "i hope not, you keep me sane."

[lilyevans-wife]

Well luck do your thing

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

[lilyevans-wife]

i am begging you all to stop treating this site like instagram if you dont want it to be content free by next year

[lilyevans-wife]

me: *meets a girl i connect with well*

me, two days later: *has written her a love song*

if this gets 2.5k notes in the next two weeks (by 7th march) ill post the song on here. 3.5k and ill send it to her (making it unrealistically high so i never have to share it aha

tagging a few moots though to give it a fighting chance (no pressure though!!): @my-castles-crumbling @siriuslygay1981 @regulusmeanslittleking

[lilyevans-wife]

🔥 choose violence ask game 🔥

the character everyone gets wrong

a compelling argument for why your fave would never top or bottom

screenshot or description of the worst take you've seen on tumblr

what was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person?

worst discord server and why

which ship fans are the most annoying?

what character did you begin to hate not because of canon but because how how the fandom acts about them?

common fandom opinion that everyone is wrong about

worst part of canon

worst part of fanon

number of fandom-related words you've filtered

the unpopular character that you actually like and why more people should like them

worst blorboficiation

that one thing you see in fics all the time

that one thing you see in fanart all the time

you can't understand why so many people like this thing (characterization, trope, headcanon, etc)

there should be more of this type of fic/art

it's absolutely criminal that the fandom has been sleeping on...

you're mad/ashamed/horrified you actually kind of like...

part of canon you found tedious or boring

part of canon you think is overhyped

your favorite part of canon that everyone else ignores

ship you've unwillingly come around to

topic that brings up the most rancid discourse

common fandom complaint that you're sick of hearing