linda-charlie-bloom-blog
linda-charlie-bloom-blog
Stronger at the Broken Places
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Linda and Charlie Bloom are seminar leaders, authors, psychotherapists and consultants and are considered experts in the field of human relations. They have been working with individuals, couples, and groups throughout the country and internationally since 1975 and have been featured speakers at many professional and public conferences. They have made over 200 radio and TV appearances. They have been faculty members and educators at a number of learning institutes and universities including Esalen Institute, The Kripalu Center, The Crossings, JFK University, Omega Institute, California Institute of Integral Studies, California School of Professional Psychology, Antioch University, the Institute for Transpersonal Psychology, and many others. Their work has been endorsed by Marianne Williamson, Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks, Dr. Laura Schlessinger, Jerry Jampolsky, Stephen Levine, and many other nationally recognized speakers and educators. They are the authors of 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last, (sold over 100,000 copies); Secrets of a Great Marriages: Real Truth from Real Couples about Lasting Love; Happily Ever After.and 39 Other Myths about Love: Breaking Through to the Relationship of Your Dreams, and their latest book, "That Which Doesn't Kill Us: How One Couple Became Stronger at the Broken Places". Linda and Charlie have been married since 1972 and have two adult children and three grandchildren. Together they co-direct Bloomwork in Santa Cruz, CA and can be contacted at 831-421-9822, or by email at: [email protected]. For more information please visit their website: www.Bloomwork.com.
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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From Conflict to Resolution, we are excited to announce our new course on Udemy!
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Is it unhealthy to fight in a relationship with captions
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Contempt shows that we do not respect our partner. Our partner feels it even if we don't speak it aloud and it's painful to both parties. Contempt is the result of long-term accumulation of unfinished business. The poison can be cleansed if both people get to work to clean up the relationship by taking responsibility and bringing large helpings of respect back to the partnership.
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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It's Not Going to Be Easy.聽Rather than blame ourselves or our partner when our relationship is challenging, we can cut ourselves some slack while we are learning. We can, in time, get to the other side, where we enjoy our relationship to the max. It's the most important work we'll ever do and it is amazingly rewarding.
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Foundation for Trust.聽We don't need to keep score when we have a fundamental trust to be able to count on each other to keep our word. One of the most efficient ways of building trust is to make agreements and really keep them. What are the 10-Commandments that guide your relationship?
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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It's a wise choice to make a contract with your partner to clear out the incompletions that clog up the channel between you. Then, you can enjoy a higher level of trust, ease, play, learning, laughter, and more great sex!
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Doing Your Own Work!聽It's so obvious what the other person is doing or not doing, or saying or not saying that is causing distress. It's much harder to self-observe and make changes in ourself. Trying to change the other person will just make them feel unloved. The power to uplevel the relationship resides with us. When we do our own work, we change the way we dance and it has an impact on the other person to change their dance steps as well.
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Bringing out the best in each other
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Acceptance & Validation:聽When our partner offers their communication, they want to feel received. Then there is space to hear our side of things. So many people are quick to point out the error of the other person's thinking. When we open to what is being offered, it's a gift to both the speaker and the listener.
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Reignite that spark! #relationshipadvice
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Linda had a dignified persona covering up her fears and anxieties. She told Charlie "I wake up every day afraid of the challenges I'd taken on." He said, "Bring them all to me, I'll eat them!" It's nice to confess and be accepted as-is.
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Check out our interview with Don Oakley! Don is a nondual spiritual teacher and Managing Director of the Well Being Retreat Center in Tazewell.
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Joree Rose and her partner Dr. John Schinnerer, interview Charlie and Linda on how to Create an Extraordinary Relationship. Check it out now!
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Flooding #relationshipadvice
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 1 year ago
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Join us at Kripalu! #love #kripalu
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 2 years ago
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Tip of the Day: Apology #couplegoals #strengtheningrelationships
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linda-charlie-bloom-blog 2 years ago
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Foreplay is everything!
If you want to have the best possible sex, you would be wise to concentrate on the context of the relationship. How you speak to each other, how you treat each other, how generous of spirit you are, how quickly and thoroughly you repair any breakdowns that may occur are all profound factors impacting the well-being of your relationship in general and your lovemaking in particular.
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