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I am emotionally weak and just sat on the phone with my ex for an hour and boy howdy did that feel like shit!!!!!!! He’s squarely in the depression stage of grief and it’s clear he’s done a lot of reflection and has stopped trying to blame anything but himself which is a step in the right direction. Unfortunately I still care deeply for this man and it’s really hard to see him punishing himself but I know I can’t tell him how to fix it because that’s not my job anymore. Painful!!!!
#personal#I’m never going to fully cut him off I still think he’s a good person#but he needs to deal with his problems by himself because I never should have beeen the outlet for all of his stress#he has some very intense ptsd from childhood that he never really dealt with and I know that’s what a lot of this is from at the core#but once again it is not my job to fix him and he has proven to me what he is capable of#going 350 miles away was the correct decision and I’m happy and comfortable where I am right now#he keeps asking me if I’ll ever take him back and I think the answer is no but it’s only been 2 weeks since everything happened#im getting myself a big sandwich and a cookie and a joint and that’s what the rest of my day will look like 👍
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"Can I Please Eat In The Computer Room Tonight?" by Nicole Nikolich (2025)
#I saw the progress videos of some of these she is so cool#this artist terrifies me I simply cannot fathom the patience these required#my largest crochet tapestry is 1.5 square feet and 3 colors and I hated it 
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I told this man to stop texting me 5 times a day because that is absolutely not what I meant when I asked for time and space. He just emailed me a link to the Wordpress blog he created as his alternative. Can’t even be annoyed because that’s fucking funny LMAO
I’m out of the city with my mom and my cat and feeling great about this situation because my delightful ex decided to send pictures of his bloody turds to my email (???) 30 minutes after I finalized the breakup. I could not make this up if I tried

What a guy
#I’m pretty sure he got the idea right after he texted me ‘sorry for treating your phone number like a live journal’#really good stuff comedic genius really and he’s just being a sad little man
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@samiraaymaan A pregnant mother of four, facing malnutrition and asthma, has been displaced several times and is fighting to ensure the safety of herself and her children. Her campaign launched on June 22nd and has received minimal donations. Please support Samira and her family to help them survive and secure the funds necessary for evacuation as soon as the borders reopen.
DONATE HERE
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i just hope that no person anywhere in the world at any point in the future has to go through what mothers in gaza went through these past few months.
like it was so insane. women were giving birth without medical aid and having c-sections without anaesthesia while being malnourished and unable to properly provide food and warmth to their newborns. they couldn't produce milk and couldn't afford baby formula. hell, at a certain point finding baby formula was impossible in certain areas of gaza. and there was the constant fear of death hanging over their heads.
there were hopes that after the ceasefire things would improve for these babies and their mothers. that their quality of life would improve. but now that there are chances that israel won't continue with the ceasefire, we need to support these mothers and infants, now more than ever.
please please consider helping my friend suad, who has a little baby boy who suffers from respiratory problems. she just wants to ensure her son's well being. baby khaled is around 8 months old. her fundraiser has been verified (#279).
please help suad and her baby
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It’s a little scary to know that I’m alone from now on. I know I’m not actually alone but it’s a different feeling than I’m used to. I started dating him when I was 23 and I moved in with him so fast. 3 years is a long time and I feel like I’ve become a new person two times over so I don’t really know this version of myself without him. I’m not mourning the loss of him so much as the loss of the security I had knowing he was there and that I had someone to lean on who knew me better than anyone. I know I’m safer now but it’s terrifying
#personal#first night settling into the new normal is hitting me like a sack of bricks#I banked so much on that relationship and I’m scared to be by myself
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When I was living with my mom in 2021 my cat had her trained to put on a fleece blanket in her recliner after dinner so she could cuddle in my moms lap. Night one back at my moms house in 2025 and they both fell right back into that routine <3

#personal#it’s nice to be back here im lucky to have a great relationship with my mom#im so excited to hang out with her she’s bringing me to her weekly craft night with her friend who owns a pottery studio in town#my mom rules
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fresh asf like a million dollars justfine and dandy

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I’m out of the city with my mom and my cat and feeling great about this situation because my delightful ex decided to send pictures of his bloody turds to my email (???) 30 minutes after I finalized the breakup. I could not make this up if I tried

What a guy
#like?????? huh?????#snapped me right out of feeling sorry for myself though l couldn’t help but laugh#I said there’s pads under the sink go to urgent care what am I your mom??????#imagine a grown man sobbing on the street because you won’t tell him I love you back after breaking up and then he does this#what planet am I on right now
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Successfully packed my entire life into a truck in 5 hours without having a complete breakdown. Shoutout to the ex for blaming everyone but himself until the bitter end and making it easy for me to gtfo. His parting gift was a pack of Marlboro 27s lmao
#personal#5 more hours in this city and I’m sad but mostly about leaving my friends behind#he said he probably does need to be alone so at least he kind of gets it#he asked me to tell him what he needs to do to fix himself and I said I don’t know I’m not your mom#it was hard but I only cried a little
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You should be able to say “don’t touch me” to anyone ever in any context and not have it be considered in the realm of surprising or insulting imho if we ever needed to normalize something it’s this
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Ugh I go pick up my uhaul in an hour and I’m dreading this part the most. It’s gonna suck so bad to pack all my shit up and I’m afraid I’ll run into my landlord and I don’t want him asking me any questions because he literally told me he doesn’t usually rent to unmarried couples in case they break up 🙄 my ex has been texting me all week making a big deal about things that I literally do not care about and completely ignoring the stuff that I have been telling him caused me to leave. He offered to stop drinking, not the problem, and asked for advice buying a car, insane and also not the problem. I offered to call in to a therapy session because I think that might be the only way for him to GET it but now he’s asking if we can call once a week while I’m away. Homie I’m gonna move to Kansas in a year this is not a temporary sabbatical get out of my FACE
#personal#he really thinks he can just tell me he’s going to get sober and buy a car and that will restore my trust in him#he apologized for choking me ONCE. ONE TIME. and has not brought it up since#I sent him a very long voice memo about how I can’t do this because I’m tired of walking on eggshells and being scared all the time#and he did not address a SINGLE thing I said in that message#he just keeps telling me he’ll earn more money to take care of me better like do you hear yourself you DUMB motherfucker#he asked me to take the cats and I let him in too far because I secretly want to steal one of his cats#but that was a mistake because he was just trying to keep me obligated to him somehow#I’m trying to give him a little bit of grace because I know I’m turning his life upside down too but this feels EVIL
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