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sys culture is thinking you figured out who you are and picking a name for yourself only for it to be another alter - Jay

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“It’s okay to not be okay”

Unless it impacts your work performance…

Or your grades

Or how you act

Or if it causes you to say no

Or if you’re harder to be around

Or if you need time alone

Or if you talk about it

Or show symptoms

“It’s okay to not be okay”

Unless you have trauma

Unless you have one of those “scary” mental illnesses

Unless it inconveniences me

Unless you’re undiagnosed

Unless you cry or scream or make a scene

Unless you don’t keep that shit to yourself

Unless you make me uncomfortable

Unless I can’t infantilize or fetishize you

Unless you have hallucinations

Unless you have psychosis

Unless you get angry

Unless I think you’re cringe

Unless you can’t preform hygiene tasks

Unless you’re disabled, or trans, or gay, or not white, or fat, or AFAB, or intersex, or a man… so I guess anyone

“It’s okay to not be okay”

As long as nobody ever finds out.

Our society has a severe issue with performative activism, and mental health is a huge example of this. Every time someone considers reaching out, they run through this list mentally. This is why true activists and resources need to be loudly supportive of all the things on this list. Take the subtext out of your support.

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Heres my GFM anything will help!!

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My cashapp is $decayingteeth

My paypal is

Anything would be nice (i do sell feet pics js dm me on tele @/vesperyn637)

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PLEASE. I WANT TO SEE THE OTTERS AND JELLYFISH

not to sound like a whore, but can we go to an aquarium date?

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Summer Berry Mix 🍓🫐 ♡⊹˚₊

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trauma so bad my coping mechanisms have names and pronouns

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Gender-related Flags For Alters!

These flags are for CDD (complex dissociative disorder) systems ONLY. Do NOT use if you are a "non-disordered system", endogenic, or an endo supporter. Systemhood is part of a mental disorder, not an identity you can adopt.

I saw someone make a post very similar to the content in this one, and I cannot for the life of me find the post again to credit them for this idea -- but this is not my original idea These flags are gender-related terms for alters in a DID/OSDD system. These terms only relate to alters in a system, and the way they present in the innerworld.

Female Formed Alter: an alter who formed as female and identifies as female/feminine, when the body is not female. This alter does not identify as transfeminine, but cannot identify as cis.

Male Formed Alter: an alter who formed as male and identifies as male/masculine, when the body is not male. This alter does not identify as transmasculine, but cannot identify as cis.

Nonbinary Formed Alter: an alter who formed as nonbinary in the innerworld and identifies as nonbinary, however does not identify as trans.

Genderfluid Formed Alter: an alter whose gender or sex characteristics within the innerworld are fluid, or fluctuates.

Bigender Formed Alter: an alter who formed having two genders or multiple sex characteristics in the innerworld, and identifies as bigender.

Genderless Alter: an alter who formed genderless in the innerworld and identifies as genderless.

Transgender Alter: an alter who formed as one gender, but later transitioned to another gender. This can also include: an alter who formed as a different gender from the body, but later transitioned to that same gender; an alter who identifies as the same gender as the host/body, but has conflicting or opposing sex characteristics in the innerworld.

All of these flags can be found as emojis in my server

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Im deleting tmblr for a bit idk when ill be back. Stay safe

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I think one of the worst aspects of being plural is when you're put in a situation where you have to put aside another headmasters dreams.

For example it's difficult to pursue a career in criminology, to be a voice actor, a musician, a soldier and travel the world all at the same time to make everyone in the system happy.

Of course choosing an education, career and life style can be difficult for everyone but there's something so heartbreaking when you're aware that you have to put someone else's goals above others.

(I hope I was able to word that correctly)

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Bitches be like “idc” then switch hosts (its me im bitches)

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Every time one of my friends explains something about Plurality to me I have to fight the urge to ask if they're "More people per people" cause of this fuck ass post

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GUYS SO THAT GUY I WAS TALKING ABOUT, THE ONE WHOSE NUMBER I GOT AT THE HOSPITAL, I CALLED. HE ANSWERED. LIKE HIM HIMSELF. I js hope he doesnt block me now BUT AAAAA IM SO EXCITED.

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host change

soo our old host seven js dipped. we have almost no communication between my system alters. but when a host leaves its chaos. usually we have a host whose out for a bit like a few weeks then it changes. but these past few seeks, seven met this boy, now this boy is way different than the people we usually date, first weve mainly dated women. the only time we dated a man was one, before we knew we were a system, and the second time, we were pretty much in denial about it. but now this guy seven really likes, and atp im sure hes noticed it. since we were stuck in the hospital unit together for like two weeks. now im js waiting for him to call when he gets out. seven has wrote pages about how she feels about this boy and id hate to ruin it but like. hes a southern country boy. hes not racust or anything but he doesnt understand alot of things i find imortnt. like im pretty sure (im being biased here) but im pretty sure that hes transphobic and i highly doubt if he knows were a system, that he'll be able to understand and comprehend it.