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You should reverse the gif of smug jug exploding. Reanimate him.

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Idk man it’s so easy to get bogged down in all the bullshit online but when my then-6 year old cousin found out I was trans he said “ok” then corrected my grandma when she misgendered me. I was once the third between a gay man and a lesbian. Two lesbians once invited me back to their place when I presented as a man. I met an AMAB nb butch who looked strikingly to outsiders like a cis man and it was one of the more sapphic experiences I’ve had. I nervously wore a boydyke shirt to pride and got 3 different cis-looking femme folks tell me they loved my shirt. I once told a trans group at a protest that any pronouns were fine for me and one person said “wow, I’m impressed and intimidated by people like that. I don’t know that I could be that chill with pronouns.” I once told a GNC friend I wished I could wear a type of “opposite” gender clothing after I had already transitioned and so it would be associated with my AGAB and he said “You could just do it.” I’ve had cishet men fight cops for me before. The first time I had a doctor ask me if my name was different than what was on my forms I had to try not to cry. Last week, a phone call with a doctor’s office where I am generally cis passing asked unprompted if my name listed is what I want to be called. It touched me then too. I told a lesbian friend once I felt like my attraction to men AND women both felt gay. She said “makes sense.” And we moved on. I go by different pronouns in different circles. I’ve had gay women love my facial hair. I’ve had gay men like my tits. It’s all out there, I promise. It can be hard to find it but I promise there is community like you and community who likes you. And it’s more messy and beautiful than tumblr discourse makes it out to be.

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let me eat oats out of your hands i promise i'll be niceys this time

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not gay as in happy, but queer as in i love you

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There is a new subreddit called r/PeriodPantry that allows people who need period products to post wishlists. Many people are forced by poverty to chose between menstrual hygiene products and other necessities, and may end up skipping meals or suffering health problems or social isolation as a result of lacking hygiene products. Please feel welcome to post a period product wishlist, fulfill a wishlist, and/or reblog this post to help it reach others.

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choose your fighter

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if you are a lesbian who used to identify as bisexual...

if you are a bisexual woman who used to identify as a lesbian...

i am so proud of you, and even more happy for you that you have discovered something new about yourself.

there is no shame in going from one label to another if you find the new one reflects you better, and you are not betraying anyone for doing so. changing labels does not make you any less worthy of love.

you are not a stereotype. you are human, a human who is constantly evolving and always on the journey of self discovery. ignore anyone who says otherwise. you owe them nothing. your sexuality is your own.

this is a beautiful next step. i am endlessly proud of you for getting to this point, and i wish you all the luck and magic as you go on forward 💕💐

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rb to explode a terf ^_^ nonrefundable ^_^

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Idk who needs to hear this but your tummy isn’t ruining your outfits, you look hot

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Gc2b Binders No Longer Reputable

I've been away, so y'all may already be very aware of this, but I want to make sure it's stated on this blog because it's been The Brand for yeeeaaars: the quality of gc2b binders has been going downhill the past few years. People who bought from them prior and recently can attest to how poor the quality has become. The binders are just not the same. The material isn't comfortable and, more importantly, the fit just isn't good. People who've tried recent gc2b binders, even those who've been binding for years, are suffering from back and muscle pain, stiff shoulders, soreness, etc. regardless of fit. The material just doesn't seem to be suitable for binding anymore. It is also degrading really quickly and binders are wearing out in a matter of months. It is no longer worth it to buy from gc2b.

If you want some sources on this, check out the reviews here on trustpilot with people talking about this.

You'll want to keep your eye on brands that are still doing good work: Spectrum Outfitters (UK), For Them (seems to be a hate it or love it company; I know some who swear by them and others who feel they dont' really sell actual binders - just sports bras/lighter compression tops), Shapeshifters (good custom work and larger sizing), and Underworks (best budget brand).

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Be carful with me, I bite

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I think this picture of my gf helping fix my car should be in the MoMa

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Hey girl you've got tits the size of boobs

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Turning my gender opacity down to 4%

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Jupiter is a He/Him lesbian. This is not debatable

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everyone drop what you’re doing and watch this

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Mothers love to be like 'everyone feels like that I feel like that all the time'....my mother in christ you are also mentally ill