loserdiscourse

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normalize self harming for fun and because it looks good

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you should try actually interracting with trans people instead of feeding yourself lies from your little cesspool of pricks

Of course you feel disconnected from your gender it’s quite literally a made up set of rules based on stereotypes

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a) she didn't say she wants to fuck terfs. Quite the opposite, actually

b) Why.... why does it matter if the cake looks good or not? You people are just purposefully being antagonistic while calling yourselves feminists, without actually doing the feminist parts. Insulting people on little things that don't matter is just pointless. You're not proving yourselves to be 'the good guys' when you make fun of someone's art.

Happy Valentine's Day. I made you a cake

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no worries !! ❤️

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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i mean i really don’t care tho so i don’t get what the point was in bringing this up smh 😔 i don’t care for your discord friends, they have no power against me, i don’t know who they are. it’s not like they’re people i should care about 🤷‍♂️ if you guys got a giggle or two out of this conversation, that’s totally fine ! glad i could help 👍

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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awwww womp womp if it’s not that serious then you’d jsut write me off as another idiot who should be ignored <333 getting into a debate with someone who you “know” is wrong just seems pointless don’t you think!! the only reason why i’m arguing with you is cus i know it’s that serious since yall are actively hurting the autistic community. so yes, it is that serious

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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ok you should have clarified that then ??? saying “us real autistics will allow fake autistics into the community” realllyyy sounds like you’re talking about the autistic community as a whole. don’t be fucking vague and then turn around and call me the dumbass for not understanding what you meant

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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you literally said “your welcome in our community”. get a fucking grip and read your own damn words.

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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ok then what’s the point you’re trying to make by saying i can’t read ?

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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even if i can’t read, why is that such a bad thing? why do you equivocate disabilities to being a bad person ? kind of weird on your part lol

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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i can read just fine. the issue here is that you’re allowing fake autistics into the community + you’re speaking over the actual autistics ? not sure what you don’t understand here.

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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notice how you mention that you should tell the people you’re in a relationship with because you know damn well it’s fucked up to lie about your age like that.

<3 Lie about your chrono age online <3

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hi, diagnosed autistic. stop speaking over the actually autistic people that fucking hate fake autistic people!! i hate you guys, ur never welcome in our community C:

reminder to transautistics!

you are not autistic.

you will never be autistic.

your identity is invalid.

you are harming real autistic people.

fuck you.

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the issue here is that when people refer to “women” (i’ll get to that in a sec) as menstruators or birthing bodies, we’re not just referring to women. we’re also referring to trans men and nonbinary people with vaginas. If you personally identify as a woman, and would like to be called a mother, breast feeder, etc., i will call you that, since it is what you as an individual would like to be referred as. However, you can not speak for all people with vaginas.

And as for referring to trans women as cockowners, ballsack havers, and ejaculators, it may seem like an inclusive (albeit crude) term on the surface. In reality, calling specifically trans women these terms serves no purpose, except for unjust bigotry and transphobia.

The difference between calling anyone with a vagina a “menstruator” and calling all trans women “penis havers”, is that people with vaginas who are not women should be included when talking about female reproductive health. “Trans women” is already a term that basically means “penis haver”, while also being able to respect their identities.

Think of it this way. All* trans women are penis havers, but not all penis havers are trans women.

*saying “all” is a bit disingenuous, as there are intersex trans women that don’t have (or just have) penises, and some trans women undergo surgeries to have a vagina/vulva

Now i know you’re going to argue with something along the lines of “but why do women get referred to as [x inclusive term], but trans women get to be referred to as trans women??” well you see, “trans woman” is a sub category of “woman” (well, it’s a bit more complicated than that, but that’s another discussion). The category “Women” refers to the gender. “trans woman” and “cis woman” are also gender identities, but they also speak for unique life experiences regarding “woman” as a gender. (I could get into how these experiences differ, but it’s not entirely relevant right now.) Essentially what i’m trying to get at is that the “trans” prefix (?) is already a signifier of that person’s gender and sex. (same with “cis”.) There is no need to call trans women “penis havers” if “trans woman” already means “woman with a penis”. I mean, by all means, refer to all people with penises as “penis havers”, but don’t push that onto individuals who don’t want to be called that, just like how i will call you a woman/mother/breastfeeder if that’s what you prefer.

so no, your suggestion was not truly inclusive, and most definitely not “kind and fair”

still thinking about the first time I got banned from instagram. I commented on a post about inclusive language suggesting we call trans women cock owners, ballsack havers and ejaculators similarly like we call women menstruators or birthing bodies. I think my suggestion was fair and kind, truly inclusive.

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i hope you know that trans men who get double mastectomies are also doing it to alleviate pain ….?

what? this woman didn’t get a breast reduction for her j cups in order to “feel more like a (cis) woman,” she did it because of extreme pain and difficulty????? have some respect good lordt this is not about you

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yes because being a minor means that you can’t have nuanced thoughts or be listened to when sharing your opinions 🙄

Idk man, have you tried transitioning?

I will admit that the "trans men pass easier" statement is a bit more nuanced than "every single trans man will pass 100% of the time" but it's still a valid statement.

Not only are the effects of testosterone more far reaching than estrogen (the big spots that come to mind are that T will grow body hair in ways E can't fully reverse, and that T can provide voice changes whereas E cannot), but the social norms surrounding gendered identification are far looser for men than for women.

Like, if a woman has more than two "clocky" traits people already get suspicious and start transvestigating her. Whereas a guy can have like, six traits and nobody bats and eye.

Soooo, yeah, post medical transition trans men usually pass far easier than trans women. It's not a fucking mystery why either. But these nontransitioning trans men always crawl out of the woodwork to pretend like their existence negates the whole argument. Come back to me when you get top surgery lmao

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why are there so many immature adults on this website who decide to be condescending and antagonistic towards literal children ….?

i got into an argument against some transandrophobes and i said “hey you’re just being unnecessarily rude at this point i’m ending the conversation here” and they CONTINUED to harass me and say nasty shit. like i’m pretty sure this person is in their thirties pulling strawmans out of their ass to get me to continue talking to them. i’m not engaging in that bullshit i’m better than that.