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May i ask, why do you support endo-systems? (Coming from someone with did themself)

i've talked about this before (can't remember which blog it was on) but can't find it so i'll just run down my reasons again:

above all else, i do not have the right to tell anyone what is actually going on in their own brain. the only time that might be acceptable would be if i was a doctor treating them for a psychological issue, and even then, it's not often a good idea to outright tell someone that their brain is Wrong. this applies both to fakeclaiming endogenic systems and to telling them that they're actually traumagenic but have repressed their trauma; neither is good form.

secondly above all else, we NEED to have solidarity among plural folks. this is coming from a psychology major and a system — there is a large number of psychology practitioners and researchers who straight up do not believe plurality exists in any form. there is also a large number of them who believe systems are far rarer than current diagnoses show, and therefore most diagnosed and suspected systems are not real. i have had to write an essay on why did is fake for a grade before. there are extremely prominent psychologists (ex: allen frances, the literal chair of the team who developed the dsm-iv) who believe did is a fad (allen frances has stated that he wanted to outright remove it from the dsm-iv). if we are fakeclaiming each other in our community, this only makes us more susceptible to the people who want plurality to be seen as entirely fabricated.

on that point, we also need to have solidarity against non-psychologist singlets who fakeclaim systems. things like the r/fakedisordercringe subreddit can be legitimately damaging to the people who are posted, scrutinized, and ridiculed, and we should be protecting each other from that, not shoving endogenic systems into the line of fire.

there is scientific evidence of non-traumagenic and non-disordered plurality (there are some interesting studies linked on this page), especially in spiritual communities.

though not all endogenic systems are disordered, they Can be; having experienced trauma is not a diagnostic criteria for did or osdd-1 in the dsm-5 tr or the icd-11. though it's obviously highly common for did/osdd systems to have experienced trauma, a non-insignificant portion of diagnosed disordered systems (something like 4% iirc) are not traumatized.

to go with the above point, many endogenic systems don't claim to have a dissociative disorder or that their system is disordered. if you're worried about people 'appropriating' or 'faking' your disorder, they largely are not, since plurality can and does exist outside of disorders.

as a traumagenic system, i feel unwelcome and threatened by anti-endogenic folks. i've been fakeclaimed by anti-endos before, either because they mistook me for an endogenic system since i support them or because they decided the behaviors i perform on the internet are evidence i'm faking. i'm not the only traumagenic system this has happened to.

i think that's the main points, i may have more idk

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Hello! Uh. Francis Mosses from That's Not My Neighbor is a transfemme mirrohbreezic astheworldlittledarkagesongic takeaslicesongic badgoodmelyrica hypersexual lesbian with ptsd, depression, anxiety and anxiety induced paranoia, and ADHD!

"HI SORRY IT TOOK ME WAY TO LONG BUT. THE REST OF THE NEIGHBOURS Roman Stilinsky is a trans butch lesbian with chronic fatigue  Lois Stilinsky is a cis poly lesbian with separation anxiety  Robertsky Peachman is an unlabeled semi-verbal autistic man  Albertsky Peachman is an aroace autistic man Angus Ciprianni is a cis bisexual man Selenne and Elenois Sverchzt are both catgender ladies with bpd and seperation anxiety Arnold Schmicht is a trans heteroflexible man Gloria Schmict is a cis unlabelled woman  Izzack Gauss is completely unlabelled Margarette Bubbles is a cis polyamorous lesbian Nacha Mikaelys is a transmasc non-binary lesbian with anxiety and adhd Anastacha Mikaelys has a trauma-related anxiety disorder Mia Stone is a trans biflexible woman Dr. W.  Afton has autism Francis Mosses (already done :3) (Can be just. Condensed down without the neogenders it feels weird to have her with all the flags nnnnnn) Steven Rudboys is a bigender pansexual objectum person with ptsd McClooy Rudboys is a cis pansexual aromantic man with ptsd Alf Cappuccin is an ally Rafttellyn Cappuccin has generalized anxiety disorder, and anxiety induced halluciantions. (Bonus) The Scarlet Milkman doppleganger is a non-binary agender lesbian with autism The dOOrman (my oc, art by@/otherworldlyoddities) is an eldritchgender aromantic cuiposexual lesbian with dycalcula and adhd"

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ID: a set of 42 images in 21 pairs. each has one image of the listed thats not my neighbor character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Roman Stilinsky from That's Not My Neighbor is a trans butch lesbian with chronic fatigue! 

Lois Stilinsky is a cis poly lesbian with separation anxiety!

Robertsky Peachman is an unlabeled semi-verbal autistic man!

Albertsky Peachman is an aroace autistic man!

Angus Ciprianni is a cis bisexual man!

Selenne and Elenois Sverchzt are both catgender ladies with BPD and separation anxiety!

Arnold Schmicht is a trans heteroflexible man!

Gloria Schmict is a cis unlabeled woman!

Izzack Gauss is completely unlabeled!

Margarette Bubbles is a cis polyamorous lesbian!

Nacha Mikaelys is a transmasc non-binary lesbian with anxiety and ADHD!

Anastacha Mikaelys has a trauma-related anxiety disorder!

Mia Stone is a trans biflexible woman!

Dr. W.  Afton has autism!

Francis Mosses is a transfemme hypersexual lesbian with PTSD, depression, anxiety and anxiety induced paranoia, and ADHD!

Steven Rudboys is a bigender pansexual objectum person with PTSD!

McClooy Rudboys is a cis pansexual aromantic man with PTSD!

Alf Cappuccin is an ally!

Rafttellyn Cappuccin has generalized anxiety disorder, and anxiety induced halluciantions!

The Scarlet Milkman doppleganger is a non-binary agender lesbian with autism!

The dOOrman (art by@/otherworldlyoddities) is an eldritchgender aromantic cuiposexual lesbian with dycalculia and ADHD!

For @gmanwhore !

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anyone here into soramafuurasaka...... ive been listening to noryoku hikitsugi de otome game all day nonstop

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pisses me the fuck off when people act like israel “protects” judaism globally. cool yeah could you maybe explain what happened in 1982. how lebanese mizrahi populations were specifically targeted. how beirut was so completely destroyed that an entire generation of my family doesnt have birth certificates. i guess it doesnt count when the jews you’re killing are arab.

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NPDMAXXING/NARCMAXXING

a gender in the gendermaxxed system for when your gender is NPDpilled and NPDmaxxes you are NPDmaxxing.

This gender is exclusive to people with NPD.

flag coined by:: @rabidbatboy

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Crowfeather is transfem bigender lesboy with he/they/she pronouns

Leafpool is transneutral agender demisexual bisexual with she/xe pronouns

Mothwing is transmasc butch lesbian with she/they pronouns

Those characters are from Warriors

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ID: a set of 6 images in 3 pairs. each has one image of the listed warriors character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Crowfeather from Warriors is a transfem bigender lesboy who uses he/they/she pronouns!

Leafpool is a transneutral agender demisexual bisexual who uses she/xe pronouns!

Mothwing is a transmasc butch lesbian who uses she/they pronouns!

For anon!

Art by @/berrym00n

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eli from blush blush is a nonbinary, pansexual (both canon!), gender non conforming, rosboy and has HPD, NPD, and delusions of grandeur! they use any/all pronouns with a preference for he/they!

poe from blush blush is a transmasculine, agender, queer, bxy with depression, BPD and autism, he uses he/xie pronouns!

they are in love ^_^

-🐶☀️ anonnie :3

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ID: a set of 4 images in 2 pairs. each has one image of the listed blush blush character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Eli from Blush Blush is a nonbinary, pansexual, gender non-conforming, rosboy and has HPD, NPD, and delusions of grandeur! They use any/all pronouns with a preference for he/they!

Poe is a transmasculine, agender, queer, bxy with depression, BPD and autism! He uses he/xie pronouns!

They are in love!

For 🐶☀️ anon!

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Idefluid: a gender that fluctuates between terms, but can usually be described as objects/aesthetics. For example, it may be described as a forest one day, but a brick the next.

coined for Fins anon!

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sorry if you answered this before but how to you add sooooo many flags in a background? :o all off the collage apps i tried doesn't support more than just a few

no prob! i use gimp on my computer, and i do the same process as @mogai-headcanons ! theres a tutorial on its blog thats pretty comprehensive :]

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Happy lesbian visibility week/day to every lesbian around the world! I hope you're going to have a wonderful week, wherever you are. Your lesbianism is perfect and needed in the world. In this household, we love and appreciate the diversity of the lesbian experience <3

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Scott Pilgrim from scott pilgrim (comic) is transfem genderfluid asexual sapphic bi lesbian and uses she/he pronouns!

She is dating Ramona Flowers, a trans woman uniamouria freakpretty unnatahairdyeic princian catgender demiaroace sapphillean bi who uses she/her pronouns!

Wallace Wells is a girlfag guygirl agender aromantic gay and uses he/him! His boyfriend, Mobile, is a trans man gendervoid demiromantic achillean and gay and uses he/it pronouns!

Knives Chau is a transfem nonbinary schooldoodlic killoveic veiraine lovesickgirl zombcandygirl dirtbagteengirl sleepycute musicfluid aroace queer bi who uses they/them pronouns!

Kim Pine is a trans woman aromantic bi who uses she/her pronouns!

Stephen Stills is aromantic butchbear lesbianconnec gay bear guy who uses he/him pronouns!

Young Neil (Neil Nordegraf) is a GNC trans woman demiboy lesboy aroace lesbian and uses he/him pronouns!

mikey after ignoring 14 other requests in favor of doing his mutuals scott pilgrim request ^w^

anyway this is posted and also i love it

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ID: a set of 16 images in 8 pairs. each has one image of the listed scott pilgrim character as they appear in the comics, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Scott Pilgrim from the Scott Pilgrim comics is a transfem genderfluid asexual sapphic bi lesbian and uses she/he pronouns!

She is dating Ramona Flowers, a trans woman uniamouria freakpretty unnatahairdyeic princian catgender demiaroace sapphillean bi who uses she/her pronouns!

Wallace Wells is a girlfag guygirl agender aromantic gay and uses he/him!

His boyfriend, Mobile, is a trans man gendervoid demiromantic achillean gay and uses he/it pronouns!

Knives Chau is a transfem nonbinary schooldoodlic killoveic veiraine lovesickgirl zombcandygirl dirtbagteengirl sleepycute musicfluid aroace queer bi who uses they/them pronouns!

Kim Pine is a trans woman aromantic bi who uses she/her pronouns!

Stephen Stills is aromantic butchbear lesbianconnec gay bear guy who uses he/him pronouns!

Young Neil (Neil Nordegraf) is a GNC trans woman demiboy lesboy aroace lesbian and uses he/him pronouns!

For @chaosdreamerr !

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inspired by a few other blogs

Id fit in SO much more if I could manage, I even limited myself to xenogenders :/

the divisions are edgy/gore/horror, tropical/summer, fallen angel/angel and 2020 alt loser btw. I cannot trace all of their origin for the life of me but all besides plurgender, monsterenergygender and decoragender should be in @favscarymovie (hoard blog)

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May I request some Owl House characters?

Luz Noceda is an autistic butch canonically bisexual gender-nonconforming girl who uses she/they pronouns and has ADHD, PTSD, and depression.

They are in a relationship with Amity Blight, an autistic femme witchgender canonically lesbian demigirl who uses she/her pronouns around her mother, but uses she/they pronouns around their friends and loved ones, and has anxiety.

Raine Whispers is an autistic trixic (NBLW) canonically nonbinary transmasculine person who uses they/them pronouns and has PTSD and social anxiety.

They are in a relationship with Eda Clawthorne, a butch disabled canonically bisexual witchgender woman who uses she/her pronouns and has ADHD, chronic pain, and dream anxiety disorder.

posted!