loserpuppy13

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what does a guy have to do around here to be sexualized. for crying out loud.

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we're not playing house we can either play psycho killer vs helpless victim or crazed cult leader + devoted follower

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world's shyest attention whore

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dirty things in my ask box, please 🙏

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rb to tug prevs' collar

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Hi puppies I made a discord server for us to hang out in :3 It's an 18+ nsft t4t place where we can talk to each other and be degenerates and stuff

its pretty new but a few people are already in there :3 There are sfw channels as well

Its called The Kennel

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GIVE ME ATTENTION WHY IS NO ONE GIVING ME ATTENTION I PROMISE IM PATHETIC AND PRETTYYYYY

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reblog if you want anons

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realizing i followed a fetish/fetish-adjacent account on instagram without realizing :p

i thought they just did really cool cosplay that just happened to always incorporate latex lol

man i'm fucking dumb sometimes. still a really neat creator but honestly maybe i should have realized that a person putting black latex tentacles on their face was a sign haha

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Give me something to jerk off to <33

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everyone says fuck the OSA

the petition to repeal the Online Safety Act has reached 135.5K which is OVER the 100k required to trigger a debate in parliament. That is down to all you. Our punks. And everyone you shared it with, sent it to, or told about it. As a reminder when I first set you on this petition there were less than 20k signatures. That was less than a week ago. Thank you, you mad lot. All the love.

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We Are Porn

Hot take but maybe the way to stop the negative effects of porn isn't to ban a whole art form and restrict people' ability to express their sexuality but to get better sex-ed.

The sex ed in my state is okay, I guess. We got taught more than abstinence, but the bar is low in America. We weren't really taught anything about protection other than condoms and birth control, nothing about queer or even just nonpenetrative sex, and just the basics of consent. There's more to a healthy relationship with sex than that, because there's more to sex than that.

I first started viewing explicit materials on reddit. R/hentai. Maybe not the best place to start, but I liked the drawings more than real photos, as well as the fantasy and kink elements. I always felt a bit off about how the women always seemed like they weren't having much fun in those pictures, or the weird proportions, probably because I was both an AFAB and someone who was imagining myself in the submissive's place.

There wasn't anything in the subreddit about differentiating fantasy and reality or remembering consent or aftercare. Many people get into porn young- you aren't supposed to, but everybody knows that you tend to start getting your sexual urges when you're a teenager. Young people are very impressionable and inexperienced, and probably won't realize that hentai is unrealistic as fuck or have the tools to differentiate it. The same goes for young adults who maybe didn't have good sex ed and aren't experienced. Cultural depictions of sex are often flawed and misogynistic, because they're catered to the male gaze.

I got off r/hentai pretty quickly after I realized there were other subreddits with artwork and kink. The subreddits actually, explicitly focused on bdsm, like r/gentledungeon, would often post about consent, safety, unrealistic expectations, and also included porn/erotica centering the female experience, queer people, aftercare and what should happen when you use a safe word. The people were always depicted as having a good time together. Later on I found a webcomic called "Boo! It's Sex", which is entirely about sex education aimed at young adults with a larger focus on healthy relationships, consent, pleasure, queerness and different kinds of sex, and a more in-depth look at health and safety. There is something to be said about I got more comprehensive sex ed from Webtoon than from my high-school health class, but I digress.

I think the main issues that stem from porn and cultural depictions of sex is that porn doesn't cause misogyny, but misogyny and the way society views women as sex objects impact porn made for the heterosexual male gaze- which is the most mainstream kind of porn. The problem of misogyny in porn isn't solved by banning porn, but by teaching comprehensive sex ed and healthy relationships and expectations, the difference between sexual fantasy and sexual reality, and by dismantling the broader perception of women as objects for men to use- an idea that is not, in fact, found throughout all of porn, and can be found in many non-sexual works as well. Should we ban all movies, just because a woman is used only as a plot device to further the male protagonists' arc? Because a woman is used by a male mastermind as the disarming honeypot for a scheme? Because a woman has the role of her husband's impulse control?

But of course, that's all only if someone is being sincere their belief that porn is inherently harmful to women. A porn ban will not affect heterosexual men on pornhub and r/hentai the most, but queer people, whose existence is seen as inherently sexual, inherently fetishistic. Queer media, like in every ban targeting "sexually explicit" material, is what they really go after, even when it isn't sexual at all. This makes it harder to find community and express ourselves, it silences our voices and erases our stories. It does nothing to actually solve misogyny in depictions of sex- locker room talk, female characters made for the male gaze, sex jokes that degrade women, calling women sluts and whores and prides, that will continue because it's a symptom of larger cultural misogyny. But that's not the point. The point is that they think queer people are dangerous to women, that queer people are sick, are obscene, and that we are porn and should not be depicted.

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THiNGS YOU NEED BEFORE YOU DO BDSM:

first aid kit

tourniquet

narcan

at least 8gb ram

childhood photo album

acetone

thirty decoy safewords (zero real ones)

headlamp

updated wills for all participants (preferably notarized)

getaway vehicle

a pack of cigs and a few beers

PSAT score of at least 90th percentile or higher

spare tire

working knowledge of microsoft excel and powerpoint

small bills, for the tip

an up-to-date road atlas

a drive to succeed and innovate in a fast-paced, forward-thinking environment

noise-cancelling headphones (one pair per participant)

bolt cutters

at least C1 knowledge of standard chinese

gamefaqs guide

permission slip signed by a parent or guardian

spare penis

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need a dick so someone can jerk me off while laughing about how small I am and then teasing me for getting all stupid and squirming so much

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Haven’t seen many people talking about this. One of the groups behind pressuring steam to remove adult content is a TERF group backed by conservative Christian groups. Once again the root behind a lot of anti-porn talking points is transphobia/transmisogyny and the idea that being trans is a social contagion caused by porn/‘pervertedness’

Now, the group is claiming responsibility for Steam’s new payment processor policies, with its co-founder calling impacted gamers “porn sick” and “brain rotted.” In one case, the organization even retweeted a notoriously anti-trans feminist who declared that “pervert nerds are responsible for most of society’s ills.” The retweeted feminist, a self-described “trans-exclusionary radical feminist,” proceeded to write under her post, “Evidence #1: trans.”