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SAFE LANDING

The Soyuz MS-06 spacecraft is seen as it lands with Expedition 54 crew members Joe Acaba and Mark Vande Hei of NASA and cosmonaut Alexander Misurkin near the town of Zhezkazgan, Kazakhstan on Wednesday, Feb. 28, 2018 (Feb. 27 Eastern time). Acaba, Vande Hei, and Misurkin are returning after 168 days in space where they served as members of the Expedition 53 and 54 crews onboard the International Space Station.

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You got to learn how to vibe alone. You can't live your life being dependent on other sources of energy. You have the ability to be self sufficient so tap into yourself once in a while.

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Rare, Poignant Photos of Frida Kahlo During the Last Years of Her Life

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How I Practiced Self-Control to Avoid Emotional Imbalance Caused by External Forces

I just had a conversation with an old friend of mine earlier, and I was sharing my experience last year on how I was able to practice detaching myself to things/people that could potentially cause emotional imbalance within me.  I told him, “It’s a natural thing for me to always think about something, even if I choose not to. So instead of trying to stop myself from thinking, I accepted it and studied myself and how I think. I learned to differentiate when my mind was overthinking and when I was thinking on a normal sequence. I only had one practice so far, and it was to think about things or people in my life. Without sharing my opinion about them, under this practice I learned self-control and emotional regulation. As the practice progressed, I learned that I also shouldn’t let myself think about or focus on something if I don’t plan on giving my personal opinion. And because of this lesson, I learned that by not giving my opinion, I am conserving something that is personal. Therefore, reducing the risk of being hurt by contradicting forces.” Reflecting on this right now, I would like to inform you guys that I didn’t feel oppressed nor did I force myself to not speak, it was something that I naturally felt. Because my goal in mind was to live my life as I wish to live it while maintaining a “moral, logical, and emotional” standard. And unconsciously, (Credits to Sigmund Freud), I projected this mindset to everyone who surrounded me. Unfortunately, everyone has an opinion on everyone and everything. So I still received opinions about me from others (but some of them was actually me asking what they thought about me, to see if what I thought about myself was similar to how they see me), I found it entertaining because I had a close-relationship with myself. So they couldn’t affect my emotional balance. Hope you peeps can try this out and have the same results. If not, try experimenting on yourself and see what you fit into. ^_^

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By FDASuarez

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what drugs have you tried?

Girls

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March is about to be EXTRA as fuck.

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there’s literally no doubt in my mind that the entirety of the San Junipero episode of Black Mirror was based on this picture and that is….fine tbh

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Something about lava 😍

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https://www.instagram.com/p/BaoruG7B5sM/

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Find a girl that smiles when you choke her

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I realized I ask my girlfriend if she’s okay a lot. Even if she seems completely fine I’ll still ask “You good babe?” or “are you okay?” Or at least ask how her day is going just to make sure she’s not having a bad one. Even If she tells me she is fine I’ll ask her if there is anything I could do to make the day better. I’m sure she gets annoyed by my constant asking. It can happen multiple times a day. It seems like habit. And now, I finally think I know why I do this. When I was falling apart No one ever asked if I was okay.

I realized I kept asking if you were okay because I wasn’t (via 1112pm)

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when her breath brushes against your ear and you feel the entirety of your body shiver.

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“My mother passed away during childbirth, and a woman from a nearby village tried to purchase me from my grandfather. At first he was insulted, but the woman kept begging, so he finally agreed to marry her into our family. She never breastfed me. She never showed me affection. And the moment she had children of her own, she abandoned me. I was ten years old at the time. Her new husband threw my school bag into a lake and told me to go find work. I moved straight to the city. There were times I was so hungry that I made soup out of goat food. But I never begged and I never stole. There are a lot of bad people in the city, but I was lucky enough to meet the good ones. People who showed me the right path. A restaurant owner let me live with him in exchange for washing dishes. Then when I was fifteen, an old Pakistani man taught me how to drive, and I became a bus driver. I met my wife while driving that bus. We have three children of our own now. I have nothing to leave them when I’m gone. But all of us are well fed and well housed.” (Dhaka, Bangladesh)