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his name is boogersnot

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grainy

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i don't care if mondays fucked, tuesday wednesday kiss my nuts, thursday this shit fucking sucks, it's friday im in love

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How it felt to finally give in and start listening to Sabrina carpenter

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Happy gay month to my gays because yknow theyre gay and stuff

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Only day you can rb this

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I feel like pygmy leaf chameleon

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"what groceries u been into recently" is actually a great question, there's a bunch of good conversations inside it

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Ideal work schedule:

I show up and am given a list of cognitively engaging but achievable tasks

I complete the list

I leave immedietly

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everybody was normal fighting~ *non-racist riff*

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This is ur sign from the universe to go on t because ultimately u desire it. Don't be scared its so much better without the grief n guilt n shame. Take my hand...

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Happy Pride

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If you're a TERF you're a gender fascist. No other way to spin it. You claim your ideology is about protecting women and children but what it actually necessitates is an overfixation on people's genitals and the persecution of a minority group that does not actually hold institutional power. You insist on fitting humanity into two strict boxes that do not reflect the true diversity present among 8 billion of us. The moment you start talking about "large gametes"--what the fuck are you doing?

All fascists cloak their actions in protective language. But unless you're going after the white male billionaire class that actually holds the most power and does the most harm to both humanity and the planet, you're not protecting anyone and your "resistance" is not worth anything.

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"no kink in public don't walk your partner on a leash where other people might see" and just let him run into the fucking road??????

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My arse is not doing work right now, just Deus Ex Machina in mind

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hot take: we're literally already past the point of the fascist us government recognizing "detrans awareness day." this terminology is not salvageable

if you're cis, you're cis. if you initially came out as a trans man or a trans woman and later realized you're nonbinary, you are still trans. being nonbinary is trans. if you are being forcibly denied medication and healthcare that you previously had access to, or if you are closeted for your safety after previously being out, then you're obviously still trans you're just experiencing transphobia.

we don't need the "not all detransitioners are transphobic and some of us support transition" takes. we don't need "detransition" as an identity.

the construction of the terminology itself suggests that being cis is a default state that one can theoretically always "return" to through medical "reversal" (and thus, implicitly also through denial of medical care, or coerced medical procedures). this framework is transphobic and is very predictably used to further explicitly transphobic political projects. this is not a hypothetical to debate, but a description of how the term is being leveraged functionally right now.

please stop trying to resignify this terminology. this is a losing battle over a term that erases specificity of experience and contradicts sexgender theory and analysis that we collectively rely on for trans liberation.

I'm not criticizing anyone who previously used or currently uses this term. I'm not saying that you were or are transphobic. I am not making any judgement about any individual at all with this post. I am speaking about political tactics and where we go from here.

I am begging you to find other language to discuss your experience. please.