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🚨🚨VERY IMPORTANT: SCAMMER ALERT🚨🚨(Feedism Tumblr)

OK. So I've began to notice something on feedism Tumblr. I'll keep it brief and simple:

Almost all of the accounts using the #ao3feed tag are a collection of scam accounts. They all have vague and incredibly similar bios, all following the same predictable formula.

More importantly they all are using STOLEN PHOTOS and are gaining MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF TRACTION looking for feeders, who I can only assume they beg for money from which is why they're running this whole racket.

Idk why there are so many accounts, and I don't know who's running them but those are the facts as they are. If you see an account using #ao3feed or having a bio that follows this formula:

20 something

Feedee

CW (something)

GW (Big number usually somewhere around 400-700)

Please report them. And please spread awareness of this. That is all

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pizza!

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a moment between maids

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MOOO chapter one!

Find the rest either on Patreon or purchase the .pdf!

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hiiii ur blog is cute just wanted u to know

Awww thank you, cutie

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Mititei is a amazing garlicky, savory open casing sausage that is a amazing street food of România! It's a bitch and a half to make in the states but it's soooooo good, you gotta try it once! :3

It does sound good, if I have the occasion I'll try it

Also, Serial Experiments Lain is such a good anime

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You're already out of breath and tired? But I just stuffed you to the brim... You're a pathetic slob

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I’m gaining all the weight she’s losing 🥵🥵🐷

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We had so much fun filming this slice of life video showing me drive my big man around and filling him up with greasy fast food. 15+ minute video will be posted on our OF later this week!! Let us know any other exhibitionist or day in the life content ideas you all would like to see!

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Art by sooftly_ on X/Twitter

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red flags in feeders (a warning for feedees)

I've been thinking about some of the red flags I've seen in feedist circles over the years, primarily displayed by feeders.

here are some signs to watch out for when you're with a feeder:

🚩 they only say "feederism" (which centers feeders in the community, pushing feedees to the margins) and never "feedism." 🚩 they ask for payment in return for encouragement, but refuse to help you deal with the cost of gaining (e.g. outgrowing your entire wardrobe, eating more food). 🚩they constantly lament their attraction to fat people and/or preference for fat bodies. 🚩 they're unprepared for the realities of having a feedee/fat partner. 🚩 they care more about your size than your happiness. 🚩 their idea of what counts as 'fat' is inherently tied to a certain weight. 🚩they're staunchly anti fat acceptance/liberation/etc. 🚩 they make you talk about your traumatic experiences with fatphobia because it turns them on. 🚩 they try to force you to wear only tight and/or revealing clothes by any means necessary. 🚩 if/when you lose weight, whether intentionally or not, they get angry at or disappointed in you. 🚩 they constantly try to push your limits when you haven't asked them to. 🚩 they pressure you into aspects of feedism that you aren't comfortable engaging in. 🚩 they're unwilling to incorporate broader kink best practices such as aftercare, safewords, RACK checklists, etc. 🚩 they don't support sex workers' rights and/or accuse feedists (especially feedees) in this community who ask for money of being "fakers." 🚩 they play oppression olympics (acting like any marginalized groups they're part of "have it worse" than fat people, therefore they're *always* the victim and you're *always* the one at fault). 🚩 they don't believe fat people are a marginalized group whatsoever, or refuse to say whether or not they do. 🚩 they believe stereotypes about fat people and treat us as a monolith (e.g. "all fat people are greedy" and "the fatter someone is, the lazier they are" etc.) 🚩 they throw a temper tantrum when you retract your consent/change your mind about how big you want to be.

that's all I can think of at the moment, but I'm sure there are more out there.

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Why did you loose weight if still in the kink?

Life exists and there is more than one way to enjoy feedism.

Also I will add something that many people tend to forget.

Feedee =/= gainer

Feedees can be skinny and wishing to stay like this.

They are still valid.

Feedees can lose weight for any reason, wether they're not happy with the weight, health reasons, work reasons, etc.

They are still valid.

Feedees reaching a weight and not wanting to go any further.

They are still valid.

Feedees who doesn't want to pig out on fast food but to have healthy meals.

They are still valid.

Feedees who exercise in order to stay fit.

They are still valid.

Feeders and Fat admirers, you have to remember the most important thing, it's the feedee's body, not yours.

Their bodies, their choices.

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Can you please give me some motivation? I’m new to this and I can barely eat 2000 cals a day, idk how I’m gonna gain anything :((

That's not motivation you need hon, it's help, don't try to overeat to gain if you're just a beginner. Start slowly, slightly increase your portion and add a little snack between all three meals. And then, when you feel comfortable with your new portions, increase it slightly again, add a bit more snacks. Repeat that process as much as you need. There's also no need to eat 5000 calories a day to gain weight, even if you eat 100 calories over your daily need, you will gain weight

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Thanks to u I’m always horny and out of breath I’m 360lbs but I hope to reach 400lbs soon😍🥵

You hope? No, no, no... You are going to. You will stuff your greedy ass until you almost burst everyday in order to reach 400lbs and you will keep gaining after reaching it!