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Sorry I’m tearing up I suddenly thought about my beloved golden retriever who died at the vet clinic after a neighbour poisoned her right when I was waiting outside the door to see her because she was waiting for me before leaving this world and when she heard my voice she knew I had come for her and it was enough so she left in peace

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Listen how come advertisers hoard my data but they can’t for the life of them give me ads on stuff I’d be interested in

I’ve gotten ads in French for baby diapers. I’m not French. I don’t live in France. I don’t have a baby.

I hate Shein. I hate polyester. I hate fast fashion. I buy selected pieces of clothing once in a while. And what ads do I get?? Fucking Shein!!!

I already use Preply and Duolingo and Asos. Why am I getting ads about apps I already consistently use???

AI is a stupid tool that can’t even do the one thing it has been created for smh

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I want to like. Forget I was a victim of incest. Be delulu about it and pretend it never happened. Never talk about it ever again and live like it never happened. Can you do that? Are you allowed? Like. Just drop the weight of it. Normal girl with no trauma from now on. Hope this new approach works

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“stop traumadumping to your friends tell this to your therapist” my god they paywalled human connection

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A lot of Social Justice ideas aren't even that bad lol, they've just been adopted by people who don't understand anything. Take cultural appropriation, for example. People were very very reasonably like "it's kind of uncomfortable and weird when people use important cultural/religious symbols of cultures/religions they don't belong to for fashion or other frivolous things" and somehow tons of people just heard "white people buying pocky at the Vietnamese grocery is an act of violent racism."

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Y’all don’t give therapy time to work.

You get a month worth of sessions and say “this isn’t helpful at all” and just leave.

The two years mark for therapy is for people who are there for like. Mild anxiety. You and I bestie? The girlies with severe debilitating trauma? With personality disorders? You gotta sit your ass on that couch in your therapist’s office for at least a couple years before you see any results. Two years is what it took me to understand how bad my issues were. Four years to get to the worst trauma. Seven years to feel like I can manage my symptoms on my own and I have a chance at life.

You cannot heal trauma of sexual assault, parent neglect, several years of childhood abuse, several years of relationship abuse, an entire personality disorder and all that shit in a few months. Therapy takes time.

Unless your therapist is being grossly unprofessional you have to grind through at least six months before you make a decision.

DBT and talk therapy DO work, but you have to be consistent, patient and hardworking. It’s never going to work if you always quit because you’re not seeing immediate results.

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Yeah but girls who identified as mermaids didn’t get prescribed life altering medications and getting entire body parts amputated.

Y’all are dense as fuck.

"ohh what if my kid starts identifying as a CAT because of the trans agenda we have to prote—" well they've always done that. do you remember the psychological effects of h2o on young girls. of warrior cats on autistic children. i believed i was a demigod because of percy jackson. twilight came out and kids were telling their friends they were secretly vampires. this is just a thing kids do. worry less

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I love it when animals have tiny hands. Like. Raccoons grabbing cereal? Hamsters holding sunflower seeds? Amazing. Makes my day every time I see an animal with small hands. Nature’s best work so far

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I saw a TikTok a few days ago where a woman said “some of you are confusing wanting a husband with wanting universal income” and I’ve been thinking about that for a while now

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keep your DISGUSTING polyester sweaters AWAY FROM ME

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Sometimes I forget how hard it was to get here. I was convinced I wouldn’t live past the age of 20 but I’m still here. I’m fucked up and everything in my life is a mess but I’m here. That’s a lot. My eighteen years old self would be amazed. She never thought she’d see this age. She counted the months she had left to live and there was no light in her eyes. I’m fucked up, I’m lost, I’m damaged and full of cracks and scars but I’m here. That’s a lot. I can’t let myself forget how much that is.

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It’s so sad when a child spills something or breaks something by mistake and they immediately go into a panic and start apologising.

Why are people mean to kids. Why are you yelling at your child over spilled water on the table. Why are you angry at your child for breaking a plate worth five bucks. It’s a child. They have little hands and not much motor coordination.

Why do y’all have kids when you don’t have any kind of emotional regulation skill

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Consider that maybe if you need to lie to get a diagnosis that’s not the right diagnosis and HRT isn’t candy?

Lie to your doctor when you're asking for HRT. Tell then you've had dysphoria for years even if you haven't, tell then you're a trans woman/trans man even if your gender is more complex than that.

Tell them everything they need to know to prescribe HRT and nothing else.

Your case and claims will be picked apart and examined under a microscope, looking for any reason to say no. So tell them exactly what they need to hear to say yes.

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Maybe I should stop expecting from myself to be able to function normally while experiencing abnormal and traumatising events and/or severe symptoms of mental illness

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Losing the adgf wars big time