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Why Age Gap Relationships Don't Work?

Why Age Gap Relationships Don't Work?

Big age-gap couples often downplay each other’s age. They say things like, “He’s older, so he’s more experienced” or she’s younger, but she’s very mature for her age. They don’t take into account that they’re both in different stages of life and that if something goes wrong, the younger person might want to explore a bit, start to enjoy exploring things, and become doubtful about his or her…

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Why Is My Ex So Desperate To Find Someone New?

Why Is My Ex So Desperate To Find Someone New?

People are desperate to find someone new after the breakup for various reasons. Dumpees are desperate because they’re hurt and want to feel validated and secure whereas dumpers are detached and eager to meet new people. They want to forget about their ex and experience everything life has to offer. For many dumpers, “everything” includes dating someone they know nothing about. They finally feel…

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I Humiliated Myself After The Breakup

I Humiliated Myself After The Breakup

If you humiliated yourself after the breakup, you probably begged and pleaded with your ex, showed up at your ex’s door/work, proposed to your ex, sent your ex gifts, got your ex’s family and friends involved, got caught pretending to be in love with someone else, or did something your ex found desperate and repulsive. Whatever you did, you made yourself look committed to your ex and eager to…

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My Ex Messed Me Up Mentally, How Do I Recover?

My Ex Messed Me Up Mentally, How Do I Recover?

It’s very common for breakups to mess us up mentally and emotionally. Breakups have devastating effects on us as they cause a blow to our self-esteem, confidence, and direction in life. They completely blindside us and tell us to forget our hopes and dreams and start from scratch. But because we’re not ready to accept the new reality and let go of our ex, we enter the stage of denial in which we…

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No Response To Closure Text: Reasons And Solutions

No Response To Closure Text: Reasons And Solutions

If you sent a closure text to your ex but got no response, your ex doesn’t see the pain you’re going through or doesn’t care about it. Either way, your ex feels victimized, smothered, and uncomfortable and would rather focus on himself or herself than engage in conversation with you. The thought of speaking with you makes your ex feel uneasy, so your ex does the only thing his or her level of…

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Disappearing After Being Dumped

Disappearing After Being Dumped

It’s highly recommended to disappear after being dumped. Your disappearance not only demonstrates you respect your ex’s decision to leave but also shows you respect yourself. It proves you understand what your ex needs from you to be happy and that you’re not afraid to pull away and make your life about you. Disappearing after the breakup is what the dumper and the dumpee need. The dumper needs…

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How To Respond To An Ex Who Hurt You?

Most dumpers are so focused on how they feel and what they want to feel that they don’t realize or care they hurt you. They’re so done with the relationship and feeling miserable that they prioritize themselves and respond automatically (instinctually) to things their ex says and does. This is how they protect themselves from unwanted thoughts and emotions and stay in control of their…

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When An Ex Reaches Out To Apologize

When an ex reaches out to apologize, his or her goal isn’t to persuade the dumpee to get back together. It’s to obtain forgiveness and alleviate feelings of guilt. By doing so, the dumper can get some difficult emotions off his or her chest and move on with a clear conscience. A clear conscience is usually the last thing the dumper needs the dumpee for before he or she can start/continue dating…

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My Ex Reached Out And Then Went Silent

Exes often reach out and go silent after the reach out. They don’t see the need to communicate and stretch things out unnecessarily because they get what they want from their ex and feel they’ve closed the chapter. They’ve received forgiveness or have been able to forgive themselves for their mistakes or behavior, so they think there’s no need to keep talking and stay in touch. There’s no love,…

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Breaking Up When You're Still In Love

Unfortunately, most couples break up when they’re still in love. Someone (usually just one person (the attached one)) still has feelings and romantic expectations of the other person and undergoes painful separation anxiety, denial, fear, a loss of self-esteem, and much more. This happens every time a breakup is one-sided (initiated against the attached person’s wish) or when the attached person…

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What Happens When You Stop Chasing An Avoidant?

Chasing an avoidant is no fun. Every time you try to get close to an avoidant and think you’ve made some progress, the avoidant steps on the brakes and shows you that you’re not on the same page emotionally and interest-wise. You’re miles apart in that regard because you’re different people. You’re a person who likes to spend time together and bond whereas the avoidant (presumably your ex or…

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How To Make A Narcissist Regret Losing You?

Narcissists are extremely opinionated and stubborn people. They’re emotion-driven and unwilling to change their beliefs no matter how polite and right people are. They’re constantly under the impression that their views and emotions are right and that others need to respect them and think the same way as them. We could say that they don’t handle differences of opinion very well. The only opinion…

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How To Cope With Christmas Holidays Breakup Pain?

Christmas holidays can be very painful and challenging for dumpees. They can make dumpees feel incredibly nostalgic, lonely, and sad—as for the first time, they’re forced to spend Christmas without their significant other. They need to spend it with people who love them but aren’t romantically in love with them. And this doesn’t feel the same to them. It makes them feel strange as the thought of…

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I Regret Breaking Up With Her Months Later

Some dumpers never regret breaking up with their ex whereas others realize they’ve taken their ex for granted and want their ex back. Such dumpers get hit with waves of anxiety, nostalgia, and regret—and fear that their ex will move on and start dating someone else. Strong unwanted emotions make regretful dumpers feel a sense of urgency to reconnect and secure a place in their ex’s heart.…

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Were You Blindsided By A Breakup?

Blindsided breakups are the worst. They hit dumpees out of the blue and leave them with tons of pain and separation anxiety. Unlike dumpers who are detached and don’t care about their partners, dumpees are attached and care more than ever. They love their partners inside out and don’t expect to get broken up with. They have a positive relationship mentality and a false sense of control that…

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Leaving A Long-term Relationship For Someone Else

If you’re thinking about leaving a long-term relationship for someone else, you’re basically getting ready to discard someone you’ve committed to and invested in. You’re telling yourself that the new relationship will bring you more joy and happiness than the potential one and that you have to listen to your heart more than anything and anyone else. Your heart wouldn’t lie to you and deceive…

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5 Times When A Man Realizes He Lost A Good Woman

Have you ever wondered why men leave good women? Why do they abandon them and go with someone that is the complete opposite of them? I know I have. I thought men get bored or tired of women, but the truth is much more complicated than that. They take good women for granted because good women don’t challenge them. They’re emotionally stable people who provide them with love and stability. And…