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White, Cis Men...

....are worth just as much as any other human being. They’re not toxic, they’re not dangerous, they don’t deserve the abuse they get nowadays. 

They’re doting fathers, loving husbands, amazing friends, unnamed heroes who help others with the heavy bags or hold a door open for someone. So to all the white, cis men out there, you are amazing and you deserve all the hugs!

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Happy Halloween!

And time to appreciatel all the amazing costumes little boys came up with this year. Firefighters, policemen, superheroes, monsters, dinosaurs, or maybe dressing up as daddy? Whatever your son picked to be today, take as many pictures as you can, who knows if he decides he’s too old to dress up next year? And give him an extra big hug!

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Men Are Not Toxic

That’s it. Nothing more to say here!

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If you're white, straight or male this ones for you!

Don’t let tumblers toxic community get you down, you as an individual are not evil and have rights to complain about your problems and are no less than others as an individual.

Reblog to let your followers know you care!*

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Men Are So Brave

Just think about how fucking brave men are, for a moment. We expect so much from them and demand them to do some of the scariest things in our lives, namely romance someone. 

We expect men to ask us out, to show us that they’re interested and make the first move. Do you know how fucking scary that is? Think about your crush, how nervous you get when you see him/her, how your heart starts racing and your palms start sweating. You can barely look them in the eye without blushing, your tongue twists when you try talking to them and your thoughts constantly circle about how perfect they are and that they could never be interested in someone like you, who has flaws and can’t compare to them in any way. And now imagine having to put yourself out there, possibly humiliate yourself, just in case this utterly perfect human being might be interested in you too. It’s fucking scary and I don’t think I would ever have the bravery to go up to my crush and ask him to go out with me. Yet we expect men to make the first move, to do just that what so many of us are too afraid to do. And they do it, every fucking day even though it scares the shit out of them!

And even after years of dating, men are once again about to grow a gaint pair and do something that is even more scary than asking their crush out. Propose. 

They’ve decided that you are the one for them. Their perfect goddess/god, the one who holds their heart and who they want to spend their life with. They think you’re utterly perfect despite all of your flaws and want you to become the most important person for them. But the question is, do you feel the same? Sure, you’ve been together for years, you go on dates regularily and say “I love you” all the time, but this is serious, this is a persumed forever and unless you’ve given them countless hints that you’re ready for marriage, they have no idea how we feel. They don’t know that to us, they’re the perfect guy, the god of our hearts, the adonis that still makes us swoon. But they gather the courage to go out and get a ring, come up with something special to suprise us and then they do it. They go down on one knee and ask you to marry them and you can see how nervous every single man is, who ever had the bravery to ask a woman/man to marry them. 

And that’s just one of the many ways men are expected to be brave in every day life. So appreciate the men in your life and let them know how highly you think of them because nowadays, we don’t tell them these things often enough!

Remember, November 19th is International Men’s Day, making November the month to remember how much we value them!