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Me

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Going to explode! Need cuddles from a cutie patootie stat !

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Introduction

Name:

Eren ♡

Pronouns:

He/they

Age:

18

About me!

Hi my names Eren! My blog is mostly me resharing info and interests! I'm poly and currently am engaged to a really cool partner! I love them so much! They currently live in the states while I live In Canada. I like chatting and I love talking to new people! Autistic and ADHD. I'm a cane user and I'm always looking for ways to make my life more accessible. chronic pain baddie 😘

I have a conditional acceptance at a university to study youth and childcare and I'm always ready to talk about childcare and youth programming! I love volunteering a lot! Always looking for friends and not opposed to a bit of flirting haha (please please please DM me if your ftm or poly. I'm looking for more pals and also a cuddle buddy. Platonic or otherwise. I just yearn for affection lol)

~♡~ ~♡~ ~♡~

Please be kind! Have an issue shoot me a message

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Happy Pride Month!

Faust is back for the 5th time! If you want to use the flag of your choice as an avatar, they're under the cut. They're free to use as long as it's for personal use only.

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I hope something gay happens to me this pride month (actually at all would be nice)

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Reminder that you don't have to pass to be valid. You also don't have to look any particular way.

My personal transition goals are to look like a femboy and still have people assume my pronouns are he/him. I want people to think they are insulting me by saying I'm a man y'know?

Your transition goals don't have to look like mine and that's valid! We're all on our own journey

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there is no right or wrong way to be non binary, genderqueer, agender, or any other gender that rests outside of or some place in the middle of the gender binary, or complete lack of gender. you can present, dress, look and act however you want, no matter how "cis" or "binary" you may look to other people. it's not about them, it's about you. the amount of stress and pressure people place on non binary, genderqueer and other people who do not fit into a binary gender is asinine. you are not doing this for anyone but yourself, you do not have to appease other peoples' idea of what a non binary/etc. other person should be. keep on being yourself.

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there is no right or wrong way to be non binary, genderqueer, agender, or any other gender that rests outside of or some place in the middle of the gender binary, or complete lack of gender. you can present, dress, look and act however you want, no matter how "cis" or "binary" you may look to other people. it's not about them, it's about you. the amount of stress and pressure people place on non binary, genderqueer and other people who do not fit into a binary gender is asinine. you are not doing this for anyone but yourself, you do not have to appease other peoples' idea of what a non binary/etc. other person should be. keep on being yourself.

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Someone invent the ability to kiss through a screen so I can give my partner all the kisses

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Need a guy or gal to fall in love with me so I can have cuddles. My girlfriend had to go back to the states and I have so much affection to give and nobody to give it to. I mean falling in love isn't a requirement but I mean it might be a bit more fun for the both of us lolz. I provide affection,long yapping sessions(i can yap and be yapped to) and I love to watch movies and being a silly guy. I will make you deserts if you ask nicely 🖤

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computer how do I kiss someone through a screen. computer how do I pull him through the screen so I can cuddle him. computer. computer do you hear me

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I've been trying to explain this to people! The people making comments usually aren't even lesbians or trans guys so like maybe sit back and listen to the people who know a bit more? Idk I just wish people were more open, life is meant to be lived and everyone is unique so their experiences are unique also

The rise of discourse about trans mascs/trans men in the lesbian community has me realizing something.

So many of ya'll hate heteronormative standards, but are all too comfortable upholding cisnormativity. I'm fucking tired of people saying "maybe I'm not woke enough for this..." instead of trying to understand queer people's unique perspectives on gender and its relation to sexual identity labels.

Here's my take: Gender is complex and is defined differently by everybody. Womanhood and being socialized as a girl can be notoriously traumatizing due to the sexism ingrained into our society (especially when we're taught from such a young age that we will always be victimized and abused for being women). As such, when someone transitions to a masculine identity, those experiences don't suddenly go away.

And no, you're not "invalidating yourself" by saying you're a lesbian if you're a trans man. You're exhibiting a unique combination of female socialization and male gender identity. And you're not invalidating other trans men, either, because you're not forcing them to use the lesbian label.

Stop pushing queer people into boxes!!! Especially when the lesbian community is known for its gender-nonconformity and trans identities (butches and studs, for example, many of which are transmasc).

I could also talk about how this corresponds with a rise of fascism and conservative values, and that by pushing queer people down you are only contributing to homophobic mentalities, but you CLEARLY aren't ready for that.

Sincerely, a transmasc lesbian

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There's never an excuse to purposefully misgender someone. You can dislike someone without taking away their dignity

the way people on here jump to misgendering people they don't like is disturbing. it says everything about you, and absolutely nothing about the person you're misgendering when you do this. you're outing yourself as a disrespectful and potentially dangerous person to be around, not "exposing" someone else, or whatever. do better.

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trans men and trans women are not opposites bc men and women period are not opposites. man and woman are not two sides of the same coin they are two drops of water in the great gender ocean

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Grad dress! It shows up blue on camera but in reality it's a pretty emerald green! Wore my cloak because it was super windy! The earrings were made by my mom! They're so pretty and elegant. my mom joked that I'm good at cosplaying a girl lols #ally behavior? I walk the stage on the 26th so um not quite done but almost there! We had the dinner and dance and because my family can't listen I danced with my dad to the mom dance, mom said no to dancing to the dad dance so I danced with my Gramma and for the date dance I danced with one of my friends. Had a lovely time. Realized while on the dance floor that I can't dance outside of slow dancing and the ones you do in gym but thankfully my one friend has mastered feeling the vibe and she has taught me how to less awkwardly "dance" on the dancefloor lol.

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Exhausted and yearning for cuddles and kisses :(

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Every time I see somewhere pretty like by the river bank of the Saskatchewan River I think of how nice it'd be to have a smoke there 😭 I feel corrupted. Always yearning for a smoke