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When asking why, with question that you know has an answer and the answer you get is “I don’t know” or when asking what you could have done differently to change a situation and the answer you get is “nothing” you know there is something being hidden underneath. Is a person then really trying to protect you, or possibly themselves?

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Marriage vows, promises, covenants...

Someone once told me “expect to be let down and lied to because nobody’s perfect”... Expect that?!? NO WAY! I expect promises to be kept, vows to be honored and covenants to be held! Will I be let down, disappointed, lied to, hurt, crushed, broken, destroyed? Maybe, most likely, probably. But to EXPECT that, I refuse! Why say anything, why promise anything if you are only lying to them and to yourself. I do not believe the majority of people intend to break promises, vows and covenants. I expect the best from people, friends, family, loved ones, as I expect the same from me! When I am let down, I need to realize that perfection is the goal, never achievable this side of Heaven, though expected! Maybe I see the world through rose colored glasses, but I refuse to “expect” to be let down! Just sayin

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If you need to ask someone what exactly they meant, or what their true intentions were, I believe that means you already know, you just want them to admit what they really mean. Sometimes I tend to overthink things, I also feel that most people underthink things... People just spew off what they heard or what someone else told them to believe and they never really give it a thought of their own, like “oh this sounds cool”, and it may be a good thing and they may believe a statement at face value, though they never really do their homework on the subject and don’t really have a full understanding of the complexity of something before they decide to make an idea their own... just sayin

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Happiness comes with sacrifices…… when you make the decision to be happy, you have to let go. Let go of the hate in your heart, grudges you have, let go of those that have hurt you and forgive even if you feel they don’t deserve it, people that you thought were going to be there will be left behind. even people you once loved, maybe you still do. they will just be on the sidelines trying to bring you down. you will learn to grow without them, you will learn forgiveness, not just of others but of yourself too. I know it’s hard in the beginning…….. it gets easier.