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"I am not bothered about society, being a girl I am bothered about my identity"
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I am a girl A girl full of dreams Dreams which are shattering Shattering since childhood
Question is why?
Why dreams are shattering? Is my being a girl the reason? Or, I am not doing what I am supposed to do being a girl? Am I am not fulfilling the expectations of society? Society which starts from family itself.. The closest society!!
I wanted to be a Dancer But I was too old at the age of 9 years to join any dance academy, As per my society. Why? Because I am a girl.
I wanted to be a Pilot Like most of the girls, I couldn't get well along with mathematics, I cried for help I wanted to study maths despite of being a girl and average student. My society didn't pay any attention cz' it was not important for them. Why? Because I am girl.
I wanted to go out for studies and unfortunately I got good grades in 12th and to give a shot to my misfortune, I even got selected for a reputed college in University of Delhi. But..As per my close society I was too young to go out of city for studies. Why? Because I am a girl.
I aspired to be a Designer. And, I worked hard to be one. But..as per my society It was not a good profession for me. Why? Because I am a girl.
I tried to fight for my being myself and my existence To pursue what I wanted, to do what I would have loved But then I became "awari/badchalan" Why? Because I am a girl.
In sheer depression, I dropped college But emotional disturbance is not new for girls. And as per society norms it is okay to be a cry baby being a girl.
And by that time I had attained the age suitable for marriage. I was 21.. Too old to go after my dreams.
But also by this time the norms of society have been changed. Demands of buyers were 'well-educated', 'well-behaved', 'employed', household girl.
Now, I have to work towards society's dream for a girl. Ideal daughter, ideal daughter in law, ideal wife, ideal mother and so on. No space for self being.
Why? Because I am girl.
I am not a normal human being and I don't have a right to live normally. Why? Because I am girl?
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Because I am a slave.
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