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may you get a sign this week that shows you that you’re on the right path and that things are flowing and moving in your favor. may the sign be evident, clear, and direct

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Meet the Sweetest: Shareen! ۶ৎ

ᅠᅠᅠᅠᅠ🌷✨ Welcome, lovely soul! ✨🌷

you’ve just stepped into the softest corners of my little safe haven, where daydreams flutter like butterflies, heart whispers live in every post, and stardust is sprinkled generously on everything i share. 🌼 make yourself comfy, dear friend! 🩷 this space is stitched together with warm giggles, gentle ramblings, and pieces of my heart ♡ u ♡ whether you're here to stay or just passing through, i'm so, so happy to have you here. let's share stories, soft moments, and all the pretty little things that make life feel magical ౨ৎ ˙⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩

✿ page one: the girl behind the glow

name: Shareen Eudora Zinnia

nickname: Sha

pronouns: she/her

age: legal age, 20+

language: bahasa, english.

star sign: virgo

mbti: enfp (with 99% E)

hello, there! i’m Shareen Eudora Zinnia, though i go mostly by Sha — a name that feels like the gentle brush of petals and the start of a daydream 🕊️ i feel most at home when you call me Shareen or Sha, though you’re welcome to coin me a soft-sounding nickname, as long as it’s blooming with kindness 🌷

anyway, you’ll often spot me using Wonyoung (IVE), Sakura (Le Sserafim), or Minju (ILLIT) as my pfp, icons of beauty and softness i adore 🩷🌼

and yes, i’m legally grown — and soulfully glowing 🌙

✿ page two: before you tiptoe into my world

below is a gentle reminder of the kinds of accounts kindly asked not to follow or engage with this space.

a zionist and SA enablers, homophobic, racism, anyone who thrives on needless drama or loathes my faves. (this is a love-filled zone only)

this corner is my little sanctuary! ☁️ my account is 100% for yapping, think of it like a cozy diary sprinkled with randomness, real-life rambles, journal snippets, and updates on the people i love 💌

you'll find a little bit of everything: artists i cherish, musings about my day, and brain farts i need to let out 🤍 if we’ve met before, feel free to wave hello again — just please honor who i am now, not who i was. and, kindly let me know if i ever mess up, i’ll do my best to grow and learn ⚘️ don’t follow without asking, but my inbox is open like a storybook! just send me a dm or a mention if you’d like to be friends 🩷🌼

✿ page three: music for the soul, movies for the heart

i’m a movie girl at heart, a romcom enjoyer! (also a biggest fan of period movies), if you happen to share the same interest with me, yes! you just met the right person 🩷

📼 artists i adore, their music makes my heart dance: SEVENTEEN, TWS, IVE, Le Sserafim, ILLIT, IZ*ONE, ENHYPEN, NU’EST, The Boyz, Laufey, Wave to Earth, Grentperez, Beabadoobee, Sabrina Carpenter, Keshi, LANY, No Na, Chappell Roan, PinkPantheress, Clairo, Faye Webster (aka my emotional support playlists 🧃💗)

🎞 favorite movie and series:

romance | drama | fantasy | period pieces hopeless romantic and movie buff alert! i’m endlessly rewatching like a rituals: Pride & Prejudice, Roman Holiday, Clueless, Dead Poets Society, Picnic at Hanging Rock, Ghibli Movies, Emma, Harry Potter, Dune, La La Land, Before Trilogy, About Time, Becoming Jane, Sense & Sensibility, Legally Blonde, Mary Poppins, Devil Wears Prada, Bridgerton, Emily in Paris, Gossip Girl, Gilmore Girls, Downtown Abbey, Lemon Snicket, Perfect Blue, and more 🍿✨

i also adore k-dramas, c-dramas, j-dramas, and anime films when i need a little magic 🍃✨

✿ page four: and a little more magic

i’m a cat person with a heart full of meows and mischief 🐈

in my free time, i love to dance, do makeup, and crafting like crocheting, beading, or painting! little crafts that feel like therapy and daydreams stitched into reality 🎨🧶

so ... if you feel a little spark reading this, maybe we’re meant to cross paths 🌼 come say hi, share your favorite song, or just send me a gentle “hi” anytime!

let’s be kind to each other and build a timeline that feels like sunshine after rain. 🌷 should we seal this with a pinky promise?

with love, sha ♡

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Keep My Heart bag by Louis Vuitton ₊˚⊹ ♡

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good habits vs bad habits

So I've been thinking a lot lately about habits and some of the habits we think are helping us are actually making our lives harder. So let's talk about the habits that actually matter, the ones that are obviously terrible (but we do them anyway) and those sneaky habits that look good on paper but are quietly sabotaging your life !

The actually good habits (that don't require a PhD in self-discipline)

Morning Water Before Coffee: ur body just went 8 hours without water it's basically a human raisin. One glass of water before you caffeinate yourself into productivity mode helps everything work better. ur brain, ur skin, ur mood, ur ability to not feel like garbage at 2 PM.

The 10-Minute tidy: set a timer for 10 minutes and just put stuff back where it belongs. Not deep cleaning just returning things to their homes. This prevents the avalanche effect where your space gets so messy that cleaning feels like something impossible clothes back to the closet , that messy book shelf those simple stuff ..

Phone goes to sleep before u do: Put your phone in another room 30 minutes before bed or far from ur bed . ur brain needs time to shift gears from "consuming information" mode to "actually resting" mode. That last scroll through TikTok isn't relaxing you girlie it's like feeding your brain another cup of coffee and wondering why you can't sleep.

The sunday brain dump: spend 15 minutes every sunday writing down everything you need to do that week. brain-to-paper transfer , this stops your Monday brain from spending energy trying to remember what it forgot while also trying to function like a human.

The obviously bad habits ( and we keep doing them anyw)

The snooze button addiction: u are literally training your brain to ignore your own decisions. Every time you hit snooze, you're telling yourself "my word means nothing." Plus that extra 9 minutes of sleep is garbage sleep that makes you feel worse not better .

Stress eating ur feelings: food becomes the solution to boredom, anxiety, celebration, sadness ... . You're not actually hungry you're using food like a drug to change how you feel. The problem is it works for about 10 minutes, then you feel worse AND like sh!t

The comparison scroll: opening Instagram when you're already feeling bad about yourself is like pouring salt on a wound and expecting it to heal faster. You're voluntarily looking at everyone else's highlight reel while sitting in your own behind-the-scenes chaos and u start acting like a victim for the next days cuz u think u are not pretty as x

Saying yes when u mean no: this isn't being nice it's being dishonest y'know you're lying to other people about your capacity and to yourself about your priorities. Every yes to something you don't want is a no to something you do want.

The "good" habits that are actually destroying you

The productivity porn addiction: u spend more time organizing your to-do lists, finding the perfect app, and watching productivity YouTube videos than actually doing things. You've turned productivity into procrastination with extra steps. Your 47 different planning systems aren't making you more efficient they're making you feel busy while accomplishing nothing.

The morning routine obsession: You've created a 2-hour morning routine that requires waking up at 4 AM, journaling, meditating, working out, reading, making a green smoothie. One day you sleep in and the whole thing crumbles. Now you feel like a failure because you didn't do your 39 -step morning ritual (bruh 💀). A good morning routine should make your life easier, not turn you into a slave to your own schedule.

The Information overload trap: You're subscribed to 47 newsletters, follow 23 self-improvement podcasts, and have 12 books about habits on your nightstand. You think consuming information about improvement IS improvement no it's not. You're using learning as a way to avoid doing. Knowledge without action is just expensive entertainment .

The perfectionist planning: u spend three hours planning a workout routine that's so detailed and perfect that you never actually start it. You research the optimal time, the best exercises, the perfect playlist, the ideal pre-workout snack. Meanwhile you could have just gone for a walk. The perfect plan you never follow is worse than the imperfect plan you actually do.

The self-care performance: You've turned self-care into another item on your to-do list. Face masks on Sunday, meditation app every morning, gratitude journal every night. But you're doing it because you think you should, not because it actually makes you feel better. Real self-care might be saying no to plans, sleeping in, or eating pizza without guilt. But that doesn't look as good on Instagram so have ur OWN self-care ritual u are not forced to do a face mask on Sunday maybe it's a packed day, u can do it even on a Wednesday ?

The busy badge of honor: u wear exhaustion like a medal. "I'm so busy" becomes your identity. You pack your schedule so full that you don't have time to think about whether you actually like your life. Being busy feels productive yes yes but often it's just a way to avoid dealing with the fact that you're not doing what you actually want to do.

🧾 - last note !

You don't need a perfect system but u need a few things that actually work for your actual life, not the life you think you should have , start small, be consistent !

helpful blog - how to build a habit

@bloomzone

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ﾟ｡⋆ pretty girl ⋆. 𝜗𝜚 ⋆˚ ⊹

she is so pretty, smart, beautiful inside and out, dreamy, lovely, amazing, wonderful, divine, feminine. she is super confident and can handle anything. she knows her worth and knows exactly what she wants. her skin is glowing and she is in love with herself. she is me. i am her. ❀⋆.ೃ

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Your Life’s Not Boring—You’re Just on Your Phone Too Much

If you’ve been feeling glued to your phone—especially apps like TikTok and Instagram—you’re not alone. So many of us are stuck in this loop, and it can seriously mess with our energy, motivation, and overall health.

One thing I’ve struggled most with lately is comparison. Feeling like what I do just isn’t... enough. If you’ve felt that too, this post is for us both. A little reminder that:

✨ You are enough, just as you are. ✨ You’ve survived every hard day, and your inner child and I are so proud of you. Don't ever forget how far you've come as a person! If all you did was make your bed and hydrate today, that's a win worth celebrating. You're doing just fine, and you'll do all that you wish to on your own divine timing.

And yes, your life isn’t boring. You might just be too distracted to see how beautiful it really is. So instead of escaping it, let’s try to romanticize it!

10 Ways to Romanticize Your Life & Be More Present

Wake up a little earlier. It doesn’t have to be 5 AM (unless that’s your thing). Even an hour earlier can give you quiet time to get things done without distractions.

Take an "everything shower." These are pretty meditative for me in a way. I like to imagine the water washing off all my stress and stagnant energy I may have accumulated throughout the day. Like a reset button!

Make a breakfast you’d actually get out of bed early for. Pancakes? Fruit? Whatever makes your inner child happy.

Play jazz or soft instrumentals while doing everyday activities. Instant cozy vibes.

Read outside. Sitting on your porch or even by a window gives you that vitamin D and a fresh perspective.

Find a screen-less hobby you enjoy. Try crochet, painting, poetry, LEGO kits, pottery, etc. Block-building kits are my fave—they’re so fun and satisfying. Just remember to take breaks and stretch!

Re-watch something comforting or start something new. That show you keep skipping past might become your next obsession.

Connect. If you’ve been stuck in your room all day, talk to someone. Call a friend, hug your pet, or chat with family. A quick convo with my mom always boosts my mood!

Learn something new! When was the last time you went out of your way to explore something you didn’t already know? (and nope, school doesn’t count.) Take a moment to find a subject you’ve never looked into or dive deeper into one you already know a little about. Pick up on a new language, study an unfamiliar culture, or even try learning a random skill just for fun. Expanding your mind keeps life feeling fresh and exciting.

Travel (if you can). I can't stress this one enough!! Even just getting out of town for a single 24 hours can give you a whole new perspective. A change of scenery does wonders, especially when life feels repetitive. It doesn't have to be far, either. You can travel to the next city over and explore what it's like there!

Remember: Social media is NOT real life. That influencer who’s always partying in Miami with a closet full of designer bags? You’re seeing their highlight reel, not the full picture. Some even goes as far as faking luxury lifestyles for the views. Don’t compare your behind-the-scenes to someone else’s curated feed. At the end of the day, it's all for the aesthetics/entertainment.

Be gentle with yourself. You're doing better than you think, angel. xo, Kay 🪽

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⋆ ⟡ ♡ June will bring us peace

⋆ ⟡ ♡ June will bring us miracles

⋆ ⟡ ♡ June will bring us blessings

⋆ ⟡ ♡ June will bring us healing energy

⋆ ⟡ ♡ June will bring us financial stability