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ESTP - The Entrepreneur

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i miss the lana del rey sad girl daddy issues cigarettes smudged mascara doc martens fishnet socks the 1975 troy sivan iphone 5 highly problematic tumblr

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Lana Del Rey // Album Aesthetics (2012-2017)

Sometimes it feels like I’ve got a war in my mind. I want to get off, but I keep ridin’ the ride. I never really noticed that I had to decide to play someone’s game or live my own life. And now I do. I wanna move out of the black, into the blue.

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ESTP • aries sun • gemini rising • virgo moon

for : @faintestrella

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Myers Briggs Moodboard Aesthetics

ESTP - the entrepreneur

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MBTI Explorers

ESTP

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Bridging Differences: SPs

Every type has its blind spots when dealing with other people. Find out what each type ought to learn in order to deal with people in a more balanced and understanding way.

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Hello, I was wondering if it's common to get tired/warn out when spending time with your opposite. I'm an ESTP and currently on the verge of dating an INFJ. I've never experien a stronger connection, even though we couldn't be more different. We have such deep conversation and it really feels like we freeze in time when talking and I notice nothing but her. However I have begun to notice that every time we talk or hangout I am left feeling really tired, like a mental fatigue. She experiences the

[con’t: the same thing. What do you think about this? Could it be that we aren’t developed and mature enough. Would you advise to call off the relationship before it gets serious?]

Yes, it is common, but to understand this phenomenon you must understand the concept of shadow and what can happen when lower functions get activated, which is too long and complicated to explain here. Suffice it to say that you are both being “stretched” to the edges of your personality, which can be very tiring but also very refreshing and rewarding in moderation. Opposites attract at first because such relationships can put you back in touch with the neglected or repressed parts of your psyche. However, opposites often repel after awhile because continuously activating the shadow side can easily produce sensitivity, defensiveness, harm, or conflict. Generally speaking, it requires a certain degree of psychological maturity and relationship skill to keep these relationships healthy over the long term. Any relationship can work as long as both parties have the will to continue on. I can’t tell you how to run your relationships, that’s not my role. Every relationship has its set of advantages and challenges and it’s your job to learn how to navigate them successfully, otherwise, you’ll just end up repeating the same mistakes no matter who you’re with. See the Relationships section for general advice.

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ESTP Ego Development

This ego development profile is supplementary to the Type Development Guide. You are advised to read and understand the principles of ego development before using this profile, otherwise, you are likely to misinterpret and misapply the ideas. See: mbti-notes.tumblr.com/development#part2. Also note that this profile isn’t meant to be used for type assessment.

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meee

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And for those of us from the early to mid-2000’s who stayed up late (maybe when we shouldn’t have) we got to witness these slightly edgier gems.

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Istp 4w5 (487) sp/sx for @vrnom

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new and improved mbti test

1. Were you popular in high school?

     A. Yes (E)

     B. No (I)

2. Do you play sports?

     A. Yes (S)

     B. No (N)

3. Are you good at math?

     A. Yes (T)

     B. No (F)

4. Is your room clean?

     A. Yes (J)

     B. No (P)

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I'm not sure how to put it so it'd make sense,but here we go. I'm an isfp and I'm very sensitive to things like the weather outside, time of day,even the kind of light in the room I'm in. It's like those things seem to have an impact on how i'm functioning,for example I cant focus on things like reading or watching a movie in the middle of the day, I always prefer to work/study in the evening or at night, those things even influence how I feel, in a way. Is this an isfp thing or am I just weird?

you’re not weird at all!!! that’s totally an isfp thing. our secondary function is extraverted sensing which means that we are incredible at perceiving our environment. we are always picking up details about what we see, touch, smell, and hear in our daily lives, and often times they affect us a lot too, since it is the basis of how we interact with the outside world. on top of that, our primary function is introverted feeling, so the things we perceive usually affect us emotionally too. 

i always need to be in the perfect environment in order to study. it needs to be dim, clutterless, perfectly warm, aesthetically pleasing, the list goes on. and i’m like that for many things too, so I definitely understand!

-Jess

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Did a silly little thing to illustrate some differences between extraverted feeling and introverted feeling!

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Я убежден, что люди со мной только до тех пор, пока они одни. Как бы это сказать, я такой, переходный пункт. Не личность, а место, где можно переждать несколько тяжелых эмоциональных бурь, до тех пор, пока они не найдут «то самое» и уйдут. Я никогда не был для кого-либо особенным или единственным человеком, никогда не был ценным. В целом все заменимы, но, тем не менее, какой-то период ты можешь быть особенным для человека, ты можешь быть для него всем, целым миром.

Ты можешь, а я нет.

Нет злости на этих людей, но, наверное, есть обида. Я начинаю общение уже заранее зная, что скоро они уйдут, так ничего и не найдя во мне, просто убьют время. Может быть им будет весело, может быть мне тоже, может быть мы выскажем друг другу все то, чего никогда не сказали бы другим. Но правда в том, что уже через несколько недель или даже дней, мы разойдемся, ничто не будет держать нас рядом, потому что никто мной не дорожит.